Patient's moms boyfriend tried to get with me. Should I tell the mom about this?

[DreamLife7]

My work week weird as fuck. My patients moms boyfriend tried to get with me and told me that he won't tell the patients mom. I told him cool story bro but I have a boyfriend (even thought i dont). Like wtf dude can't even speak English got a translator on his phone asking me questions and dude is living off the patients mom. I don't know why she just won't leave him. He's such a cheater. She keeps going back to him. I want to tell her but she has to leave on her own. He's cheated on her so many times and is a bum so I don't know why she puts up with him. I don't think me telling her would do any good so I'm just going to maintain my lie of "having a boyfriend" so he can fuck off. And his nails were ugly like yuck 🤮.

Tell her

Don't tell her bc she knows he cheats but will never leave and blame you for it. Just maintain your boyfriend lie

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Those telling me to tell her , what good will that do? She likes toxic men

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Now I've made him uncomfortable in his own space. I showed back to work, talked and laughed with the patients mom. He said hi i walked past the guy as if he didn't exist. He looks scared and nervous. Next I'm calling ice tuh 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️

[Lynx122]

I wouldn't tell her. In the past I would have said definitely yes but now I've experienced how people can live in alternate realities just to make themselves feel better. She sounds like that type. I don't think you'll achieve anything if you tell her so I'd just keep it to myself.

[DreamLife7]

That's how I feel, too. She's definitely one of those. He's been unloyal to her so many times, yet she won't let him go. So I'm not wasting my time. I'm just gonna maintain my lie of having a boyfriend

[Billlewis]

I'd wait and see if he does it again, and then tell him if he doesn't cool it, you'll tell her.

[DreamLife7]

Yeah, but she's sp stupid that he would spin it and tell her it was me and she'd believe it, lol. Her entire family has told her to leave him but no she won't listen and it's clear that he doesn't love her. I wish she could wake up

[Billlewis]

Then don't say anything, but make it very clear that you don't appreciate his advances, if he persists.

[DreamLife7]

I will cause when I said cool story bro but I have a boyfriend he said bye! And left

[Billlewis]

If this took place in the office, I assume that there are numerous cameras to corroborate your version of what happened, correct?

[DreamLife7]

Not in an office patients home. If he tries it again which unfortunately the Mexican can hardly speak English I will make it clear I will report him to the police

[DizzyDesii]

I think she knows he cheats. But if you wanna ask her one day like “Do you know how flirty your man can be? Are you guys in an open relationship because he was asking some inappropriate questions when you werent around?” My ex that I had my longest relationship with is trying hard to win me back but basically emotionally cheating on his girl in the process. I remind him daily to just let her go since its clear she's not for him, but he says she's homeless without him. But i mean this trick doesn't work, she's got him raising her son, and i mean she's just not benefiting him in anyway. And i slick want to laugh everytime he says, “she won't do the things you did. We barely has sex. She doesn't love and support me like you did.” And he just keeps asking shit trying to secure a spot back in my life before he dumps her. Maybe i’m leading him on a bit by not straight up telling him off, but I’m enjoying the closure and the regrets he's having. However i also see the pain he's in and know what its like to be trapped. But ever since he's shown up again, there's been issues with my guy and i, despite him not having anything to do with our issues. Still its odd cause everything was perfect til he showed up this week. he's even asked me to move to another country with him when he leaves this girl. Like dude what? And he knows im seriously into my dude but he thinks he can snatch me from him since he technically took me from one many years ago. Its just, I’m no longer physically attracted to him nor emotionally attached, so he just can't pull me again. I feel bad for his girl and know if he's doing this to her, he likely did it to me around our last few months when i got paranoid about him and a coworker. I definitely think you should say to the lady what i said above. I’d love to say something to my ex’s girlfriend but i wouldn't even know how to go about contacting her

[DreamLife7]

I dont believe they're in an open relationship they got into a fight (a physical one) several times for him cheating. I don't think she'd appreciate him coming onto someone caring for her sick daughter. I want to mention what you said but he made me so dang uncomfortable like yuck. No respect for women nor himself just dirty. As far as your ex well, he snoozed so he losed lol 😆. He should've thought about how good you were to him before. It's too late now you've moved on

[DizzyDesii]

Oh i know theyre not open but i wanted you to say that to her just so she understands how hard he's flirting.

[DreamLife7]

I want to so bad lol 😆. But she will not let that boy go and I don't know why

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii you're right.. I told her like you said.

[DizzyDesii]

What she do

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii she didn't go in the defensive like ," you lying my man isn't like that" type stuff because he's done this before. She was crying though. And asked me if that was why I didn't show up to work the other day and I said yes.

[DizzyDesii]

Man that is sad

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii another worker said he makes her uncomfortable too

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii you wouldn't believe this. She said she's going to put a nanny cam in the house to make sure he behaves 🤣. Wow that's not going to stop him from cheating

[DizzyDesii]

Yea she's still allowing him to act out

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii should I stop working there?

[DizzyDesii]

No but let her know if he continues to bother you, you’ll report him

[DreamLife7]

@DizzyDesii girl he's mad I told her lol. So I haven't been back there. She keeps asking me to come back and I just found out here's not even documented. Meaning he's here illegally

[DizzyDesii]

The tea!

[exitseven]

Tell her. The truth is the only way

[Kelly6]

don't tell, she won't beleive you

[DreamLife7]

I told her, she cried and still stayed with him. He's cheated on her before

[hbkfan]

Yes because that is him being dishonest

[TheSpaceGnome]

Tell her.

[eagle1951]

tell her