No one is nice 24/7 and it also depends on what exactly you mean by "nice". If that refers to someone willing to do your bidding when it suits you or deplete themselves in terms of resources such as money, energy and effort then by comparison doesn't that make you mean to exploit that trait? Eventually every "nice" person hits their limits, realise they've been taken advantage of and flips to show their not-so-nice side. Some people need to experience this a few times to realise their own patterns and others know it instinctively and chose to walk away when they see a pattern of their partner expecting far more than they give.
In short, Yes nice people exist but they'll only be able to be nice for a certain amount of time before resting and building.
Yes they do. And it's women whos trying to complicate it by labeling those simps who becomes incels later on calling themselves nice guys as "nice guys". While it's true that's what they proclaim themselves to be, they don't really have to go with it to complicate it ruining the real meaning of nice guys which brainwash girls into believing that guys who are just genuinely nice are those "nice guys" those other girls are talking about which is way they seek for bad guys only to regret dating them later on. Nice is nice and bad is bad. Just look at the dictionary so you don't have to complicate it.
Not only that idea is brainwashing girls but it's also brainwashing guys to be bad just to be seen as "manly" believing that being genuinely nice just makes them weak.
Yeah they exist. But they always come up empty handed. At least the ones I know of. Girls don't want a guy thats super nice and sweet. Maybe only to take advantage of. They want a regular guy that's nice but not sweet nice. kind of an asshole. A mans man. One who cares but not really.
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I just came here to say I've noticed your username for a while but now you have a pic. If that is you, I'm glad you're not hiding your face anymore. You are very pretty.
Girl's like bad boys whatever that means guys that aren't boring and scares if their female head. But u know what happens after u date a bad boy and u happen to be with him. He will eventually put u to side and cheat on you when he can maybe make u a baby and leave you and after all of that u will stop and think in ur past 30 well where are all the nice guys. Harsh truth. Nice guys aren't boring or whatever those are also the good guys that u are neglecting because u want to have fun.
I used to be nice. Every girl I have ever dated cheating on me, and a cheating ex-wife later, and no. I have no patience for nonsense. I'm not nice, nor do in want to "get laid."
All I've ever wanted is someone who I could love and trust. That was wrong of me. My bad. Now I just want to be left alone.
I gave it all, and I don't believe I have anything left to give.
The question for me is, do "nice girls" still exist? X for doubt tbh.
Yes! My older brother is very nice like for real he is nice to everyone.. they are just hard to come by because most "nice guys" are just putting on an act.
Yes there are some nice guys but hard to find. And they can always change on you like mine did. He was so sweet for years, then started yelling at me for no reason. It was weird.
Oh, we're out here, and for the most devout, dedicated nice guys, sex is almost an afterthought; we're much more interested in kissing your ass than bouncing our balls off of it.
i dont decide. nice is bland. Boring. To me anyhow. and no im not fighting my own demons, that might be just you. with chicks i love quirkiness or confidence in thier own skin.
I believe tht humans come from nature. And nature is wild unforgiven and ruthless. Being nice serves a purpose but its not the default mode of a human. Humans are selfish by nature and will do anything to ensure their survival.
I was always raised right and have the utmost respect for ladies and treat them right! So yes! The problem is we often get taken for granted and get crapped on because maybe we’re not “bad boy” or manly enough, etc?
People generally want to be nice and/or kind but we often decide for them before ever getting a chance to know them. We let the bad few speak for the majority because negative experiences stick out in our minds more than the positive ones.
just cause you have your own demons and your own package to carry doesn't mean you have to act like an asshole right? so that's not in the way of bing a "nice guy".
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No one is nice 24/7 and it also depends on what exactly you mean by "nice". If that refers to someone willing to do your bidding when it suits you or deplete themselves in terms of resources such as money, energy and effort then by comparison doesn't that make you mean to exploit that trait? Eventually every "nice" person hits their limits, realise they've been taken advantage of and flips to show their not-so-nice side. Some people need to experience this a few times to realise their own patterns and others know it instinctively and chose to walk away when they see a pattern of their partner expecting far more than they give.
In short, Yes nice people exist but they'll only be able to be nice for a certain amount of time before resting and building.
Yes they do. And it's women whos trying to complicate it by labeling those simps who becomes incels later on calling themselves nice guys as "nice guys". While it's true that's what they proclaim themselves to be, they don't really have to go with it to complicate it ruining the real meaning of nice guys which brainwash girls into believing that guys who are just genuinely nice are those "nice guys" those other girls are talking about which is way they seek for bad guys only to regret dating them later on. Nice is nice and bad is bad. Just look at the dictionary so you don't have to complicate it.
Not only that idea is brainwashing girls but it's also brainwashing guys to be bad just to be seen as "manly" believing that being genuinely nice just makes them weak.
Yeah they exist. But they always come up empty handed. At least the ones I know of. Girls don't want a guy thats super nice and sweet. Maybe only to take advantage of. They want a regular guy that's nice but not sweet nice. kind of an asshole. A mans man. One who cares but not really.
I just came here to say I've noticed your username for a while but now you have a pic. If that is you, I'm glad you're not hiding your face anymore. You are very pretty.
Thank you ☺️
Yes I still believe nice guys exist! Just gotta keep looking.
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You mean with "nice guys" kind people or the term used for guy who think they are nice while beeing the biggest incels/weirdos there is in my gender?
Girl's like bad boys whatever that means guys that aren't boring and scares if their female head. But u know what happens after u date a bad boy and u happen to be with him. He will eventually put u to side and cheat on you when he can maybe make u a baby and leave you and after all of that u will stop and think in ur past 30 well where are all the nice guys. Harsh truth. Nice guys aren't boring or whatever those are also the good guys that u are neglecting because u want to have fun.
I used to be nice. Every girl I have ever dated cheating on me, and a cheating ex-wife later, and no. I have no patience for nonsense. I'm not nice, nor do in want to "get laid."
All I've ever wanted is someone who I could love and trust. That was wrong of me. My bad. Now I just want to be left alone.
I gave it all, and I don't believe I have anything left to give.
The question for me is, do "nice girls" still exist? X for doubt tbh.
Yes! My older brother is very nice like for real he is nice to everyone.. they are just hard to come by because most "nice guys" are just putting on an act.
Yes there are some nice guys but hard to find. And they can always change on you like mine did. He was so sweet for years, then started yelling at me for no reason. It was weird.
Oh, we're out here, and for the most devout, dedicated nice guys, sex is almost an afterthought; we're much more interested in kissing your ass than bouncing our balls off of it.
The reaction buttons aren’t working on my phone, but that’s the funniest thing I’ve seen all day! 😂
@RedInnocent68 I'm glad I could do that for you;)
i dont decide. nice is bland. Boring. To me anyhow.
and no im not fighting my own demons, that might be just you.
with chicks i love quirkiness or confidence in thier own skin.
something interesting i need to figure out.
Never niceness
liked fight club though
Nice guys are just nice people, and nice people do exist.
Yes I do. Or what yolk you perceive to be a nice guy.
I believe tht humans come from nature. And nature is wild unforgiven and ruthless. Being nice serves a purpose but its not the default mode of a human. Humans are selfish by nature and will do anything to ensure their survival.
I was always raised right and have the utmost respect for ladies and treat them right! So yes! The problem is we often get taken for granted and get crapped on because maybe we’re not “bad boy” or manly enough, etc?
People generally want to be nice and/or kind but we often decide for them before ever getting a chance to know them. We let the bad few speak for the majority because negative experiences stick out in our minds more than the positive ones.
Yes they do but tbh people don't give a damn on nice guys. They always think that they are too boring
just cause you have your own demons and your own package to carry doesn't mean you have to act like an asshole right? so that's not in the way of bing a "nice guy".
Of course they do. I know many of them. They are also relatively rich. If you want to meet nice guys, move to Seattle.