What does it mean and how detachment works?

[piang]

how to do it

[Billlewis]

Just flatly refuse to see him until you've gotten him out of your mind.

[piang]

thats really need courage

[Anonymous]

😆 you keep picking them bad boys and now you all f-ed up.

[piang]

well we
didn't know that their bad at first. until its too late. 😢

[Opinion Owner]

I would like to apologize and retract my state. I wrote that at a time of insecurity. I've changed my mind a lot about women and have developed more adoration and respect for women. I was wrong for saying that. You don't have to forgive me I just want to apologize that was immature of me to say.

[Agape93]

Detached in regards to what?

[piang]

to someone

[Agape93]

Like your emotions and such? Or detached from them as a person?

[piang]

both

[Agape93]

For myself, it's psychological issues. @OlderAndWiser ideas?

[piang]

yeah but is it about like
not talking or messaging?

[Agape93]

For me, I'm already emotionally fucked up so detachment is pretty much a given and my mind shuts off people once I decide to leave them

[OlderAndWiser]

The first step is to be very honest with yourself about your motivation. Are you really breaking up and wanting to forever end your relationship, or did you "break up" to get his or her attention and try to elicit a response from your partner. I don't advocate using a break up as a manipulation, but many people do it.

If you really want to end the relationship forever, then you must commit yourself to accomplishing that goal. Here are a few things I have written over the past five or six years on this topic:

HER: ". . . but you're a great guy and we can stay friends." HIM: "Bite me!" ↗

No Contact: A Silly Game Or An Effective Strategy? ↗

Breaking up: you may want to die. . . but you won't, so do yourself a favor and deal with it! ↗

I hope there is something in here that will help you.