My child's father wants to spend the night. Is it weird or do you think he wants us to be a family?

[Anonymous]

Is it weird or do you think he wants us to be a family

[Summeroflove]

It depends on how you feel about it. It’s your house so you can say yes or no depending on if you feel comfortable or not.



Another thing is just talking to him and asking him his intention and your gut response to it.

[Staximus]

Why would you even have a kid with a guy who didn't want to be a family?

[Asker]

Omg I don’t know Nancy you tell me 🤣

[Staximus]

Are you retarded or something? You asked if it's weird if your child's father wants to spend the night. You already had a kid with him

[Asker]

Omg did your mum fuck her brother and made you, you’re boring me. Go to hell!

[HollyK21]

I wouldn’t gather that he wants to be a family again just from one night, let his actions over time do the talking.

[sheikalana]

Maybe he wants your child to have good memories with both their parents.

[DextroShade]

You should go back to him and complete the family you started!

[Anonymous]

Nope I wouldn't allow it. If he wants to be a family he would make an effort to take you out on family gatherings. Since he has only asked to spend the night, it comes across he is just looking for sex

[Asker]

We have been out together with our child

[Opinion Owner]

You came here asking for advice and we have all basically told you the same thing but it's clear as day you are believing him wanting to spend the night is him wanting to be a family. Why did you even bothering coming here and asking for advice if you are going to the dismissive.

Oh well go set yourself up to be screwed over and let him spend the night

[Asker]

Looooool I literally responded to you calmly. Facking ell mate calm down.

[Asker]

It’s *bother by the way not bothering

[slatyb]

Seems like a hard no.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[Anonymous]

if you had his child why ARE YOU NOT a family?

[AliceM611]

Yeah he wants sex

[Asker]

He said he wants to stay overnight to be there for the baby and he will sleep on the sofa bed

[AliceM611]

Yeah. He needs a place to stay or is hoping to end up in bed with you.

[Tim2nice]

He could sleep on the floor, couldn’t he?

[AliceM611]

@Tim2nice he could but he wants sex

[Tim2nice]

He could always relieve himself.

[Jmmmfi4]

HARD TO SAY WITHOUT KNOWING MORE

[nawtee_me]

He just wants sex