Be honest have you ever cheated on your partner?

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If so, what was the reason and how did it happen?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes when I was younger and it was a learning experience to never do it again , cuz it’s so wrong to do to someone period. let alone I been cheated on a handful of times by girls’ so that’s another reason I don’t rush into commitment with a girl anymore , I been on both sides of the spectrum to realize I am not going to give my heart to someone that can’t give me their heart in return. After my divorce from my cheating ex wife , I encountered even crazier shit when it came to entering the dating world again , after many years. I was so lost on how things have changed and how selfish people have become, I ended up sleeping with married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , I ended up in bed with girls’ that said they were single when really they weren’t , so it just goes to show why I am the way I am today , I have a lot of walls protecting my heart from selfish girls’ that only really care about themselves , basically there way or no way , I didn’t give up on relationships all together , but it just seems harder to find these days , Honesty is probably the only thing that really attracts me to a girl these days , if she is honest with me I will be honest with her , if she can’t wear my shoes like she expects me to wear hers , it’s over , when a girl is honest with me and hitting on me , giving me those eyes that she wants me to rip her
Clothes off I don’t care what her relationship status is I realized that isn’t my problem , that’s hers, if she wants to go back to her husband or boyfriend after she just swallowed my load go for it , have a blast wasting your time with someone you truly don’t love but thank you for a Good time. Sadly this is how I have become , I am tired of having my heart shit on , i just focus on myself and do what’s best for me , until I meet a girl that truly knows what it means to be in a relationship and truly knows cheating is wrong period , my ass is staying single , Most girls I meet sadly are cheating selfish girls that will stay loyal to you until they get bored

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

Yes , but only when I knew everything was pretty much fcked , so I really dont consider it cheating , when I was married I was NEVER unfaithful , and if I'm in a long term scenario , I'm never unfaithful. But , if I see it going nowhere , then I just go for it , but who in their right mind would waste their time in this situation?

As for women , over the years ( I was single at the time ) , I had 4 affairs with married women , but I wasn't cheating , they were , one used to climb though my window at 3 am , that was fun for a while , One was a mates wife but he was sleeping around with a multitude so that didn't worry me , and the other two were both out of property industry , married women are often the easiest to get because they are bored , I dont have to live with them , so its much easier for me to put in a bigger sexual effort. Ohh there was another one of those too , a sharehouse , but she'd sneak in in lingerie after she sent the boyfriend home , but again I was single , so I was not cheating she was.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I wasn't happy in my last relationship but I wasn't willing to give up without trying to work through our problems. He was never abusive but he did not know how to show affection and was usually unhappy because of a troubled family background.

MsShy87 · Accepted Answer

No, I never have. I've been cheated on though and the resulting trust issues along with feelings of inadequacy are terrible. I'd rather break up with someone than put them through that.

AviatorTom · Answer

Technically yes. We had been separated for over a year, with the finalized divorce only months away. I spent the evening with a female escort.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

No. I never have & never will. If I’m unhappy enough that I’m looking elsewhere then I should just break up and seek happiness. Conversely - if I’ve given solemn vows that that is a binding act which is among the most sacred a person can make.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no I haven't. I have been cheated on twice and still remember how it feels, so I would not like to do that to someone else.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope... and I've always been honest about it, lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never cheated, but I have had guys cheat on me a few times.

JacobJordan · Answer

nope. I can't even get attracted to other people because that is morally wrong

Drumlin2001 · Answer

No. Though i have thought about it with one individual who i have known longer than my partner

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

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LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. I won't give up my integrity for a POA.

OddBeMe · Answer

Nope. It’s a certain type of person that does that. Like serial killing.

lirikri4 · Answer

Who tf am I gonna cheat with? lol stop being silly

Disha10 · Answer

Yes i have cheated on my ex when i was with him

Anonymous · Answer

I'm doing it. He stopped paying attention to me.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

You want confessions? It’s not even Sunday…

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope. I was cheated on

B5567 · Answer

I accidentally cheated on one sadly..

Imaguyandagirl · Answer

No, that would make me a scumbag

Lisia · Answer

Never did 😊

exitseven · Answer

No, never.

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh, I don't even have a partner

KrakenAttackin · Answer

No, never.

Joker_ · Answer

sure have!

PendJes · Answer

no i never

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