When a man truly falls in love with you he falls in love with you..
Can't make somebody love you and don't even try because then it's fake and you don't want that
The best thing you could do is just be yourself no matter what
Because the guy's going to look deep into your eyes when he talks to you he's going to listen to your words he's going to look at everything you do and see how goofy you are how smart you are how confident you are how happy you are how in control of yourself you are that's what a man falls in love with the real you if you try being anybody else it will never work it will always fail
Beautifully written!
Show him your heart and tell him your secrets. That would go a long way to make me love a woman.
I wish all guys were like you🙊🙉🙈❤️
Awww thanks 😊.
Your welcome, I’m just being honest ☺️
Thanks. I hope you find a loving, passionate and exciting relationship 😊
Aww wow you sound like the best human bean… who are you? Lol 🙊
It's flattering that you share your personal feelings with me... it's nice to feel trusted 🙂
You deserve to feel flatter for just being you🤭 You seem like someone I could trust and more..
You're very sweet. Thank you 😊
Thanks for the MHO. 😊
And you’re very welcome ☺️ you deserve it!
Thanks, you're kind 🤗
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u You don't MAKE a person fall in love with you, and. . . if you DID have such power, how special would it be when they say "I love you" only because they are under your spell?
men are very simple at heart. if you treat a man right, you compliment him, you encourage and support him, if he is vulnerable you let him be vulnerable you DO NOT EVER use that against him no matter how annoyed you get. be an addition to a mans life. be soft, kind and gentle. be caring respectful honest supportive etc. ultimately be feminine and a man will fall in love with you maybe not the first one but one of them will you just need to avoid getting reeled in by someone who will not treat you right
I am all of those things tbh lol. Everyone around me tells me I am. I am also very feminine yet independent. Am I just selecting, dating, and meeting the wrong men who don’t seem to value that in me? 🥺
the 1 trait you listed that will make things difficult is independent. independent means you don't need others. it certainly could be that you are meeting the wrong men or selecting the wrong men. to know that you would need to share more information. such as what are your standards? where do you go when looking for a partner?
I guess I keep going for people who I think are good men initially but they don’t turned out to not be what they initially presented themselves to be…
Standards? Mutual respect, good intentions, honesty, loyalty, commitment
Meet guys? I believe love can be anywhere lol. Guys flirt with me even when I’m driving or by the stop light lol, public places, club/bar, dating apps
well I would highly recommend removing clubs and bars from your source to find partners. have yet to see a single long term relationship form from 2 people meeting over alcohol and/or partying. statistics state that any given person is liable to meet their future husband/wife in 1 of 3 situations. 1 work. 2 family/friends and 3 hobbies. relationships can form outside those but they have a much lower chance immediately of developing into a long term relationship or marriage. now many places in america have banned dating coworkers or colleagues. which if listened to removes 1/3 of all potential partners. if you want a good man then you would want to rely on your hobbies or family/friends (meaning your family or friends introduce you to a guy)
I wouldn't recommend charming or casting spells. Even if not really complicated, they don't add any value. Simply put, they don't create a genuine connection; they just make a person under the influence of a spell attracted to you. The form of the attraction depends on the past experiences of that person, making it totally unpredictable.
So, I would rather try the old-fashioned way of spending time on getting to know each other better. If something grows from it, it will be stronger and more meaningful than any spell or attempt to "make others fall for me."
You want a REAL man to really love you, here's my steps for you to have one:
1. tell him that you're an old fashioned lady and against feminism
2. tell him that he's your everything and your top priority
3. tell him that you are all his and that you're living for him and that he's the oxygen that you breath
4. be always available for him, especially after marriage and never mention the consent sh*t cause you already gave him an eternal consent after marriage, for sure you can say no to sex if you're suffering from something harsh that forces you not to have sex!
5. keep a delicious meal on the table, always remind him how much you love him and care about him...
6. try to make surprises for him, even if they are simple, they might mean a lot foe him...
These were mt 6 steps to assure having a man falling deeply in love with you 😌
Unfortunately I did 9/10 those things to two of my last exes because I just love them and wanna be the best for them… and I don’t believe they fell in love with me…. They took me for granted instead. /:
I'm talking about REAL NOBLE MEN not scumbags with male bodies trying to look manly...
If you have done these steps and the guys haven't feel in love with you, it means that he's one of these 2 types, first he's taking advantage of you because he worth trash and 2nd maybe because you ain't his type, but if a guy finds out that a girl ain't his type than he shouldn't take advantage of her...
Personally if i find a woman like this, i'll marry her today before tomorrow!
LOL you’re so funny and into something here. Oh my, well… I am that type of woman… 🫢
Onto *
Well what can i say? Come here and visit me so i see you haha
It really makes me sad when i find such real ladies being treated awfully like that, maybe this is a life lesson for you that a princess should not accept clowns and jerks, she must find a prince who knows her worth and value 😊
Women with such traits are rare these days...
You're 2 exes should of dated feminazis pigs so they learn how to value real women like you...
@Katebfun what individualism? After a sacred marriage god makes the husband and wife as one, physically and spiritually, there will be no him and her anymore cause they turned into one...
Also having someone as your everything means that nothing comes before him, he is on top and would leave everything for him but ofc you're still yourself and have your own things to love and do but he's the biggest fraction of them all...
Anyways thanks for liking the most steps that i have mentioned...
I can only sincerely speak for myself.
I'd have to be attracted, visually, or something about her that I quite liked, of course. This can develop after having already met as well. As I learn about her, I might find that I quite like her, right?
Other than that, just having the ability to relax and enjoy one another's company. I think dating seems hard because many people are so tense, then don't seem to know how to just exist with each other.
They don't need to prove anything to me, I'll learn what they are about over time. And I should be afforded the same leniency. That's my thoughts. And it seems to work well enough with women who care to be friendly.
We're all somewhat awkward noodles just wigglin about best we can. We should be humble enough to accept this.
Came home to find my ex had the committing diaharea bug. She was in bad shape. She was dumping in the toilet and vommitted on the floor then had to get up to vommitt in the toilet and shit all over the floor and felt so sick like she was going to pass out she had to lie down on the cold bathroom floor still vomiting and crapping lying down. That's where I found her. I had to shower her down, then I put her in a warm bath while I cleaned her shit and vomit off the floor, I bleached that, it was disgusting, she was so ashamed. I got her some imodium and she slept it off.
vulnerability... but i don't know the guys you dated what they were like... maybe they weren't sensitive... maybe you aren't but could be... it's hard to fall in love... they say if it happends once your lucky or fortunate... i have a cousin and she easily lived with 10 men and they all sound like the same man but they weren't... which tells you how difficult it really is
I was about to tell you my usual approach when I like a guy, but because of the description I'm not sure if that'll be enough.
If they never really loved you it's maybe because you don't take enough time in getting to know them. Maybe you both moved too fast or the relationship didn't even last long after you two got together. Which is it? :(
1) please tell me the approach!
2) it’s funny cuz I never wanna move fast but THEY always wanna move fast and I feel the pressure to agreed after 1-2 months dating when things seem like cloud 9 ya feel me? Lol. Um it usually will last almost a year or almost 2 years but it’s the same shet I feel like where it becomes unhealthy, they’re selfish, they take me for granted, and end up being liars… etc
1) I treat them like a friend. I know, sounds pretty terrible. But I spent hours or weeks just talking to him, hanging out. Talking about what we're both into, go watch a movie together we both like, for example. As friends. No pressure to date. And I use that time to have him completely drop his guard, trust me and tell me personal things about his life, or if he's having a bad day. You're there, and he's going to appreciate that. You'll be in his head as either a good friend or a potential partner. Either is a win in my eyes.
And all while hanging out, every now and then, here and there, you go in for a light touch or get close. Subtle touches like touching his shoulder, touching his thigh with yours when sitting next to him. Maintaining eye contact when talking or listening to him, subtle things like that... And if the topic happens to be a relationship you can tell him what you would do in that situation. For example a friend brought up his ex, crazy exes were the topic, and that's an opportunity to share information with him on what you would do as his girlfriend if you were in her shoes. What you would have done differently, basically a bit selling yourself like a little job interview and putting the idea in his head of you two being together could be like, what he could expect. And you can also fish for answers from him, what would he do? What does he want to do in the future? What's important in a relationship for him? As a mild curiosity :)
I don't go into dating right away because I want to know what kind of person I am dealing with, so I know what things he values in himself, in others, a potential relationship. And if you know for sure that he's That guy you want, you ask him out. If not, stick to the plan until you know, or until he asks you out. Is it too soon, tell him. If he doesn't respect it, gets angry, pushy, dramatic etc, he's not That guy. If he respects your wish, it's a sign of a good guy.
Gosh that's one block of text, sorry. Hope you can bring yourself to read all that :(
2) Don't move into a relationship if you don't want to, if they pressure you, you pressure back, that's where it begins. A lot of people jump into a relationship as quickly as buying a new bag. And just like the purchase, the relationship could also be full of regret. If you don't know who the person is you're letting into your house, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship yet.
How well do I know this guy? How much do we have in common? How well do we get along? What's his love language? What does he find important? Are his and my future plans in line? Can I trust him? Just who is this stranger I let into the house?
Thanks for being amazing, I’m taking notes❤️
Just be yourself.. they'll fall in love when it's meant to be
It doesn't happens like this miss victoria lisia, no sane man is going to fall in love with a statue who has nothing to offer, read my answer and when you finish reading it, it's either you will be filled with feminism rage or be cool and smile 😂😂
Thanks girl ☺️🫶🏻
@TonyMetal___86 bruh not a statue, just yourself.
I'm happy cause i'm myself, but what i meant are the traits that you have which makes you approachable or not 🦜
@TonyMetal___86 yeah some traits, but at the end of the day even with those traits you still get approached by some people depending if they like how you look
True, but personally i care more about the traits cause i ain't searching for a one night stand, i'm seeking for happiness and true love, looks will fade with time...
@TonyMetal___86 yeah not everyone thinks that way unfortunately
@Lisia well miss victoria lisia life will teach you a lot of things that the school and college haven't taught you...
What's the use of being with a beautiful sexy girl if my life is going to be a living hell? You tell me...🤔
Do you know why the majority of men seeks for sexy young girls? The truth is that the 1st and only thing that comes to their heads is SEX SEX SEX AND SEX! Believe it or not, when they get bored of find someone better, you will just become a number from their past!
You will become depressed, sad and have no faith in love anymore and will hate men and ask why did he do this and that while i thought that he loves me and cares about me the way i did, well let me tell you the real flash news, it ain't like that at all, such guys have NEVER loved their women all the time, they were just acting to get what they want and to fullfill their needs and when the real time approached, they ran away or broke their relationship because they found someone else... etc
When someone loves you for real, for who you are, because you have amazing traits, makes him comfortable and happy, also makes him feel that your presence is so much precious because he feels empty without you and you're always in his mind wherever he goes, do you think that he will be able to dump you just like that?
You will see him ready for marriage at anytime, if you get pregnant, he will be there for you holding all his responsibilities towards you and his unborn baby, would never be tempted by other women and will simply love only you all the time...
See why i give so much importance about traits, it's not like physical looks doesn't counts but the older you get, the more the traits will become more important than looks!
When you seek for a short term relationship or want it for benefits or for a one night stand than yes, you will search for the most beautiful one because they have an expiry date or their time will expire when you snap your fingers, but when you want something that lasts and to be real than you will focus on the traits cause the traits will never vanish with time and even if the person is gone (dead) he will be carved in your memory forever because of his traits and the way he treated you and not because how he looked like...
@TonyMetal___86 I wasn't speaking for myself lol I only date people I have a connection with
I know, i was just talking in general...
Stop listening to other single women. If they knew the secret to how to land a “good guy” they wouldn’t be single.
If you want to learn how men think, watch men’s dating advice. Not the Andrew Tate, PearlyThings or Fresh & Fit podcasts. Those are mostly clip-bait and offer little substantive advice.
I suggest looking into Courtney Ryan, hoe_math, The Dadvocate, and Alexander Grace. Even though they’re geared toward men, they have a lot more actionable advice.
Well the man I fell in love with was just a total gentlemen. He wasn’t cheap, he didn’t mind holding open doors, he was polite with everyone around him and just good looking. He had self respect, he hit the gym and tried to avoid fast food. So I guess men look for the same in women, not cheap, treats him with respect and is polite towards others and puts effort into looks and has self respect
True love I believe happens only 3 maybe 4 times in a lifetime... everyone else it's strong feelings of Lust.
I also believe Love is a fated union. It just happens and everything falls into place. No confusion, no games, no pretending.
Try to read my answer and give me your opinion about it 🙂
You can't. It's up to the man. Only if he's truly ready to be in love with someone, he will fall.
You can't make someone love. Different men fall in love in different ways.
You earn his love by submitting and supporting him to the extent that he can't picture his life without you. That means you put him first, before your career and definitely before your friends.
I wouldn’t know. I never been in love or had men fall in love with me.
Also, you can’t really make a man fall in love. He decides that for himself.
Stop doing what most women are doing, which is ignoring or hating men or acting like men are invisible to you.
That should be something that happen naturally for anyone. There’s no instructions for this.
Can I ask you a question
Please proceed with your question, I can’t promise you the answer that you’re looking for though.
Could you fall in love with a great man that has an average size penis?
What is an average size penis to you?
The average size is 5.5 inches. I’m 6.5 inches long and 4.7 inches around though
Anyway, 🥱
First of I don’t fall in love with anyone cock size, but size definitely matter to me.
All the sizes listed here are too small, 6.5 inches is a good length but the width is a No, not thick enough.
Why you’re asking me anyway?
I guess I should stop looking for love then. All women want big dick
That's easy. You don't! You be WORTHY of that love and it happens. Trying to MAKE a man fall in love is just manipulative.
How do you be worthy of that love? 🤔 yeah I would want it be authentic of course….. 🙄😓
Well it starts with choosing the right man. Not every man is going to see your value. Just like not every woman is going to see a man's value.
If you start by choosing the wrong man there is no rectifying this.
How to determine he’s the right guy and not just a chaser
It's all about the details. If you done it right to begin with (not jumped right in bed with this guy). He should know a lot about you. Because people who genuinely like you and care about you listen to you and want to know more about what makes you tick. A chaser will remember your birthday. A genuine guy of interest will know what you got on your 13th birthday because you told him how much it meant to you. Understand the difference?
I think I’m kinda catching on…. 😭
So it may sound silly but why is it most times if a woman sleep with a man soon (what is soon anyways?), he see her differently after? I’m not saying the obvious she seems “easy” but what else is there to it?
Because women who value themselves don't give that to anyone, or anyman that hasn't earned that. Do you respect a man that doesn't respect himself? No! Then why would you think that would be any different for a man. A man of value wants to earn you. A man of value respects you when you respect yourself. You showing him you strength and worth when you make him learn everything about you first. A God man KNOWS those type of women are keepers.
Good* not God. Though God fearing is important to if you ask me. Then you know he morales and values have a solid base.
You cannot force someone to fell in love with you, you create qualities of attractive woman in you, so people will love you
Go to YouTube and look up stephen speaks.
Yes ma’am 🫡
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