Do you also find submissive women pathetic?

[Anonymous]

I just have absolutely no respect for them and maybe that turns some of them on, which is also kind of pathetic. Get a backbone, what's wrong with you? Stop getting stepped all over by men. Sometimes, some women act strong but put up with the dumbest things from men.

That said, I think many men need to be dominated to learn their lesson in life and restore balance and the true new order of kindness in the world. If you're a dominant guy that loves to see women in pain, because they rejected you, you better block me now because I will make you furious with the truth.

[Altheavas]

I am not sure in what context of submission you’re talking about, it seems generalized.
Healthy submission context mutual respect, consent, mutual understandings. While lack of consent, mental and physical abuse can also be interpreted as submission.
In what perspective/context are you describing submissive, or maybe you’re talking about abuse.


As a female if my man is a great leader, I am aware of this. He act as the head of household, he provide and protect, a good husband, and a good father. I would be the yes wife, when my husband share plan with me, we will delegate and we execute. I will make sure, he has not much to worry about at the home. I’m a wife material and I will make sure I multiple those residual income.
There’s not much men who exist like I describe, but I’ll be gladly submissive to that imaginary man.


(please expand your understanding of the keywords here, not just describe them with your narrow perception)

[Asker]

"He act as the head of household"

Sorry but the truth is I find you pathetic. It's just my opinion of you. Why do you feel inferior to men?

[Altheavas]

Hunny, I’m no inferior to no man. A man/boyish could only wish!

The main provider is the head of household, and he better act like it respectfully.

You don’t even get much from my explanation, and You sounds like a hot head.
I am not saying I am calm person, but I know when to toot my horn.

[wolfcat87]

Hmmm, I'm a switch. I get the fun in being submissive from time to time. But... Women who are completely submissive are going to get absolutely wrecked by men. It's all fun and games until they try to do something no man should do, and most men will test those boundaries. So, every woman should be able to be dominant at times for their own good and the well being of any children they have. Most submissive women are in awful relationships.

[Asker]

Yes, agreed and holy smokes, you have 73% mho !

[msmissydc]

Glad this is in relationship not in sexuality. Anyway: maybe some are generally leaning towards one and thats totally fine as long as its not pushed on someone. What you are saying is pushing it on men to bejthe sub part and that is not ok.
The normal part should always be equal. If both are fine with one taking controle than thats fine. Both being fine with it is the important part!!
Also starting equal means, that you have to know what equal is and not saying: thats how it allways been so it must be equal.

[Asker]

"What you are saying is pushing it on men to bejthe sub part and that is not ok"

You're defending misogynistic men again, it's okay, most women aren't aware of what they do. Think of a scale, one side has 99 stones and the other has 1 stone. How do you equalize that? I know what equal is, do you?

[msmissydc]

How do I defend them? I am for being equal and not for pushing it the other way around. For your stone example let it be 50/50 but you suggest to switch the 99 and the one.

[Asker]

I am not pushing anyone to be submissive, how would a person even do that? You make no sense. Misogynistic men absolutely HATE strong women. Why is that? They want women to submit to THEM and not a higher power or whatever you believe.

Oh so with 99 stones, it will be equal on it's own? Best of luck with that logic.

[msmissydc]

I agree with what you said here. But on your original comment you said:. 'Men need to be dominated to learn their lesson.. '
Not sure what you mean with your stone thing this time.

[Asker]

I don't feel like explaining. Maybe the it was the stone that ran away with Moses' robe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tmd-ClpJxA

[Loser_Chandlier]

Nice try blocking others like a loser lmao

Well sorry but I don't need your opinion on our lovely marriage , everything is going smoother than ever haha.. he doesn't ever do anything that hurts me physically or mentally... I love how you just assumed things the way you want them to be

And yes I too have a hard time respecting someone who doesn't respect anyone who is different from them.. so people can't have different mindsets from yours? LOL
Submissive women-Pathetic Dominant men-Losers
Only Dominant women and sissy men- WOW
Lmao🤣

[Samantha_Stevenson]

I am a very submissive woman
I association being dominant with masculinity, thus I never get attracted to submissive men or the men who want to be dominated cause I just can't see them as men
That being said I do find extreme Dom/Sub things such as inflicting pain weird , but in my perspective Submissive doesn't mean slavery and dominant doesn't mean a sadist cruel devil if that makes sense.. Dom-Sub relation is much more lovely than that

[Asker]

What to* you

[Samantha_Stevenson]

I love the man being in control ( "dominant") in bed and otherwise but of course not in a abusive controlling way that would do any harm to you
And I love submitting (thus the word "submissive") to his decisions and actions in sex and otherwise
In fact just like you mentioned, a good dominant is a one who loves and protects his submissive.. being dominant (in terms of relationship) is not about harming or hurting anyone

[Asker]

Okay, well you go for the losers. I'll go for the powerful, smart men. Take care.

[Samantha_Stevenson]

Why do you ask questions when you can't respect others opinions lmao

[Asker]

I already told you what I thought of submissive women. It's right there for you to read? Why do you respond thinking you will change my mind? lmfao

Men in powerful positions, doctors and lawyers are attracted to being submissive for a woman because they have nothing to prove. They are already required so they don't need a doormat hole to humiliate.

I also don't like physical pain and I don't inflict physical pain on men. I hope that clears things up, if you have any actual questions, please feel free to ask. This is why I am dominant. I hope you get it now.

[Asker]

already respected*

This is well-known in the bdsm community.

[Samantha_Stevenson]

I told you every person is different and this is my personal opinion
And sorry "powerful" men are not submissive to women lol
Every man including my current hubby are extremely successful corporate men and weren't subbies
I bet you being dominant think good men are the ones sub to you but eax

[Samantha_Stevenson]

*but each to their own

[Samantha_Stevenson]

And also Ma'am I am not up for an argument but I told you already.. dominant men don't treat you like a "doormat hole to humiliate" .. there seems to be a misunderstanding

[Asker]

Actually they are and you can go ahead and research that. It's a fact. Your husband needs a doormat to push around because he doesn't feel respected in life. This is WELL-KNOWN, feel free to research it. A man who makes important decisions wants to relax in the bedroom.

I don't care that you like losers, that's fine but I don't respect you and I certainly don't respect your husband. If you don't like my opinion, you can get lost. :)

[IslaTheWitch]

What is wrong with being submissive?

If a woman enjoys it, that's great. If she finds a man who can play his role well, even better; both will be satisfied and happy.

Some women are completely submissive, some partially, some prefer to switch roles, and some are not submissive at all. I'm not sure if discussing personal preferences makes sense.

[Asker]

I see the bigger picture.

[laraWM]

I don't find them pathetic, if you feel it's not good, you can try to help them

[Asker]

That's what I'm trying to do with the question (obviously)

[HelpfulWoman]

I don't find it pathetic. There's a difference between being submissive in a healthy way such as it being a kink, over the abusive way of people dominating them to the point they believe that's all they can be.

[Thatpearl26]

No I really don’t care honestly. Everyone has their own preferences and as long as it’s not harming anyone then I really don’t stick my nose in something that’s not my business.

[Asker]

This entire site is sticking your nose in other's business.

[Thatpearl26]

I meant in life, not this site.

[19magic]

There's many different kinds of submissive so it's all about what kind you mean. Often times it takes a strong women to be a submissive anyway since that type of lifestyle requires a strong and deliberate balance. Both genders have their roles and that's been biologicly proven over the years. It's all a matter of perspective.

[Asker]

Women are all disrespected in life so your point is irrelevant.

[siseñor]

luh the way people like identifying themselves through these labels and categories. i think they're a product of their environment mostly and don't really fault them =pppp

[Asker]

Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

[sheikalana]

I don't find it pathetic.

[Asker]

You think it's good to put your own freedoms aside and be controlled by a male, who is inherently very flawed? You do know that's how when get killed all the time, right?

[Asker]

how women*