Is it a good or bad idea to send him a text explaining how he hurts my feeling?

[Anonymous]

He hurts my feeling and i just want him to understand how I'm feeling rn. Do you think i should send a text about how he hurts me or not? Because i thought if i send him a text, it would seem like i care too much while he doesn't. I don't wanna sound like i care too much or be seen as the one that put a lot of effort. Should I send the text or not?

[bededazzle]

do it if it will make you feel better. don't worry about how you seem. at the same time, if someone invalidates you, and you don't want to continue a relationship, I think the best thing to do is validate yourself. Is your goal to repair a relationship or to met your own needs?

[sage2021]

I wouldn't waste my time. He's being a jerk. Probably trying to act manly.

[Tharithi]

What did he do

[Asker]

Basically i told him i have a flu, and he was acting like he was pleased to see me caught a flu that i got from him. it feels like he doesn't care about my well being