What are some signs that a relationship is over?

[blunty]

I'm asking for both sides but you may also answer from your end.

[DecalFong]

Best question description ever. ﾠ

[smne35]

No interest in you don't talk much, distance, short replies lack of intimacy, awkwardness, just a complete change in behavior towards you, and if your on receiving end of this it's painful to go through, and it's at this point most people just are not themselves, trying to get it win back their affection, I have seen both men and women lose it embarrass them selves doing things that they think will get them back to where they once were, but if you even think of resorting to spying on their phones or trying to snoop around or invade their personal privacy it's time to end it, you would not want active spying on your or install spyware on your phone, I had that done to me and only reason I found out was according to my map I was already at about locating that where I really was, so I started monitoring my location and movements for last week then month and checking the times of day and it all made sense, what she didn't realize was my phone was tracking her when she activated the spyware , it's not worth it to stoop to that level just end it and get over it and start living again

[sage2021]

When he stops looking in your eyes and looks elsewhere instead.
When he stops saying his usual Terms of Endearment to you.
Suddenly Stops being nice to you.
Doesn't kiss you hello or good bye or at all.
Says he doesn't have a cellphone anymore. That way you can't call him - which is what he wants. Then really has a cellphone but doesn't let you know about it and hides it from you.
He starts yelling at you which he never did before.
He might be physically rough with you, when before he used to be gentle with you.
He might start being a smart mouth with you when he never was that way before.
When you feel like the wheels are coming off of your relationship and you can't stop the new bad behavior from him.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We both talked and asked each other if we were happy…

We weren’t…

It lead us to a deep, long, loving, caring and honest conversation. He thought our relationship was broken to the point of no repair and he was in tears.

I agreed,

even though I believed we still had a chance.

We ended it mutually,

but I still loved him, so it was much harder for me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Here is something I wrote in this subject 7-8 years ago.

When Is It Time To Break Up?

[BadApple69]

The problem with relationships is this…. There will always be one person more in love than the other. This can be very upsetting for the person who is more in love. When troubles happen this difference seems amplified. Sadness, depression, and even anger can become the norm. It takes two to make a good relationship but only one to destroy it. It’s my belief that no relationship is over unless people give up. Problems always happen and the trick is to work through them together.
I guess my point is… it’s not over till it’s over.

[sage2021]

@BadApple69
I agree 💯 with you. But when he said "I love you" two times in a row then asked if I love him I replied "It's hard to love someone that yells at me all the time. To which he turned and walked.
That particular week he was being mean to me. Of course could it be because his mistress was still working in my apartment building and I knew he was cheating on me with her. Then after yelling at me and being a jerk, he said "I said I will stay until the end, until you say it's over". I never said it's over. But he was cheating on me with my helper lady that helps me with things around the house. I am sick and so I knew he was going to leave me and be with her. Before he walked out, he stole all of my cash savings which was over $5,000. Later he came back and asked if I was going to call the police on him. I said NO, and I didn't. He had meth on him, so they would bust him for that as well. But I can't figure out why he wanted to go to jail. He wanted me to call. He's never been to jail before. Could you possibly come up with a reason?
I would really appreciate it.
Several hours he was found dead from acute FENTYNL and meth. Accidental.
Please help me try to figure out why he would want to go to jail.
Thanks so much!

[BadApple69]

In this case jail might have saved him. Maybe he knew that. Maybe he knew the only way to quit meth is by being locked up. I am sorry you had to go through this. You are welcome to private message me if you want to talk in private.

[molonski2]

They reactivate Tinder , they are seen out at nightclubs passionately kissing multiple individuals , you find precum stains on the inside of his under wear , mysterious phone calls that seem out of place , not returning home as promised , your sexual activity has dryed up , you say something and he replies " Oh shut the fck up " ..

Sure there are many more..

[RageBabe]

Direct and concise? Lack of interest in you, and you'll just sense the shift in energy. When one finds themselves in this circumstance, it is awful. I'm sending love and healing to anyone who might be experiencing it.

[Cute_potato01]

You don't feel the bond anymore. Neither side communicates. You enjoy talking to other people. Finding other people attractive. No interest in ur other partner. Relationship is stagnant.

[Anonymous]

When you leave and the other person doesn't even miss you or bother to call or conversely, you no longer care where they are, if they come home late, or if they've responded to your texts or calls.

[VIVANT]

Unwillingness to talk whatever the issue is.

[sheikalana]

You can't stand each other.

You don't see each other having a future together.

Communication doesn't solve anything.

[RingOfFire]

Here's one...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/WaSy8yy-mr8

[PetiteMisSmooth546]

We'll you two no longer want to spend time together,

[LikesToSuckOlderMen]

When he doesn't call or text you anymore or when he does text you but he says I'm busy and I don't have time right now.

Or
He doesn't see you for a whole damn week like my boyfriend.

[Wood3nWhal3]

If I'm talking to yo girl, it's easiest and painless to just forget you ever met her playa

[BLP11520]

Less messages and calls. Smiles are replaced with a solemn expression

[ProbablyClueless]

The communication dies off.

[KittygosMeoWW]

If you have to ask this

[HouseMoat]

They're lying about the stupidest things