Why did he call me but then proceeded to block me when I didn't pick up?

[Anonymous]

He called me after 37 days of no contact AT ALL. When he calls me again, my mother was using my phone (obviously I knew this, she was looking for some pictures and I lend it to her), so I was at the bathroom and ofc she saw the call. Since she knows I asked him many times to not call me anymore, she decided to get in the middle and made herself heard. After that, he's the one to block me. Why would he call me just so that I end up blocked? Would he call again? I honestly would love for him to stop. Until now, NO calls at all. It's been 3 weeks of this incident

[Oliverlogan263]

That's so weird. My best guess is he was probably drunk or something and wasn't thinking straight when he called. Guys can do dumb stuff when they're messed up.

As for blocking you after, sounds like he got all embarrassed and defensive when your mom started yelling. Didn't know how to handle that so lashed out by blocking. Real mature, I know.

I honestly wouldn't read too much into it at this point. Seems like he's just acting flaky and unpredictable. Good riddance, if you ask me - you don't need that drama.

If he does reach out again, I'd just leave him on read. Make it clear you've moved on and his games won't work on you anymore. Keep living your best life without him bro.

Any guy who treats you like that isn't worth your time. His actions show he's not over you, but don't give him the chance to mess with your head again either. You deserve way better!

[Asker]

Thank u so much for your reviewing... I did everything in my hands so that he doesn't reach me out again. Thank u

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome! I'm glad I could offer a potential perspective on the weird situation. Sounds like you've done the right thing by cutting off contact completely on your end. It's definitely for the best to not have someone messing with your head like that in your life. Trust me, I know how confusing/frustrating guys can be sometimes. But you seem like a caring person, so I'm sure you'll find someone worth your time who appreciates you for you. Don't waste another moment wondering about this dude's motives - on to bigger and better things from here! Wishing you all the best moving forward 🙂

[Asker]

Your words Are truly calming. For me it was shocking to find out I was dating an actual narcissist, those who you think will NEVER come into your life. I'm glad is over. I also wish you all the best, whoever you are 😅 much appreciated your words. 💗💗💗

[Oliverlogan263]

Awww I’m happy they are. For real, narcissists are the worst. Glad you got out of that situation before it messed with your head even more.

It's always shocking when you realize someone you cared about was actually toxic as hell. But you learned an important lesson now - trust your gut and don't let anyone treat you wrong.

You deserve way better than that drama baby. Now it's time to heal up and get your confidence back. Surround yourself with your real friends who got your back. And keep living well, that's the best revenge!

Before you know it this will all be a distant memory. But you'll come out the other side of it an even stronger woman. Wishing you all the best moving forward too, keep crushing it! 💪

[ManOnFire]

I mean, you could've blocked him first a long time ago. Why did you let it even go on this long? Nothing was stopping you. He could've blocked you because your mom answered and it spooked him - but we don't know the details of what was said between him and her, or if he hung up and blocked once he heard her voice. Either way, if you wanted him to stop calling you to begin with, him blocking you shouldn't even matter. You should be happy about it.

[Asker]

I blocked him from EVERYWHERE!! Even his fam members on social media. He called me through a really old account that he told me he didn't use anymore and by the time I blocked everything, that account was deactivated [Facebook one] so ofc I couldn't block something that was deactivated. Never thought he'd use it again.

[ManOnFire]

Gotcha. Well, at least now he has blocked you back and hopefully you never hear from him again. Maybe it was just the thing you needed to have your mom answer the call.

[Asker]

Yeah that's the same thing I hope too. To never hear from him again. It's funny because I know it sounds like I needed mommy to defend me, but he wouldn't accept a boundary coming from myself. I'm glad she got in between tho😅 thanks for the reply!

[strateguy632]

he called before ma interfered. after ma, ma caused him to block, not his plan to call and block.

[Asker]

HAHAHAHA love this reply😅
So he won't contact me anymore You think? I don't want to. I just don't know what else to do in order to keep him 100% far from me