I'll try to make this short. I met this girl on a dating app and we've been talking everyday, good morning, throughout the day, good night, and we even say to text each other if one of us wakes up or can't sleep. We met in person for the first time yesterday and we had lunch together then to Target to browse around. She said the only reason she wouldn't date me is because of my height (I'm too short), she said that she would ahve to see how we vibe in person and warm up to it. When we were in person she did the iPhone add thing where you touch phones to add contacts. And she also told me she deleted the dating app although she said that I didn't have to delete it and she was going to delete it anyways.
Throughout the day she'll send me selfies (which I'll heart and compliment her), she'll send me TikToks, she'll say things like "hehe" and use extra letters (she started doing this after we met) like "okayy" and "wymmmm". So I'm having a hard time knowing if she IS interested in me, but just has to warm up to my height before we start dating or what? What are some signs to look out for? Thank you!
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Hoist the red flag
Anyone who brings up a person's height or weight as reasons to not go further is not going to commit to you even if you were to "vibe" with her. The moment she finds someone that meets her height requirements your toast.
Out of curiosity - how tall are you?
I’m around 4’11” and I’m 24 years old. People mistake me for a high schooler if I shave lol. Which sounds odd, but I take it as a compliment because it means I look young
I'd strongly advise against shaving and don't place your bets on this girl
I mean our conversations have gotten sexual and we sent each other spicy pics, but I was just wondering if there are any signs I should look out for to see if she IS interested in me?
Sounds like you answered your own question
How?
Semds you spicy stuff
Enough said
Unless this is a casual date situation in which nothing matters except the sex
I’m not looking for anything casual, but at the same time apparently she’s not ready for a relationship. But she did say if something does end up happening then so be it. I guess she’s just not rushing things?
I’m sorry I know I’m pretty slow when it comes to women and romance
Well if you are okay with slow and steady then I wish you best of luck
Thank you! I appreciate it!
I think my chances are gone to be honest. She said she would date someone who had a car, license, a job, and a place to live. I only have a car and license right now, but I don't drive because of anxiety, my doctor thinks it's from PTSD or something. She also said she's looking for friends and sex, which the idea of that is honestly pissing me off. I don't know what to do now?
RUN fast
I honestly feel pretty awful. I mean here’s this girl that accepts me for who I am, but I can’t have. I feel defeated. I’ll still be friends with her, but I’m gonna continue my search on dating apps I guess
Try whisper
It's how I found my wife and it's not even a dating app
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