How are some disabled women able to find true love?

[Anonymous]

And plenty more examples, yet I've been struggling..

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I suspect many individuals are frightened by the prospect handling the physical challenges that may come with dating someone who has a "disability". They failed to notice the courage and thoughtfulness it takes to navigate the world with a physical disability.

my mother worked for the Illinois Department of rehabilitation services for her entire career and many coworkers, I'm guessing 4 to 5, that we're all happily married, despite their physical limitations. I hope that you are able to find this🥰

[Asker]

Aww thank you! ❤

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

You're very kind for selecting my opinion for MHO. I think there are a lot of excellent opinions on here. Stay courageous and hopeful!

[JHAYES317]

Find a guy who isn’t very active, I. e. likes to stay at home a lot.

[Screenwriter]

We are all disabled to some degree. Some people are visibly disabled. Others have mental disabilities, or are mentally challenged. Some are mentally ill.

All of the aforementioned are disabilities. Some people have lousy personalities. Some are traumatized from abuse. These are also disabilities. Some people are little people, a disability in a world made for average height people.

But humans are flexible creatures and some see past surface "disabilities" to the joyous, thoughtful, fun person beneath, and choose to be part of that person's life.

The "some" of those disabled women who find love is EXACTLY THE SAME as this: How are some--women able to find true love? Everyone doesn't find love, despite how seemingly perfect they are. And some wonderful people don't find love. It's a crap shoot.

The best you can do is live your best life and be the finest person you're able to with all your flaws, wheelchair, blindness, or the fingers, toes, eyes, ears and able to get-aroundness you've been given.

It's all a roll of the dice. Grab for the brass ring!

[Asker]

Thanks. 👍

[Asker]

More thoughts:

People who are mentally disabled can also be dangerous people.

People who are PHYSICALLY disabled are not (usually). They are WEAKER. I think that is part of what makes them less attractive. They are more "needy" so to speak.

[Asker]

And unfortunately, a big part of dating is finding your partner physically attractive enough to want to marry them and start a family with them. Be with them intimately, etc.

[Screenwriter]

However, some people who are weaker physically are stronger emotionally and mentally, and someone who is physically able, may not be. People choose others who match them. An emotionally weak man who is physically able, might choose an emotionally strong woman who is physically DISabled and it works out for both of them!

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

I can only speak for myself. I have met some outstanding women who happen to have a disability. I find them engaging, happy and generally fun to be around and date.

But I have also met a good many that run around wearing a victim brand on their foreheads. They almost always have the worst attitudes and use their disability as a literal crutch to blame all their life issues on.

[Asker]

But would you/did you, ever think about marrying them and having children with them (if they were still able)? Just curious. And thanks for your reply.

[NamerOfStars]

The same way anyone else is. They have additional challenges, but I'd imagine that the social isolation that comes with disabilities teams up with the social isolation that comes FROM disabilities prompts them to go out and engage more, taking more chances, if only out of spite.

They're also likely more open-minded themselves in terms of dating people with their own oddities.

[Asker]

Some of the videos I linked, they were with able-bodied folks. This is called an Inter-abled Relationship.

[boggboss]

Because just like everything some people will find it easier then others being disabled won't eliminate from dating but will make things harder

[Asker]

I think people make dating and marriage more complicated than it has to be a lot of the time.

[boggboss]

I wpuld agree with that