Besides cheating, are there other ways to destroy a partner's trust?

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Let's remove cheating for one second. It has nothing to do with being with someone else. I'm bored and this is just a general question.

Besides infidelity are there other ways to ruin their trust? If so what are the other ways?

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Ah shit. The other things are also called cheating... like financial cheating and emotional cheating. Fine... you made the question so I'll play by your rules.

Dumb people... dumb chicks get on my fucking nerves. Maybe not right away, but when they're just 2 digit IQ and you don't even want to listen to them talk... FUCK!!! She might be hot and nice, but then there is that! How does this ruin your trust you might ask?

It's sort of like Joe Biden... don't ever underestimate what she'll fuck up. She will believe the scammer on the phone from Nigeria with an Indian accent and hand out her account number and password. She will believe there was candy in the van or that the guy in his van just needs help looking for his cat.

The only good thing about a dumb girl is that she will actually believe you when you tell her you banged that other girl was just a mistake. She might even feel sorry for you... that's how dumb she is. Will still hit cars when she's trying to park, but at least you can cheat on her and get away with it.

I should've added a picture for the AI Bot... Hook me up with a like at least... call me a f***** or something so I get recognized by the AI Bot. I don't have feelings that feel so hurt them.

tzdc21 · Accepted Answer

Going behind their back to make decisions without them is a big one. Some examples:

A man getting a vasectomy without telling his wife or girlfriend.
A woman taking abortion without even bothering to talk to her boyfriend or husband first

I know the whole my body my choice thing, but that is debilitating when you do that type of stuff behind your partners back. It's one thing to do it AFTER you talk to them and discuss it and come to terms with it. It's another to not bother telling them before executing it, OR agreeing not to do it with your and then going ahead and doing it.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Telling him what are your favorite things in the apartment you live in, then one by one they disappear.

I think if he were to get mad at me he would be passissive aggressive that way. Not argue with me, but take some of my favorite things I have (had) and told him how much I like them or how much they mean to me.

It might take me a day or two to discover he had taken them and probably threw them in the trash.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lying in general. For me, lying about  anything  is enough to lose my trust. I've already dated a compulsive liar in the past, so perhaps I'm more sensitive to dishonesty than others might be. I don't even care if it's a white lie. If it was so small and innocent of a lie, then why did you need to lie about it at all?

Summeroflove · Answer

Absolutely! Ruining trust by doing other things. It can be using their money. Lying to them. The list goes on.

I don’t wanna be with someone who lies or pulls stuff. Because it leads to major stuff later on.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say yes by sharing secrets and generally share intimate moments to other people.
Another big thing to me is making fun or gossip about your partner with others. It´s one thing to make jokes or laugh at your partners action with him/her at times but making fun about them behind their back is a no-go.

billmunch · Answer

Cheating doesn't destroy my trust. In fact, if my SO wants to date other guys, I'm okay with it and I won't break up over it. She doesn't even have to hide it from me. It's the sneaking around and lying is what I don't like. But if she wants to have sex with other guys or even have a full on relationship with other men that's fine, just don't lie about it. I don't even know why most women even feel the need to hide it when they cheat. in my opinion, I think married women and women in LTRs should date and have sex with other guys and their men should be supportive. However, I think men should remain faithful to their women.

HighValue · Answer

Wrongly taking other people's side over their partner in disagreements.

Also, lying to their partner about their past.

Running their partner down to other people, or saying negative things about their partner behind their back.

Discussing private conversations or issues with other people outside of the relationship.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Lying about their age and many things Scamming you and never returning your money Future faking, making you believe you'll get married one day Making a mockery out of you and your family

TenderFantasy · Answer

LYING about your intentions. Making promises and proclaimations you have no intention of keeping. And not caring about the effects of that betrayal after. Source: My recent ex.

desert_rose666 · Answer

I'd say any kind of lying/hiding where are you, who are you with and what are you doing. Intentional doing but hiding something you know your partner wouldn't approve.

Sonjita · Answer

Lying to me. Lying to others about me. Telling other people about our private things. Gossiping about me. Complaining about me to others.

SongBird3 · Answer

Oh there are lots of ways to break someone's trust without even cheating. It all comes down to being dishonest or unreliable in the relationship.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Wracking up debt, driving recklessly, embarrassing you in the workplace, trash talking you in front of groups when you're present, paying for porn

OtterMan68 · Answer

lying about fiances Addiction: drugs, alcohol, gambling, porn and failing to seek help

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Stealing or lying, maybe mistreating (doing shit to you you told them you didn't want them to do).

Mado108 · Answer

Not keeping promises. Being stingy! Having an addiction…

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. I knew a guy who told a girl that he goes to uni in her town just because he didn't want her to reject him if she knew he was studying on the other side of the country.

slatyb · Answer

Lying, failure to do things you agreed to do.

JacobJordan · Answer

A lot. Lying, keeping secrets, hiding shit, not communicating.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Lying, not keeping promises and intentionally keeping stuff from them.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Doing evil to me. Anything they do on purpose that causes me serious pain.

AmeerX · Answer

Being gold diggers male and female Not happy with goals Too demanding Too controlling

kingmaker21 · Answer

Steal & grab his money...

LiamJHayden · Answer

Discussing personal issues with those who have not right or legit reason to know.

Anonymous · Answer

Having best friends of the opposite sex and pretending it's not an issue. Gurantee trust issues.

Jessikaah91 · Answer

Lying, keeping secrets and hiding things

SolitarySolace · Answer

Falsely accuse him behind his back

loveslongnails · Answer

Lying comes to mind, or stealing.

nawtee_me · Answer

Don’t keep your word or promises

Guido · Answer

The next biggest is for them to lie.

In_Trance · Answer

Money or emotional support would do it

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Lying about minor stuff.

JayBones · Answer

My wife said she doesn't like Bjork's music.

jaskin777 · Answer

Yes  Lying can

Stella98_ · Answer

By not trusting me. Constantly lying to me.

laly520 · Answer

lying

Elena_Stewart · Answer

I would say lying.

jahaims · Answer

Lying

Minahh · Answer

Lying in general

Anonymous · Answer

Lying?

Besides cheating, are there other ways to destroy a partner's trust?

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