How do you prefer your partner or spouse to dress in public?

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Are you okay with them wearing revealing clothes? Or do you want them to dress more modestly? You can add pictures if you like! 😊

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

Every male is genetically evolved to a) Respond intuitively to reproductive seduction; b) seek their place in the male hierarchy of local dominance based upon the 'desirability' of their female companion c) the degree of fidelity of THAT companion in response to flirtation by other challenging males. A popular sarcastic T-Shirt for women states:  "Yes I DO, but NOT with you..."   SOME espouse this as 'cock teasing' This lays bare the hypocrisy of pruitan-based 'proper society'. Mae West would respond to male's over-the-top inherent arousal by sarcastically overtly calling would-be wolve's bluff to  "Come up and see me sometime" or "Let's forget the six feet and focus on the six inches..."  
 
   As Paul Simon's ballad 'Kodachrome' laments, fantasized:  "If you brought all the girls I knew when I was single, ... brought them all together for one night; you know they'd never match my sweet imagination. Everything looks worse 'in black & white' " 
 
 When in my company  I prefer she dresses "inspiration-ally" .  
 I feel it merchandises how 'fortunate' we EACH are... to merit one another's companionship---  it keeps us BOTH on our 'A' game, reminding we EACH are potentially 'replaceable.'   ;)

Al_Musafir · Accepted Answer

😌 This ^. Pure heart winners.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Modest. I dress in clothing that reveals nothing more than necessary - so hands, arms, face. Usually this consists of body length dresses, fashionable blouses & long skirts, etc. I do not wear makeup though I do moisturize my face.

My choice of clothing has attracted the attention of many very successful men - I'm actually 30s - including 2 or 4 that make easily over a million dollars a year. One whom I will be marrying at the end of this year but it was far more his personality than his money that won me, what when he dressed like he was a bum when we first met.

This is what many women fail to realize. Real men don't want sluts.

Mia230 · Accepted Answer

I dress more modestly not like a Muslim or nun but nothing too much, out of respect for myself and my partner

Pinay_ako · Answer

Dress how you want to be addressed or treated in public. People will treat you with how you look and that’s just a fact.

AviatorTom · Answer

Wearing clothes would be nice... whatever she's most comfortable with. She has better taste than I do.

sawno · Answer

Seductively modest is my favorite, especially if I were to be around her since it would be an immense tease. Its when its obviously sexy on her but simultaneously not revealing enough to give much away at all.

To other men it will just be stylish, to other men who appreciate modesty its a turn on but not in a slutty "I will cheat on my boyfriend if your pretty enough" kind of way. But to me it would be a constant tease and i'd probably be worked up when we'd get home, especially if she plays in to it.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

My wife's style always seemed nice to me. She wears a lot of dresses and sweaters or sometimes jeans and grungy t-shirts.

Actually I think something about being with me made her adopt the last style with jeans and grungy t-shirts, since she didn't used to wear those clothes ever. It used to all be like sweaters and dresses. Now she wears things like Metallica t-shirts with really flashy logos sometimes. I like all of it.

Her everyday kind of casual night style is like this. She's the one on the right:

How do you prefer your partner or spouse to dress in public?

Then summer dresses for picnics and more daytime activities, cocktail dress for formal occasions, things like that.

laly520 · Answer

I prefer it the way he does it n its actually pretty basic usually a black shirt plus black jeans n thats it

Prezzi3 · Answer

Overall, I want my partner to dress in whatever that makes them feel comfortable. I think the type of attire depends on the place/weather, there’s not one outfit that’s right for every single occasion.

I never had this problem before with a partner but if I felt like my partner was wearing an outfit that didn’t match the occasion (i. e. booty shorts to church or jeans to a super formal event), I would be honest with them.

soe11 · Answer

I like when my girlfriend wear revealing and exposuring outfits in public.

I appreciate and approved my girlfriend wearing revealing outfits.

In fact she loves wearing skin exposure and revealing outfits as her mum trained her.

Both mother and daughter are same style in public, especially on vacation.

Occasionally wear transparent outfits without bra on along with sexy Thong or G-string.

MrOracle · Answer

With some specific exceptions, I want her to dress feminine and modestly. Fortunately, that's my girlfriend's natural instinct anyway, which is one of the reasons I am with her. The same was true for my past relationships.

Yannae · Answer

Imagine a tourist during summer time, that's us. Minus the map and bags. That's how revealing it gets. And it's what I prefer. Women who reveal it all leave nothing for us as a surprise, the mystery is gone, the class.

EmmaMary · Answer

I absolutely love seeing my husband wearing smart casuals... It shows he takes care and pride in his appearance. Mind you, he always looks smart as he wears a business suit during the working week.

aceleon · Answer

modest i'm not a cuck, revealing clothes belongs to bedroom only

HouseMoat · Answer

On one hand, it's nice that I'm seen with a girl who goes out in revealing clothing, as sort of a status thing but, on the other hand, it might make it feel like, she's doing it for EVERY man, and EVERY woman (competition), and not just me. I would want to feel like the special stuff is JUST for me. Ultimately, I can't really control what she wears, just want her to know how I would feel about it

Purpleronnie · Answer

I want them to dress how they want or feel comfortable. To have an understanding of appropriate when there is a need and to be aware of how they are perceived. I think most women understand that. The ones that don’t are clearly not my type

SolitarySolace · Answer

Not like a slut. Women in my generation anyway seem to think it's somehow empowering to walk around half naked in the summer. As if they're expressing their ridiculous liberalism through their choice of clothing.

Abdulwahh · Answer

at least with hijab covering her head and clothing not too tight but here:

BarryLiverstone · Answer

I like her to dress in her chosen style. As long as she feels confident and happy it could be a wide range of outfits

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Depends where we go... If she shows up to breakfast like she's going to a club, no bueno... If she shows up to the club like we are going hiking, also no bueno.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I don't have a problem with revealing. I'd prefer classy to trashy though, especially if she's going to be on my arm.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I seriously don't want to see her dress in some bs sundresses or old traditional attire nor looking like a hooker standing on the corner neither.

Decent modest clothing and what makes her feel comfortable.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I love to see him in jeans n shirts... N he always makes me dress revealing n slutty

sheikalana · Answer

Both me and my partner dress modestly and I wouldn't change anything about that.

Anonymous · Answer

A smart guy will show his wife off. It's a triple win.

adventurous-1 · Answer

I like her to dress sexy, I want other guys to envy me. I'm proud of my beautiful, sexy, wife and love to let the world see how lucky I am.

handsomelad70 · Answer

There's a happy medium between showing their boy bits or girl group and dressing like someone in a sharia law country, and my partner should choose the middle course of attire.

JayBones · Answer

I'm weird. I'm very conservative but I love sluts. I don't want a slut but I want my trad wife to dress like one when we go out. Not all the time but once in a while. Show off for both of us.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Revealing clothes are better used to advertise neing single.

JacobJordan · Answer

I wouldn't marry or even date a woman that dresses revealing.

Anonymous · Answer

It's very disrespectful of a girlfrind or wife to wear revealing clothes in public. She is essentially advertising her sexuality to other men in the presence of her boyfriend / husband, and that should require no further explanation.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'd want her to dress in whatever she feels comfortable in

stratford · Answer

No panties and no bra underneath a thin top for her can be cheeky and fun!

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I don't care if they wear anything that would be mild to moderate revealing. Guess it depends on what you mean.

Zoi99 · Answer

Jeans, blouse, sneakers, or dress with heels, or yoga pants depends on the setting.

noohair · Answer

I will not control my partner, that is impossible.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Modestly for sure. Attention seeking while in a relationship is not cool.

Guido · Answer

I lime when she is all dressed up and I do like something a bit revealing but she is always modest.

NewUser22 · Answer

If the girl has the body you have… by all means show it off.

FenixG45 · Answer

I prefer her to dress tastefully, appropriately & sexy.

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Perhaps jus not "too revealic", cause it brings other males attention to us.

IloveWinters · Answer

I love my wife to be confident in her clothes... If it's revealing that doesn't matter

Anonymous · Answer

If she dresses anything like the photos in your profile, she's not anythng I'm interested in.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not controlling like that...

Smashingdoozy · Answer

They can wear whatever they want to

Amur8711 · Answer

I'm fine with revealing, as long as they are happy

tzdc21 · Answer

Preferably modestly.

getwiththepg · Answer

Just as long as it’s not sweats.

MissBoogus · Answer

No preference

Sabretooth · Answer

More modestly.

maj1nall · Answer

In an appropriate form

Anonymous · Answer

I could care less.🤣🤣

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Conservative

whistlingwh0res · Answer

drug deal or a pimp

rosemilk · Answer

don't care

straightmax12 · Answer

Nothing that too revealing.

eagle1951 · Answer

that's up to them

sandstorm07 · Answer

Sophisticated

Kelly6 · Answer

Casual

OddBeMe · Answer

Comfortably.

riverrat3 · Answer

Skimpy

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