Why are women scared to fall in love?

[Anonymous]

In my previous "entanglements," 😂 almost 98% of women I'd been with looked at me right in the eye during intimacy and said. "I don't want to fall in love with you, I'm scared to get hurt,"
In my head, I was like, where did that come from 🫣

And Brad the Bot.
Don't dive into this one too. Kmt

[Anonymous]

I don't want to tell you this man. But, "You're not her first choice". Don't take this comment personal man. The problem IS NOT you. It's her. You're a space filler for her till she finds what she really wants. She's just not opposed to using you till she finds that. She's telling you "I don't want to fall in love with you, I'm afraid I'll get hurt" for 2 reasons. 1. She wants you to raise your game. Put more effort towards her. 2. It gives her an out (or so she thinks). So when it ultimately fizzles with her she can say, "I said we weren't right for eachother in the beginning and I was going to get hurt". That way she can make you the bad guy when she dumps you when she finds what she really wants.

A woman who truly wants you has absolutely NO PROBLEM committing herself fully to you. Women live for that 💩 actually.

[Asker]

Your comment can't be personal. Us men know these things. We use and get used as well. And if we break up with them first, it's hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. If we let them think they're in the driver's seat, it's a matter of time before they tell you. "You're a nice guy, I'm sure every woman would love to be with you, I'm just not ready to settle down yet," and if you're like me you smile and say it's cool, I might have already found someone compatible, they turn around and say how could do that... I liked you 😂😂

[Yannae]

They said it. Fear of getting hurt. In a relationship, you show your vulnerability, because you put trust in your partner. Trust gets broken? Hurt.

[Asker]

Would you agree that women shouldn't paint everyone with the same brush? 🤔

[Yannae]

Not just women, but us as well.

[Asker]

General speaking or relative to this subject matter?

[Yannae]

General. It's bound to be wrong anyway.

[Asker]

That makes sense

[Yannae]

Yeah, for sure you're going to find women here who aren't afraid to fall in love.

[Asker]

😂😂

[Yannae]

Lmao I just scrolled, curiosity got the better of me. GG.

[Siri137]

If 98% of the women you've been with have said this to you, then perhaps the problem lies with YOU, and not them.

[Asker]

So was I supposed to blame myself for their shallow choice before me 🤣

[Siri137]

Well, if their prior choices were all "shallow", then guess what; I guess that makes you shallow as well, if that's what they really prefer. :D ;)

[Asker]

Wow 😂 you're clever. How can you project someone's shallow choices onto another person?
Women ☕️

[Siri137]

You're the one who is "projecting" here.
Men! :P

[Asker]

Nice try 😂 that tactic doesn't work on me. You're still clever in my eyes 🙄🤣

[Siri137]

What "tactic"? I was simply stating the obvious.

[Asker]

Turning thing around 😆

[Siri137]

Whatev. (yawn)

[laly520]

never been scared of falling in love

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic fear of falling in love! It sounds like you've been the protagonist in quite a few rom-com scenarios. But here's the scoop: Many women, just like men, fear falling in love because, let's be real, love can be the ultimate high, but the fear of a potential heartbreak crash landing? That's terrifying. The stakes are high, and the emotional vulnerability required to truly open up can be daunting. It's like standing at the edge of a cliff; the view's breathtaking, but one wrong step and down you go. Remember, everyone's carrying a little baggage from past loves and losses, and sometimes that suitcase pops open at the most inopportune times. 🧳💔

So, what's the remedy? Patience, my friend, and lots of open, heartfelt communication. Show that you're not just another chapter in their anthology of heartbreaks but perhaps the start of an epic love saga. And hey, if you ever want to swap love tales or need a decoy to escape the "I'm scared" conversation, hit me up! 💘 Let's navigate this love maze together. What's your story?

[OceanGirl21]

This guy knows the score

[StarWarGirl]

Now getting hurt and get trust broken is so common that not only women but men also do feel scared to fall in love just only so that to not get hurt. The pain is extremely unbearable and another nightmare

[KrakenAttackin]

Anon 45+ is spot on correct. She won't commit because she doesn't want to. If you were a Giga Chad she would not only commit, you would hear a sonic "boom" as her panties hit the floor.

[Juxtapose]

It's just another way of toying with your emotions. Assuming she is actually being sincere, she wants validation and reassurance.

[Anonymous]

I'm not scared of falling in love, i'm scared of getting hurt

[Anonymous]

It probably comes from too many fuck boys with mommy issues