For anyone to answer but I always hear about the one but I feel like there is no “One” for me why?

[laurlaur101]

I just can’t get any relationships I’m a friendly outgoing person just like to be social with everyone I don’t understand what’s going on. I know I constantly talk about this but this really stressed me out because feeling like maybe I’m the problem but not trying to expect things to happen right away just breaking the ice at first talking to people just mingle. So this is just really annoying I just feel like that time is running out why haven’t I found anyone yet?

[Mr_twoface]

There might be so many reasons to it... where you live and how remote it is, your surrounding and social network, how you portray yourself towards others, the social group your in, how devoted to studies, religion, relationships etc you are, how busy your daily life is, personal skills and abilities, your character...

I see you post similar questions, and many of the responses are good but bottomline I feel you need people (a friend, online friends, professionals etc.) to talk to. To ventilate your thoughts and reflections and share with you their personal experiences and make you get that confidence back on track! As I responded on another post, you are cute, and there is surely a lot of guys out there and in your surroundings that find you to be totally attractive. Just keep up aknowledging yourself too.

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[The_Reverend]

You are 20 years old. You have plenty of time to find love. Why not just find the “one” for the moment instead of trying to seek out a LTR. I’ve had several relationships over the years but I never once sought it out or searched for the “one”. It just kinda happened. Most girls don’t have a bunch of guys asking them out all the time and guys don’t have to be the one asking either. If you find a guy you are interested in. Let him know. He’ll ask him out, 99% of guys love to be asked out & the 1% that feel it’s too up front or whatever aren't the kind of guy any girl would want to date anyway. I wish you luck in the game of love but I honestly don’t think you’ll need it. Just a little patience and maybe some practice runs before you find your “one”.

[laly520]

u r still young its fine
u have time to find the one

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the elusive quest for "The One" - it's like a romantic comedy that sometimes feels like it's dragging into its third unnecessary sequel, am I right? 😉 Let's sprinkle a little optimism on the situation. You're outgoing and sociable, which means you've got the charm. Maybe it's not about you being the problem, but about timing and finding someone who vibes on your wavelength.

Remember, love is a bit like catching a wave; sometimes you need patience and sometimes you need to dive right in. It's totally normal to feel like time is ticking away, but the beauty of love is that it can surprise you at the most unexpected moments. Keep mingling and breaking the ice, but also focus on enjoying life and the connections you make along the way. Sometimes, when you're too focused on the hunt, the treasure hides in plain sight. Keep your sparkle, and someday soon, someone will see that shine and realize they've found their match. 🔥 Love is on its way to you, dressed in patience and wrapped in surprising moments. Keep the faith!

[kmg9150]

Maybe slow down and work on yourself. You seem eager like a boyfriend will give you validation, or even friends. Sometime when you try to hard it pushes things away. By looking at your past posts it seems to be the main focus in your life. People are meant to come and go throughout our lives. We have no control to what degree. Also the dating scene is really turned upside down with people following these influencers with agendas. Take a few chill pills (figuratively) and focus on you. I’m not sure what else to say. can't give you an honest opinion on physical appearance off the little photo. But I still lean towards it being needy/clingy.

[boggboss]

Your only 20 talking about time is running out if u believe in somthing like the one then ofc u ain't found them your still young and their are billions or men or women out their not sure what your into and thats without even knowing what your doing to try and get with someone

[laurlaur101]

But no one comes my way tho fr if they do I feel like it’s a joke or prank they can’t really be interested because all they do is leave anyways they stop talking

[lightbulb27]

no idea. I've seen some of the oddest people find mates. I would guess there are many "ones" for you and you have to decide which you are willing to give it a go with and make it work.

Dating is a skill

Relationship is skills.

[jahaims]

You are only 20 you have plenty of time to find someone. The "one" doesn't exist. You find someone who is compatible and is willing to work as hard as you are at maintaining a relationship. It would be impossible to answer this in detail without knowing your personality. Try asking a friend to be brutally honest and get their opinion.

[Anonymous]

Time is running out.🤣

You don't really want a relationship. That is, you do not want to put the effort necessary for one. You expect it to just fall in your lap.

At some point you'll change and make a greater effort or you won't. One things for sure. The sun is still going to rise and set whatever happens. Being single is not a fatal condition.

[BarryLiverstone]

If I’m being completely honest it doesn’t seem like you are over that last guy who pursued you. Why are you still worried about that?

[laurlaur101]

No I’m not over it because it’s brining back all these past things that happened then when he stopped with me now all the past stuff are resurfacing

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok so that’s the answer to your question. And until you do the work and get over it you can’t move on.

Why is that a mystery?

[Staximus]

Time is running out? You're 20. You have plenty of time.

[dudeinohio]

You are still quite young. you'll. certainly find someone.

[Awesomesauce2005]

I thought i was the only one lol, im 2 years younger and i feel exactly the same way.