Would you say it is dangerous to fall in love and why?

[Anonymous]

[SolitarySolace]

As a man, absolutely. Men have too mush to risk when attempting to find love. By love I mean with the end game being marriage. How are you going to know if a woman in America won't be a bad person who wants to utilize privileges and benefits put in place to protect women and abuse those protections in order to hurt men and benefit themselves by taking his money, his home, his resources, his kids, his job, etc away from him and leave him in the gutter when he isn't a bad man. It's better for men to avoid love and just enjoy life's peace and quiet

[Billlewis]

Falling in love is inherently more treacherous emotionally for men than for women, because women, especially nowadays, control the decision making process in most cases. For a guy optimistic enough to fall in love with an exceptionally attractive woman, there can be only pain and sorrow most of the time.

[Jamie05rhs]

She doesn't even have to be attractive. Most guys aren't really that shallow these days. We can easily fall in love with average women.

[Chelsdope0]

It poses risks for women. In fact, I'm not entirely convinced about the concept of love. I put my faith in compatibility and survival. Many enduring relationships, especially in the past, weren't necessarily founded on love.


From a female perspective, love can lead to pain, exploitation, and mistreatment. It can divert you from your true self, your aspirations, and your ambitions. The way women experience love differs significantly from men.


Men tend to prioritize their own needs.

[SolitarySolace]

"Men tend to prioritize their own needs"

And women don't? 🤣

[Chelsdope0]

When in love it’s different. It’s harder…

[SolitarySolace]

No shit. It's harder for men too not just women

[Chelsdope0]

Mmm no. When a woman is in love she becomes very selfless.

[SolitarySolace]

Hahahahahahhahahahhaa right all of those women who cheated on me were so selfless

[Chelsdope0]

Probably because you liked them more.

You loved them.. maybe they were unfulfilled dude.

It’s rare women cheat… I would look inward

[SolitarySolace]

Its rare women cheat? Are you out of your ever loving God damned mind? If women cheating was rare, why are 99% of men not the father?

[SolitarySolace]

On whatever show that was

[Chelsdope0]

Mmm, I’m not seeing your point. I guess we have different opinions

[SolitarySolace]

Clearly. You have a lot to learn

[Chelsdope0]

So do you.

[Chelsdope0]

For one you sound emotional.

[SolitarySolace]

Maybe I am. Is that a bad thing? I mean all women are emotional

[Chelsdope0]

Mmmm no.

[SolitarySolace]

No, it's not a bad thing or no not all women are emotional? See you're bias against men in favor of women because you're a woman.

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t think either should be too emotional..

Yes being too emotional especially for a man is a turn off. I’m sorry

[SolitarySolace]

🤣 no you're not. Men know not to be emotional around women because women take advantage of a man's vulnerability. All men should know this.

[Chelsdope0]

Very true

[SolitarySolace]

At least you unlike most women can admit that

[Nikki1989]

@Chelsdope0 Don't feed the troll.

[IslaTheWitch]

no, if you treat it seriously

it can be dangerous and very painful if you imagine things

[HawkPerception]

Too many people are fearful of loving nowadays because they're afraid of getting hurt and to me it's sad.

"It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."

[Simslover92]

Dangerous no. Risky yes. You don't know how a relationship is going to turn out. You are taking a risk on your heart when you give it to someone.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yes relationships are so complicated and my overthinking brain is probably luckier than it realised being single :) I've always been and remain single happily. After all, you know, other people, are such a bag of bricks themselves lol 🧱😂

[Mariena_Anne92]

Love only break your heart. Nothing else. Nothing more

[DryGermanGuy]

What about the men waking up in a Mexican hospital with a kidney missing? :-o

[Mariena_Anne92]

And what the cause of that? Because he believes in love? Not only heart break, he’s missing a kidney also

[sheikalana]

It can be dangerous if you're falling in love with the wrong person.

[LiamJHayden]

To "fall in love" is dangerous in my view because that is based upon emotions and I make terrible choices if I allow emotions to rule the decision. To "love" however is fine, as in my view that is a choice.

[WhitneySnow]

It is because the person might not love you back and even if they do they become your everything and Iosing them could make you fall apart

[exitseven]

Yes, when you let yourself fall in love with somebody you are giving her the ability to shred your beating heart into little pieces

[Anonymous]

dangerous if u fall for the wrong person. The pain and trauma u will face in ur entire life is unbearable.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes, love can be miserable and painful. To fall in love is usually a horrible idea.

[KrakenAttackin]

If the other person doesn't feel similarly it can certainly take a toll on your mental health.

[Anonymous]

If you allow love to be a blind thing and you ignore the signs it can cost you later but as long as you don’t let your heart rule over your brain you should be okay

[Valdemort]

Should have known this before I allowed my feelings to take over...

[Somoneelse]

Some people go to extreme lenghts for love. But I think it is not dangerous in general.

[Comingback]

There is absolutely nothing more dangerous. It's the most dangerous emotion that anyone can feel, because it changes your priorities, your everything.

[SotiCoto]

Because someone is probably just looking to steal your stuff.

[Yannae]

It's only dangerous if you don't go about it smart.

[Yamaal]

love is not dangerous if both sides are honest😏😏

[jimmy2]

Today it all but faking love to find live girls find a older man

[Anonymous]

Do we get to fight with Bowser when we fall in love now or what

[RebelinSteel]

As when it ends, it’s fucking painful

[Anonymous]

It is because it distracts you from what really matter in life

[Nikki1989]

No, it is a beautiful thing.

[laly520]

nope but risky at times

[BLP11520]

Yes, when one of the people is married?🤔

[Jamie05rhs]

Only emotionally.

[In_Trance]

No i wouldn't