Do you think all average men will be single and deemed undesirable soon if social media continues to exist?

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Do you think all average men will be single and deemed undesirable soon if social media continues to exist?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

average men aren't deemed undersirable etc by most women, cause most women are also average. pretty much every average dude has fucked & dated multiple girls, being average doesn't make you an incel. if you're 'average' and can't get laid, you're probably a little worse than average... or your personality/behavior is repulsive or keeps you from opportunities to get women (like if you stay locked at home all the time and never socialize which is common with incels). social media has no influence on the average dude's chances. cause those super hot dudes that according to guys like you fuck all the women, only fuck hot women not average ones (and hot women only fuck hot men too. hot only goes with hot). men are also exposed everyday to super hot girls on social media, pornhub etc but they still fuck and date their equals in terms of looks. it has no effect. stop blaming dumb things for your inability to get pussy. it's all on you, like it's your own fault. that's the truth

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

I have never met an average man. It's statistics term. Such a man doesn't exist.

We are different and every person is unique and offers something great. A lot of people don't accept themselves and even more don't love themselves. And self-acceptance and self-love are a base for the confidence... and people who are naturally confident glow... they don't have to be stunningly beautiful to be visible...

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

The only way for this to happen is for the large majority of women to either stay single, or share a small number of men with several other women. Neither of those is going to happen.

All available data shows that average men do get in relationships, and most even get married. Even below average men get in relationships and get married.

It's true that more and more people are single, but it's still a minority. The number who have never been in a relationship is an even smaller minority.

Keep in mind that the more single people there are, the more who are available as potential partners.

If social media continues, it will continue to spread misinformation.

If someone cries that "the sky is falling" and gives up, of course they are less likely to find someone. So stop crying that the sky is falling when it's not.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

This is something that butthurt boys ask when they haven't had any success with romantic endeavors. You want to blame someone else instead of yourself so it's social media, women's unrealistic expectations, or something else. . . anything else except looking at that YOU have done - or not done - that has caused you to experience a lack of success.

Go to the nearest mall, find a busy corridor, and sit your ass down for awhile. Watch the couples that stroll by. Do they all look like Hollywood movie stars? Hell, no! There are tons of men and women out there who are average and enjoying dating, finding long term partners, settling down, getting married, etc. If that is what you want. . . I don't know what you need to do to fix yourself, but I do know that blaming women and blaming social media won't change anything for you.

Kaamraj · Answer

We have to remember that most men as well as most women are average. When they're younger the average woman does feel and is made to feel by social media and dating apps that she's more valuable than the average male and swiping patterns on dating apps have shown that the average man is invisible for the average woman. But that's only when they're young. As women age, their sexual market value (SMV) declines firstly from deteriorating youth and looks and comparatively as everyone a new girl turns 18.

Men must now enforce their end of the bargain by first becoming the best version of themselves, by being physically, emotionally and financially fit and using the extended window of attractiveness and fertility that nature gives them by putting competition pressure on women to either be realistic or be denied a long term commitment including marriage.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Such a great question. I think All is to high of a metric but you could make the argument that most will be. Reality is that throughout history only the top 20% men have been successful w/ women. The difference is average women were willing to settle for average men. With social media what has happened is that average woman can now be contacted by exceptional men, which has convinced them that they themselves are exceptional. Since men are only as faithful as their options you coild make the argument that in the next few years you'll see more and more polygamous relationships where the man has 5-20 girls who are faithful to only him. This would leave the average man w/out a woman most of the time.

JacobJordan · Answer

Nope. American men (the most common place this type of thing resides) are very highly sought after worldwide and not for money or a green card as the raging feminists claim. Sure some foreign women want that. But most women outside the US love US men because they are unashamedly men they want what they want and don't feel bad about it. US men have a reputation around the world as being among the best men to marry especially for women that want a family and a loving husband. So if guys really want to get a good woman they have basically their pick of countries to go to. This does not go both ways American women do not have a good reputation world wide and there have been attempts by American women to go overseas and most of them have recorded videos of themselves getting absolutely ripped apart by foreign men. Because unsurprisingly to American men it isn't a man problem it is a woman problem despite them constantly blaming us for everything wrong with their lives.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not quite sure why this would be the case. Given that most women want a relationship with a single guy (so generally monogamous) there simply aren't enough "high value" men to absorb all the women, so the average guys can pair up too. It's the same logic the other way too. Women often bemoan the fact that men drool over supermodels (which we do) and conclude that it's "impossible" to get a guy with all those nasty "unrealistic" beauty standards going on. Which is complete bullshit. Because ALL guys who AREN'T Tom Brady or Chris Pine or whatever athlete, movie star or rock god you can think of--they all KNOW they'll never get with the models and are more than happy to pair up with "ordinary" girls.

Just relax, go out and meet people!

HighValue · Answer

They can have the women in their late 30s + that will have almost no options for a relationship.

FYI, there are 100 women for every 90 men in the USA so many women will have to have average of have nobody. Even then, many will still end up with nobody.

Anonymous · Answer

Yet another L for social media and the attitudes of those brain washed by it. Such is it with human nature, this could change in a heart beat.

Once people accept the reality - that humans are not meant to live alone, need babies to propagate their society, and need someone with them long term for their emotional, logistical, and financial health.

But until then, you lot are screwed.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

Yeah, I'm one of them average men and I love my single life because if you think about coping mechanisms, I always have my daydreams and my beliefs of the after, and I can enjoy what I like in this lifetime even if it's all just coping mechanisms and joy of a cheaper existence without a broad to fund and without golddigers cheaters and other nasty pieces of work 🤮🤢

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, but some men will continue to believe any old BS that is posted online. I guess they need as many excuses as possible to make up for their failures at relationships.

Unit1 · Answer

It's already happening. Go figure why porn, masturbator toys, anime body pillows and AI girlfriends were made.

genericname85 · Answer

so think logically for a moment. distribution of men and women in every society is roughly 50:50 right? in somme societies it's 1-2% difference to either side but genereally it's 50:50.

so if "all average men are single", what does that logically mean for the women given that distribution of 50:50? that means most women will be single too right? like logically not 100% of women can be with 10% of men. there's not enough men for that to happen.

normalice · Answer

No. I do think the average man might sit in front of his computer imaging he is undesirable, though, with no intention of testing that theory, completely content with wallowing in self inflicted grievance until he dies.

Haraklus · Answer

Man, the poll options don't even answer the question.

strateguy632 · Answer

lady will "settle" when the best are taken

LiamJHayden · Answer

It really isn't that difficult to find dates. Approach, ask, if she says "No.", go ask another, repeat as necessary.

DextroShade · Answer

This will cause the collapse of civilization, because no man will choose to spend his life doing the dirty, difficult and dangerous jobs that keep society running just so they can die as virgins.

SolitarySolace · Answer

By the way things are going, yeah men will remain single. Marriages will happen less and less and divorces will continue to raise

AngryCarl · Answer

Yes, but not just men. Women face an increasing shortage of sexually active males.

JayBones · Answer

Men will become women and do a better job. Real women are obsolete.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I expect this to continue at least for a couple more generations.

MemeSupreme · Answer

no lol that's so dramatic

boobliker · Answer

but it is bad

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