If A Man PROPOSES To His Girlfriend & She Says No, Is The Relationship Over?

[Anonymous]

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not over depending on my reasons. I want to know who I am marrying so if it's too soon, I'll say no. I don't want a big public proposal either. Do that social pressure public proposal and I'll say no.

Do it in private after some time has passed, and I'll say yes :)

[Mariena_Anne92]

I think so. Even she wants to continue I don’t think the man want after being rejected. Seems like she don’t have any plan for future with him. Just time pass

[molonski2]

Depends on the actual answer I believe , I appreciate its NO , but there could be numerous reasons for the NO , and your also have to question the intent of the proposal , for example , never propose without knowing what the answer will be anyhow.

[KrakenAttackin]

A refusal will certainly change the trajectory of the relationship.

[AviatorTom]

Not necessarily. She may not be ready to get married yet. There are numerous accounts of the guy being turned down multiple times until she finally says Yes... and they live happily ever after.

[Apple1996]

Most likely not. Maybe she just needs more time with dating and doesn't want to be engaged yet

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a guy who got rejected 3 times while proposing to his girlfriend and got a yes on the fourth ask.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

personally? I'd be done. If I step out to propose and get shot down, I fully respect her choice. But there wouldn't be a second offer.

I would most likely just wish her the best and look for a new partner that is wanting the same thing I do.

[FunkyMonkee]

Sometimes, you run across a door with REALLY rusty hinges that keep the door from opening. So, you put some oil on the hinges to get them to loosen up. This works A LITTLE bit but, not all the way. Do you give up or add some more oil and try it again?

[Vesuvius87]

Yup it's pretty much over. Generally people of both genders don't take kindly being told no towards marriage.

[IslaTheWitch]

Depends on how she rejects the proposal and how he gets her rejection...

[Anonymous]

It does not mean that the relationship is over. but it will definitely change how he feels about her, he may take the relationship back to step one, or just decide to move on, few women will ever understand the pressure that men are under when they consider proposing, and how it will affect the man when the proposal is turned down, but it is always the woman who gets the sympathy when they man walks away. never the man.

[silyt_ghoest]

nope. it just means they aren't ready for marriage or engagement. that shits scary, man. You gotta be patient.

[sheikalana]

I guess it depends on her reason for refusing his proposal. Maybe she's not yet ready but willing to wait a bit longer until she is.

[blkgold33]

If she doesn’t give a reason why she said no then the relationship is over

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Yes. Because why would she say "no"?

[worldscolide]

Pretty much. She says no, it means she is wasting your time and unworthy of any further investment time wise.

[handsomelad70]

A lot of guys will postpone the proposal, and if she rejects him once or twice more, move on from her.

[FlyerMan]

It isn't great but I would not give up just yet... Find out what her reason is. If it's bad or she can't give you a reason, then get out of there, it's not going to get better.

[Anonymous]

Not always. If the couple can work it out, then it won't lead to a break up, but in a lot of cases the male ego can't take a rejection that big.

[KrazyJCD2002]

could probably just mean
not now, i ain't ready yet
for all that

doesn't have always be
"we're over"

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Within a week, no. After about 1 or 2 months then yes.

[Anonymous]

I mean it depends if he proposed 2 months in… or if they need more time to be stable and know each other i think the proposal should be rejected.

[Anonymous]

Pretty much yeah.