What is your thought on a simp?

[underling]

[Pinay_ako]

A word that degrades men who just want to be chivalrous and old fashion romantics.

[underling]

You are a lot of followers

[Pinay_ako]

Yes, but did I answer your question?

[underling]

It is very intimidating that you have so many followers. You answered my question. And I see your point in your answer. I also understand there are a lot of males that want to be known as a simp

[Pinay_ako]

How’s it intimidating? I found your question worth answering to. I think that word is degrading. I actually hate that word.

[underling]

I guess I should not find your number intimidating but I do. Thank you for feeling my question with worth answering. I do mean that. Maybe the word is derogatory. But there are males that like that

[underling]

May I follow?

[Pinay_ako]

Ofc you can

[DarkWinterNights]

Holy crap there are 16,000 people on this site?

[The_Sexpert]

Wrong
Being chivalrous and romantic is completely different
Being a simp involves 0 self respect

[Foreveralonevirgin]

@Pinay_ako How is a guy giving away a $50k supercomputer to a woman he doesn't know, and she doesn't care about him, old-fashioned romance?

Or I remember some Chinese guy giving away a million dollars for a woman to be his girlfriend. There is no old fashion romance it's just being desperate and a lot of women are afraid to go out at night because creepy behavior like that is encourage and those men think they are entitled to sex.

[Kaneki05]

Simps actively lie to women to try get in their good book so they will sleep with them.
If that's what you find Chivalrous then well there is a lot of guys like that so good for you I guess.
But I find it pretty unfair to women as I am sure most women don't want that.

I'm pretty sure people would rather have someone honest, and don't just say things to try get into bed.

[pickles77]

A Simp is unhealthy. It’s basically a guy that puts a girl on a pedestal who sees her as perfection and that he himself is unworthy so he has to put her above his own boundaries at all costs. Even though she’s not even asking for it. The dude can’t breath and he’s basically suffocating trying to pursue a relationship which is never sustainable in the first place.


More correctly No woman is perfect and No man is perfect. But you can still be a gentleman and love her despite her flaws just as you would want to be loved despite yours. We’re all human but if you look at her like she’s the last woman on earth she’s gonna run bro.

[Anonymous]

Sad. Self respect you cannot buy. These types of men make it hard on every man by overinflating women's egos.

But that being said they don't really bother me that much. Because pick me girls just looking for attention are probably going to remain pick me girls anyways. So at the end of the day it is a wash.

And there are just as many guys who appear to simp just to get into a woman's pants. These are not simps. These are f*** bois. So after a while the woman who's thinks she's gaming the guy is actually the one being gamed.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

You can take advantage of them, but nobody respects a stupid sucker that is only around ONLY because they just really want to fuck. They're like the male version of a woman that sits around watching romance movies all the time and believes that shit happens in real life. "Pathetic" is the word I'm looking for. There is a reason these guys get friend zoned, or used like a battery for resources while they get cheated on.

Simps need their pills... until they start taking red pills

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the world of "simping," where chivalry meets the digital age on a blind date! Now, my aim here is to sprinkle a little insightful glitter on this often misunderstood term. Simping, in its essence, is showing excessive attention or affection—think lovebombing, but with a side of desperation. It's like when someone's trying so hard to win someone's favor, they lose sight of their own self-worth. Real hot take? It's all about balance, folks. Being thoughtful, kind, and attentive? Chef's kiss! 🌟 But losing yourself in someone else's highlight reel? That's where we draw the flirty line. Remember, it's super sexy to have boundaries and self-respect. Keep it cool, keep it genuine, and keep the love for yourself as bright as your love for others. 💫

[Apple1996]

Being a simp is a good thing. The only people that think it's bad are incels that can't get women because to them they have to be a narcissistic in their relationship and cannot even imagine caring about a woman's wants or needs.

[Kaneki05]

I'm confused what do you think a simp actually is? Because a simp is not someone who cares about the woman lol.
Unless you somehow think caring about a woman is lying to them to try get into their pants?

A real person who cares about someone ain't thinking about just what sex they can get from said person.
When Simps and Incels that's all they think about, they just both want sex from a woman one chooses to blame the women for not having sex with them the other lies to try make the woman want to sleep with them.

Both extremes are toxic.

[Apple1996]

@Kaneki05 being a simp has nothing to do with sex. There is no gain from being a simp it's done just to be a good guy

[Kaneki05]

Here's an example you tell me how this is been a good guy?
Guy thinks racists are bad, but he meets a hot girl who's racist then he agrees with her rather than disagree. Do you think he's doing this because he's a good guy? Or do you know why he's lying here?

[Apple1996]

@Kaneki05 that's not a example of being a simp

[Kaneki05]

It's by far the most simple and obvious example of one. It's ignoring toxic habits of women and agreeing with them just cause they are attractive.
That's what a simp is and has always been since it started getting commonly used in this context.

So I ask again what do you actually think a simp is? Because whatever your definition is it's not what other people mean when they say simp. It's the example I gave.

[Apple1996]

@Kaneki05 a simp gets no gain from the things they say. That example he's getting a gain from it like being agreeable.
I'd say men that aren't simps have to lie more since they need some sort of a way to get whatever they want from the woman

[Apple1996]

@Kaneki05 personally I cannot even stand to be around men that use the word simp. They are the ones just trying to take advantage of women and think they must be the top person in their relationship (thinking they are the prize). It's just nasty. I'd rather be around men that care about women unconditionally and know that women are the prize. Why a woman would settle for any less is beyond me

[Kaneki05]

That's exactly what a simp does.
It's this simple would you like a guy lying to you, just to try get into your pants? If your answer is no which is obviously should be then you don't find simps a good thing.

Unless you really do think it's okay for guys to lie to women just cause their attractive and they may have a chance of getting on their good side for sex. Because that's what a simp does.

[Apple1996]

@Kaneki05 simps get nothing in return for being a simp. You must not understand that

[Kaneki05]

There is a difference between caring about a woman, and agreeing with a woman just cause you find them attractive.
That's the simplicity of it.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

To me... simping is when a man who's already in a relationship keeps pursuing another woman. Whining all over the internet, telling all his friends about it. Above all, he can't be brave enough to end the current relationship. That's the huge sign of loser. If the woman he's with is not that good. Just leave. Plus, he doesn't know how to reject bad apples. Thinking that free stuff is lucky. Sorry but nope. That could lead you to hell in the end. I see male monkey branching more in real life. It's not good for anyone. New or old. Nobody wants a false hope.

[Joshydavid25]

Simps have been ruining things since the beginning.. Don't get me wrong, every man has a Simp phase, but then we realize that not all women are worth the attention we want to give, so we Become nice and selective.. But so many men are desperate unfortunately, and it's creating this power vacuum between men and women..

[Joshydavid25]

I should've said "power gap"..

[The_Sexpert]

Simps are men with 0 self respect

Also simps do not genuinely care for the woman they are simping for... their sole intention is to get sexual attention or activity from the woman

So do not compare them to men who are romantic and chivalrous

[NathanDavis]

just a new, trendy term used by insecure boys here and there...

no more, no less...

[Unit1]

its a word used by idiots towards men, that simply respect women.

[Billlewis]

I think they're great, which I should, since I am one;)

[Laciejordan]

I was waiting for you to leave a comment, sissy! 🙄

[Billlewis]

@Laciejordan Yes, ma'am. Hopefully I didn't keep you waiting too long.

[underling]

@Laciejordan he likes dressing?

[underling]

Is she your Domme?

[Billlewis]

Me. Lacie is one of numerous people on here who derive great pleasure from shaming me in front of the other members. I'm exceedingly grateful for her contempt, ridicule and repeated humiliation.

[underling]

I understand

[underling]

You should thank her for what she does for you

[Billlewis]

Oh, I thank her all the time, probably four or five times today, alone.

[underling]

Do you tribute to her?

[Billlewis]

I'm not st liberty to discuss that here, but you're welcome to message me if you like, Sir.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

To each their own, I feel bad for most of them, some of them are pieces of shit who ruin dating for everyone else on literally a daily basis.

Even those guys, society has failed them.

[RebelinSteel]

I think it’s a stupid word, likely used by those that can’t get dates for those that have girls who are friends or are actively trying to date.

[Knightwatch27]

Call it whatever you will but the act of a man desperately seeking the approval/validation/sex of a woman through submission is obscene, unnatural and pathetic.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No idea. I never heard of the word before, and I can't be arsed to learn it either!

[Billlewis]

@TommyMountainFigure Yes, Sir, the term 'simp' refers to a generally submissive guy who has a tendency to be overly meek and accommodating, and often generous financially to women, knowing all the while that he has virtually no chance whatsoever of ever being physically intimate with her.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Billlewis Thank you for explaining that Bill. In fact, that years ago use to be the exact meaning of a "genuinely nice guy" Odd that someone has manipulated a word to make it seem sleazy!

[Billlewis]

You're quite welcome, Sir, plus, you've helped me out with a couple of things recently.
Conveniently enough, I just commented on a question that exemplifies what a simp, which I'm proud to say I'm a part of -- view as an excellent opportunity to express his admiration for others.
Because women suffer uniquely compared to men, should men strive to make women as comfortable as possible no matter the cost? ↗

[TommyMountainFigure]

@Billlewis Thanks. I'm pleased I could help.. Right lets go take a look at that question now.

[he-takes-a-part]

Nothing simply nowhere it is found. It's all intensity. If you continue to do this you won't find love. There can't be balance people and approach in this world. Be practical. It's about crest and trough.

[Kaneki05]

Great for women on OF, bad for women IRL when a guy lies to a woman just to try get sex.

[MushyKiwi]

Oh. These comments aren't so nice 😨 My friend called me a Simp because I was head over heels for a guy but I guess that's a bad thing?

[DextroShade]

They should be mocked, shamed, bullied, and humiliated whenever possible. It's because of them that women are so fucking awful these days.

[serious_miss419]

I don’t know what a simp is.
Every one uses weird labels all the time instead of explaining themselves.

[underling]

Simp is pretty common

[serious_miss419]

Never heard of it

[underling]

So that’s a no

[KrisKris81]

Someone who does anything and everything for the opposite sex in hopes that they will get sex. Even if it means degrading themselves.

[genericname85]

they're desparate and in need of learning how to actually do courtship.

[DarkWinterNights]

They aren’t doing themselves, women or the dating market any favors.

[Nikki1989]

What @Pinay_ako said.

[Pinay_ako]

Apparently not as per the sexpert 🙄

[Anonymous]

I get it as a dating strategy (which is really all that it is) but for MANY of the guys who use it, it isn't their best strategy.

[Anonymous]

i wish my partner acted more like one.

[underling]

How are you tonight?

[euniestars]

they lowkey cringey

[underling]

Who is “cringey”?

[Night_Descends]

No self respect.

[sheikalana]

An insecure guy.

[Yannae]

They make dating difficult.

[David94358]

Pathetic

[jahaims]

Sad/gross

[Anonymous]

Their own worst enemy!!

[MrDaveAPSI]

Republicucks