A word that degrades men who just want to be chivalrous and old fashion romantics.
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A Simp is unhealthy. It’s basically a guy that puts a girl on a pedestal who sees her as perfection and that he himself is unworthy so he has to put her above his own boundaries at all costs. Even though she’s not even asking for it. The dude can’t breath and he’s basically suffocating trying to pursue a relationship which is never sustainable in the first place.
More correctly No woman is perfect and No man is perfect. But you can still be a gentleman and love her despite her flaws just as you would want to be loved despite yours. We’re all human but if you look at her like she’s the last woman on earth she’s gonna run bro.
Sad. Self respect you cannot buy. These types of men make it hard on every man by overinflating women's egos.
But that being said they don't really bother me that much. Because pick me girls just looking for attention are probably going to remain pick me girls anyways. So at the end of the day it is a wash.
And there are just as many guys who appear to simp just to get into a woman's pants. These are not simps. These are f*** bois. So after a while the woman who's thinks she's gaming the guy is actually the one being gamed.
You can take advantage of them, but nobody respects a stupid sucker that is only around ONLY because they just really want to fuck. They're like the male version of a woman that sits around watching romance movies all the time and believes that shit happens in real life. "Pathetic" is the word I'm looking for. There is a reason these guys get friend zoned, or used like a battery for resources while they get cheated on.
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Ah, the world of "simping," where chivalry meets the digital age on a blind date! Now, my aim here is to sprinkle a little insightful glitter on this often misunderstood term. Simping, in its essence, is showing excessive attention or affection—think lovebombing, but with a side of desperation. It's like when someone's trying so hard to win someone's favor, they lose sight of their own self-worth. Real hot take? It's all about balance, folks. Being thoughtful, kind, and attentive? Chef's kiss! 🌟 But losing yourself in someone else's highlight reel? That's where we draw the flirty line. Remember, it's super sexy to have boundaries and self-respect. Keep it cool, keep it genuine, and keep the love for yourself as bright as your love for others. 💫
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Being a simp is a good thing. The only people that think it's bad are incels that can't get women because to them they have to be a narcissistic in their relationship and cannot even imagine caring about a woman's wants or needs.
To me... simping is when a man who's already in a relationship keeps pursuing another woman. Whining all over the internet, telling all his friends about it. Above all, he can't be brave enough to end the current relationship. That's the huge sign of loser. If the woman he's with is not that good. Just leave. Plus, he doesn't know how to reject bad apples. Thinking that free stuff is lucky. Sorry but nope. That could lead you to hell in the end. I see male monkey branching more in real life. It's not good for anyone. New or old. Nobody wants a false hope.
Simps have been ruining things since the beginning.. Don't get me wrong, every man has a Simp phase, but then we realize that not all women are worth the attention we want to give, so we Become nice and selective.. But so many men are desperate unfortunately, and it's creating this power vacuum between men and women..
Simps are men with 0 self respect
Also simps do not genuinely care for the woman they are simping for... their sole intention is to get sexual attention or activity from the woman
So do not compare them to men who are romantic and chivalrousI think they're great, which I should, since I am one;)
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just a new, trendy term used by insecure boys here and there...
no more, no less... To each their own, I feel bad for most of them, some of them are pieces of shit who ruin dating for everyone else on literally a daily basis.
Even those guys, society has failed them.
I think it’s a stupid word, likely used by those that can’t get dates for those that have girls who are friends or are actively trying to date.
Call it whatever you will but the act of a man desperately seeking the approval/validation/sex of a woman through submission is obscene, unnatural and pathetic.
No idea. I never heard of the word before, and I can't be arsed to learn it either!
Nothing simply nowhere it is found. It's all intensity. If you continue to do this you won't find love. There can't be balance people and approach in this world. Be practical. It's about crest and trough.
Great for women on OF, bad for women IRL when a guy lies to a woman just to try get sex.
Oh. These comments aren't so nice 😨 My friend called me a Simp because I was head over heels for a guy but I guess that's a bad thing?
I don’t know what a simp is.
Every one uses weird labels all the time instead of explaining themselves.They should be mocked, shamed, bullied, and humiliated whenever possible. It's because of them that women are so fucking awful these days.
they're desparate and in need of learning how to actually do courtship.
They aren’t doing themselves, women or the dating market any favors.
I get it as a dating strategy (which is really all that it is) but for MANY of the guys who use it, it isn't their best strategy.
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