Would a rich woman marry a competent and intelligent average-to-low income earner?

[Anonymous]

[RebelinSteel]

Most likely not as they would not be moving in the same social circles

[Asker]

What if she is rich, but from the countryside, moving to the city, and the guy is from the city, but less well off.

[RebelinSteel]

They would not be in the same circles

[Asker]

I actually am in the same circles with such women. I don't live in England, there are no classes

[RebelinSteel]

There are classes, money generates them

Can you afford to go to the theatre every week, to the opera?

[Asker]

Yeah. In my country they are quite cheap, it would be 10 pounds for the best seat and like 5 pounds for the worst. You should rather ask me: Do you afford to eat at the restaurant every weekend? A hamburger is like 15 pounds and the average salary is around 800 pounds/month. In my country you are low class if you are from the countryside and you are less educated, even if you have a successful agricultural business and make lots of money, and you are of a higher class if you live in a big city, even if you can barely afford to live, but you have a degree and an office job. Education is free and social mobility is high.

[RebelinSteel]

I thought you said they were no classes

[678987]

Most rich people live in the countryside. Actually, people that live in the countryside is their choice so it’s more exclusive. How do you now she is rich?

[Asker]

Kind of. The social stratification is not like in England. There is a high socioeconomic mobility and there is less awareness of classes. We don't really think of people in terms of "upper class, upper middle class, middle class, low class", we just think of them in terms of their living environment (urban/rural), and how much money you make. Some people from the countryside are more capable of generating wealth because they inherited much land which they can cultivate.

[Asker]

Yes, they live in villages close to metropolises.

[678987]

No one thinks rural/city. It makes no sense to live in a city if you’re stuck there or live in 1 room. My opinion the rural people say it’s better to choose where to live e. g. you may grow up in the countryside but with your skills and “money” can live in the city and make a life there. Actually is better because home will always be home. So you get the full package of rural to chill (inheritance) + city. What do you think?

[Asker]

It's just how my country is and what urban people think about uneducated "peasants". I'm not talking about those people who moved to the countryside to build a big house, but those who were born there. Indeed, rural people also afford to pay rent and buy larger apartments in the city.

[678987]

well countryside in South of France or Tuscany for me doesn't sound like "peasants" indeed maybe educated and chic people with a bug garden. If you live in the countryside it odes not meant you live in the mud. Why you denigrate the countryside? I lived and grew up there and feel inferior to you just by your comments. This is bad

[678987]

big*

[678987]

Which country are u from?

[Asker]

No. I do not denigrate it, I just tell you about the perspective of people in my country and how social dynamics are. It was not an affront.

[Anonymous]

Maybe with a watertight pre-nup in place, usually lower peg guys get picked at that level because they are physically well endowed

[Lara_Croft]

mr darcy married elizabeth elliot. He was like filthy rich and she like walked mostly barefoot-so yes, c'est possible

[Lara_Croft]

I also just realized you said woman. It's different in that case

[Anonymous]

yes of course love is love. How do you know she is richer than you? Are you 100% sure about it?

[Asker]

Yeah. I know her family businesses. She is a shareholder. My advantage is that I'm more "educated" and "intellectual".

[Opinion Owner]

Well she is educated too. Love is not rational you cannot think of advantage/disadvantage. You should like her for who she is not money

[Opinion Owner]

And I am sure she doesn’t care either. The inlet thing that matters is if you both are good people

[Pohjolan]

Only if they are in some other way exceptional.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. And if she did she probably would be disgusted with him at all times.

[Anonymous]

Lol gold digger femboi