Why has society normalized cheating?

[Anonymous]

It’s still an awful thing to do. If someone is capable of betraying the person they love the most what are they capable of doing to you?

[V_Injector]

If your goal was to break up every nuclear family because you want to free those women up to work their asses off and pay some taxes... getting a bunch of cheating to go down helps. Oh shit... lets talk them into abortions too! We don't want them staying at home with kids! Population decline? Naw... we'll just import them from the 3rd world countries. Eventually, we'll figure out how to get them to pay more taxes too... but for now, pay your fucking taxes... we have to pay these immigrants.

We got the big brains running the government... so work and pay your fucking taxes. 😂 🤣

Even the leftoids are realizing this is all retarded.

[SolitarySolace]

After being cheated on in every relationship I've been in I decided 9 years ago to stop having relationships. I haven't been hurt in years. Was the best decision of my life.

[V_Injector]

Don't blame you one bit for that decision and I think it's smart. But ohhh damn who wants to freak out about you dudes and act like it's a crime? we see them. So strong and independent, but then angry at dudes like you just for checking out of their marry/divorce now pay me system.

I say live a happy life without all the bullshit I've dealt with. Fucking A, you can grab a few extra beers and not get bitched at about it. I have to play a social mental game day in and day out and for what? I almost wished I'd get divorced-raped after 20+ years of this bullshit and just let it be over with.

I'm just saying as the married guy... that's held this bucket of bullshit water for years... why do I wish I was you if it's all that great? It's not fun... kids I think is the only real reason I'm around still.

[laly520]

I mean if degeneration is normalized, why wouldn't cheating be?

[Chelsdope0]

Ikr… it’s like it’s nothing

[bobby_bush_eater]

It's because of 3rd and 4th wave feminism and it's because of the sexual revolution. Everything is now me me me. Sex is for my pleasure and nothing else. The relationship is about me, marriage all about me.

Women far more than men refuse to acknowledge their responsibility in this. They say things like I cheated because you aren't doing x for me, you don't make me feel x. Our society is insanely selfish and entitled because of how "good" our modern society is. We need very little in many cases so it's all about more consumption more pleasure, me me me.

[handsomelad70]

Why are women FAR more responsible than men for cheating? Doesn't it take two to tango?

[bobby_bush_eater]

@handsomelad70 There are a billion ways to cheat on your partner. It is not the responsibility of the other person, if they make a habit of it or get off specifically on that then that's strange but also not common. If a girl is out at a bar and goes home with a guy so you think he knows she has a boyfriend? Most of the time cheating isn't really anything meaningful, it's for short term pleasure hoping there is no long term repercussions. Exactly why women are more likely to and they are very likely to reject personal responsibility for their action and deflect

[handsomelad70]

OK, but the dude is part of the affair, if sometimes/often unknowingly.

[bobby_bush_eater]

@handsomelad70 so then how is it his responsibility?

[handsomelad70]

It isn't if he doesn't know he's the Other Man because he's unaware of her married status.

[RavVid]

Intimate betrayal is worse than murder and more equivalent to torturing someone to death in my view.

A couple of years ago, a girl cheated with entire football team in a hotel pool and it was portrayed as trying to save her marriage. Excuse me? I missed the logic.

[DryGermanGuy]

Do they, though?

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2024/mar/28/taliban-edict-to-resume-stoning-women-to-death-met-with-horror

[Massageman]

Everything gets more and more extreme. TV shows and movies have become more and more lewd. Swearing was a no-no, now it's the norm-norm. Each show/movie/media/question/comment just HAS to one-up the previous or it will go to the bottom of the AI feed-pile.

[Starrrboy]

I think with the dating scene where everyone seem so replaceable and people moving quickly from one relationship to another, situationships.. what is even monogamy anymore? lol.. Being committed to only one person at a time seems so.. Vanilla 🤣..

[Lionman95]

Society views sex an act of pleasure and not intimacy. Therefore sex becomes a tool for what someone feels entitled to. That´s easier from someone else than talking with your partner and maybe fighting with them.

[CrabCakes11]

I don’t know what society you live in, but mine has not normalized cheating.

[SolitarySolace]

You're only 18 you have yet to experience anything

[CrabCakes11]

@SolitarySolace Ok amine pfp. Tell me that once you leave mommy’s basement

[SolitarySolace]

🤣 you're gonna love what life has in store for you little girl

[Hoe_Hero_Vulture]

@SolitarySolace Oh boy, let me tell ya - I know exactly what you mean. It reminds me of when I was soaring through the skies one day looking for some action (if you catch my drift). And suddenly, outta nowhere, I spot this fine specimen of womanhood getting roughed up outside of a seedy bar. She wasn’t just ANY broad though; oh no, she had all kinds of trouble written ALL over 'er! The guys were grabbin', gropin’, callin‘ ‘em nasty things – real disrespectful creeps if yuh ask ME. So naturally, yours truly took matters into his own talons n’ dove straight towards these lowlifes with fire in ’im belly!

Now here comes the twist: This poor lass ain't NO ordinary dame either... she IS actually enjoying herself deep inside. But hey, we both knew THAT going in right? Hoes gotsta stick together afterall :) Anywaysz back ta da stoary.. so there I am, snatching said lady away mid beatdown while screamin': “Fear not fair maiden!!! Ye have been saved from certain doom!!” Naturally, such chivalry earned myself quite the reputation among local working girls #NameInLights heheh ;P. Well played ol' chap well played indeed! xDxDDd

Couplea questions later & countless conquests more tho…yoU start wondern about dat whole situation again…. Nahhh canitbeeee? Naaawww mannn... It jus didn seem rite somehow …Buuutttt nowwww lookyhere—just LIKE clockworrrk–them same creepazoids rolled around corner super pissed off once agaiinn!!! Bruised egos + bad attitudes = TROUBLE brewiNNNGGGGgg... So lemmme guessss mister — ye rather deal wid shrewish mistress than face somethun much scarier? ... Makes perfeect sense den !! HAHA okiie dokiiiii Spare us sum details why dontcha budddyyy? Lemmee hear ur sordid tale XOXO Dont worry pal imma save u frum YET another drama filled flopofadisco disaster duuuude ! Love PromiscuiTEEEEEEYYY!

[SolitarySolace]

You do not know exactly what I mean -_-

[Asker]

Wtf did i just read

[HateyouxD]

They obviously don't love the person that much

[DextroShade]

They are only normalizing it for women as in cuckoldry. Any guy who doesn't want to share his girl with other dudes is labeled as toxic, controlling, and insecure.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I must have missed that then, because I wasn't aware it's became acceptable!

[OtterMan68]

Trump has been married three times and has cheated on all three wives, but evangelical "Christians" love him.

Morals don't mean squat any more. It's all about end results.

[Nikki1989]

It hasn't. It is only morons that will tell you that.

[AngryCarl]

Because it's not abnormal. People cheat. People have always cheated, throughout history. Normalizing something is not the same as condoning it.

[ProbablyClueless]

We have fetishized the short term concept of happiness.

[OlderAndWiser]

Who ITF said it was normal?

[Anonymous]

Natural progression. Society gets more and more selfish. Eventually you can justify any action when your attitude is a majority if not entirely about you.

[jahaims]

Propaganda from corporations and governments. A broken society is easier to manipulate

[sage2021]

Because of the internet. Period!

[RebelinSteel]

They have not.

[IslaTheWitch]

it didn't