You don't choose to love someone. It either is or isn't there. What you can choose is whether you act on it or not. But the emotion itself is not your choice.
I really dont know My exbf excited me almost instantly but something always told me he wasn't good and my hubby it took a year for me to really fall for him.
Well I think you can't control who you love , but you can control whether to keep up with them or not.. so, in the end it's definitely a choice , yes..
Yes, love is in the human will, so you can love without a feeling, even though feelings might help if we use them properly. Happiness is not the same as pleasure. Happiness is satisfaction in the mind, but pleasure is just a bodily movement.
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You don't choose to love someone. It either is or isn't there. What you can choose is whether you act on it or not. But the emotion itself is not your choice.
Yes. Love is absolutely a choice. There is no such thing as love at first sight
yeah when you like someone you try so hard to defend that person in ypur mind but sometimes yly get tired and just let it be
no... otherwise I would have chosen Katy Perry
but, it doesn't work just like that... lol
It depends. We choose who we love romantically for sure, as opposed to parents or kids who we love unconditionally.
Love is unexpected and comes naturally on its own. But love is a choice on forever to continue to love the same person everyday.
Short term, no.
Long term, yes.
Does not necessarily apply to familial and platonic love.
I really dont know My exbf excited me almost instantly but something always told me he wasn't good and my hubby it took a year for me to really fall for him.
Love is not a choice. Its something that just happends. You will fall in love with the person you least expected at least in my experience.
Love is not a choice, but what you do with it is always.
Romantic live is glandular.
Enduring Love - what the Greeks 2000 years ago called agape - is a decision.
Well I think you can't control who you love , but you can control whether to keep up with them or not.. so, in the end it's definitely a choice , yes..
No love is not a choice you get different sexuality’s it’s not all the same
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@moneymagnet24 thanks ❤️
Wait it’s not actually just “words” it’s the truth
Yes love touch ya boobs 😘
Your each words are so intelligent 😘
@moneymagnet24 thanks 🙂
This is so true. You are absolutely correct I know from experience.
@Alwayreckles93 thank you ☺️❤️
Your welcome ❤️🙌
Its both. You don't choose who fall for but you choose in the end what you do with those feelings.
I believe EVERYTHING in life is about choice, or at least it should be!
No. I think acting on it is a choice, but you can't choose to be in love with someone.
“Love” is first a chemical reaction and then a series of choices.
Yes, love is in the human will, so you can love without a feeling, even though feelings might help if we use them properly. Happiness is not the same as pleasure. Happiness is satisfaction in the mind, but pleasure is just a bodily movement.
Yes it’s a choice… I mean you have to choose to open up to someone and receive whatever they give you.
To a point, yes. Some people are unlovable because they made themselves that way.