Do you think you’re a loss to people when they lose you for good? Why/why not?

[Pinay_ako]

When you cut them off of your life?

[Awesomesauce2005]

Yup. They make up their mind about me before they get to know me. Everyone tells me how nice I am and I'm very knowledgeable and skilled in many trades such as electrical in AC and DC currents, roofing, flooring, painting, drywalling, gas engine repair, diesel engine repair, car restoration, etc. im a very friendly person.

[Pinay_ako]

Oh wow nice answer

[Awesomesauce2005]

Thanks for selecting me as the mho😁

[Awesomesauce2005]

Wrong emoji lol

[Pinay_ako]

Lmao that’s on

[Pinay_ako]

Ok 😂

[Somoneelse]

Nah. I feel like if they lose me, they never wanted me to begin with. Otherwise they would have spend more effort in keeping me. When someone "lost" me, I had my reasons for cutting them out of my life or I found out how fucking blind I was and letted them use me for their own gain.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes 🙌

[Artificial Intelligence]

Diving into the deep end, are we? Here's the thing about saying "bye-bye" to someone: it depends on the depth of the connection, right? If you've been lovebombing them with your awesomeness, sharing deep conversations, and making memories, sure, it’s like they just lost a valuable treasure chest (that's you!). But, remember, it's a two-way street. The feeling of loss should be mutual because real connections are about equal exchanges. If you're the only one bringing sunshine to the table, then darling, they might just need a pair of sunglasses after you're gone. And remember, it's all about growth. Sometimes, people drift apart to bloom in different directions. Never forget your worth and the magic you bring into relationships. Keep shining and evolving!

[DaveJord]

I mean, you cannot really lose something you never had right? With everything in life there are pros and cons. So in relationships most the time those things balance out in the end, even if we do not like it.

She lost all the pros, but she also no longer has to deal with cons. I mean who really knows what pros or cons you have when it comes to other people. But the all the good times, and hopes for the future are gone and lost, but most the ass pain of trying to work out the future with another person is gone as well.

I am not lost and neither is she, but the opportunism you had with this person is lost. It is sad, but that is life.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are not a loss to people from your past if they learned lessons from their relationship with you, or if you otherwise helped them to become better people.

[BadApple69]

Noooo….. people are better off without me lol.


It’s the ant theory: I came up with this years ago and repeated over 100 times to people.
Do you all remember the ant farms kids used to have? It was 2 pieces of clear plastic about 3/8” of an inch between them. You filled it with dirt and put ants in it and you could watch the ants dig tunnels, move food around and do nothing but work 24 hours a day (at least that’s what it seemed).
So if you took out an ant and squashed it then quickly turned and looked at the ant farm you will see something amazing. Not one ant would even stop for a millisecond the task he was doing. None of them cared that a fellow ant was squashed out of existence.
We are those ants. Oh maybe there will be a couple of tears here or there but in basically life will go on as normal and we will hardly be missed just like the ants.

[electromagnetic]

Probably not.
Here me out: if someone is so wick to lose me, they probably didn’t put much effort or see the value in me to begin with and quite honestly, I’m okay with that. There’s no point in playing pretend.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't know... I'd don't think I'm the best person to answer such a question.

I know my people like and appreciate me, so I could draw a conclusion they would experience some loss

[NathanDavis]

you won't lose me Pinoy... I like your memes

[Pinay_ako]

Awww can’t lose you too ❤️

[HighValue]

When someone loses me they are at a loss because they won't find another person with my qualities. It depends more on how rare a person is, whether or not they are a significant loss or not when someone loses them from their life.

[DJB72]

If someone can't handle my nature and cut me out, I don't consider it a loss to me. They lose someone who won't bullshit them and will always have their back in a pinch.

[LaurenM1997]

I always say if people do me wrong it’s a them problem not me or it’s their loss not mine but they don’t care

[AlexEfron]

Considering the past, it would be unwise to believe so. 😆 I'm like the rotting molar that you can get removed and still no one would know 🥲

[Staximus]

I guess, but it's probably for the better. It takes a lot for me to cut somebody out of my life.

[Markymark92]

No, life goes on they’ll get over it. I’m just your average joe so I don’t see why they would.

[LunarEclipse433]

Not really. If I lose them, I never really had them

[RavVid]

I am pretty giving so yes.

[eagle1951]

beats me depends on why