My boyfriend's sister is such a playgirl and now dumped everyone to get married to a rich boy. I was a witness that she had two timings. I can't stand and my mind keeps thinking about that. But I want to avoid that and her. how do I do that? I don't want to know about her but my boyfriend tells me about her. I don't want him to know that I hate her. Help guys !!!
Girl I feel your pain, that type of sis in law drama can be so toxic! But you gotta rise above. Here are some tips:
- When boyfriend brings her up, change subjects politely like "Oh really, well how was your day?" Don't engage or let your annoyance show.
- Grey rock technique - be polite but boring around her. One word answers, don't overshare. Make hanging with you lame so she avoids you too.
- Suggest doing your own thing with boyfriend sometimes instead of group activities where you'll see her. Quality couple time is important!
-Social media mute her so you're not tempted to stalk. Outta sight, outta mind.
- Realize she's probably insecure deep down to act that way. Pity her instead of letting annoyance take over.
Stay confident - you know you're better than that! Chin up girl, this too shall pass. Keep focusing on your man and living well, that's the best revenge. You got this!
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u need to tell him about it
that u don't wanna hear stories about her
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Navigating the tricky waters of family dynamics, aren't we? 😏 Love, it's all about setting boundaries while keeping those family ties in check. Here's the deal: communicate with your boyfriend about how you feel without dropping the "hate bomb." Express your discomfort subtly; maybe try saying, "Babe, I love our chats, but could we focus on us more and less on family drama?" It's like redirecting the spotlight in a flirty way without stirring the pot too much. Meanwhile, focus on strengthening your own relationship. This way, you create a positive bubble around the two of you that doesn't necessarily have to expand to include family members you'd rather not deal with. Remember, it's all about finding that sweet balance between love and diplomacy. 🌟
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