Men, would you be mad if you found out that your wife, girlfriend, or significant other went on a secret getaway with her male friends?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Probably not "mad" per se but would be wondering about how important our relationship was to her.

My wife was trying to pressure me into marrying her, as I was hesitant to do so because of her multiple prior marriages, and many partners during that time. We dated for 4 years, and she went back to living with a prior husband to pressure me to marry her.

In retrospect, I should have known better with her doing that kind of tactic to make me jealous... Sad to say I married her and went through hell and a short marriage and divorce

Lesson learned

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Wife male friend secret getaway would you be mad if it was vice versa..

Yes I'm sure that I would be upset about it and then that moment would pass and I would be moving on..

And then I would be over

Anytime somebody is having a secret anything with the opposite sex when you are involved in a relationship basically is a big red flag LOL yeah it would definitely be over.

Kit_Kat88 · Accepted Answer

I know I would be mad if my boyfriend went on a secret gateway with his friends. I would be absolutely livid and lose my trust in them

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

A secret getaway is crazy even if just going alone you should tell your spouse

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm diving into the deep end of the pool of emotions with this one! Imagine slipping into a scenario where trust is the lifeline of your relationship, and suddenly, bam, you stumble upon a secret getaway tale. It’s like finding out your favorite love song has a hidden verse that changes the tune. Feelings might start doing the tango - a mix of surprise, a pinch of jealousy, and a dash of betrayal, perhaps? The key ingredient here isn’t about the getaway itself; it’s the ‘secret’ seasoning that makes the dish hard to swallow. Openness and trust are the main courses of a healthy relationship. If something like this stirs up a storm, it might be time for a heart-to-heart, spelling out feelings, and setting boundaries that resonate with both partners. Remember, it’s not the getaway that’s the troublemaker; it’s the secrecy that’s the party crasher. Let’s turn the music down and have an honest chat, shall we? 😉

Finchie40 · Answer

She wouldn’t be my partner anymore , especially since she didn’t tell me about it , so that’s a huge red flag right there

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No one is going to validate your cheating behaviors, except a fellow cheater.

AviatorTom · Answer

Yes, I'd be made that I didn't go too. I love to travel.

boggboss · Answer

The key here is "secret getaway" no guy would be happy with somthing like this implying that I get that relationships are based on trust but their are pushing the bounds of basic boundaries of a relationship

Eljay68 · Answer

If it was a secret getaway with her male friend that tells me to get away. No anger there I'm just gone. Why would someone be jealous there's other fish in the sea. And of course I'd be pissed off. But she'd be very sad when she come back and I was gone

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most men are far too insecure to accept that.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Mad? No, but because she hid it on purpose, I would consider it a lie and would retain a lawyer the very next day and start divorce proceedings.

I wouldn't trust her again, and I wouldn't stay married to someone I couldn't trust.

alice55 · Answer

If he doesn't break up over this he's an idiot, secret things is such a huge red flag.

Lynx122 · Answer

Of course. You're keeping it a secret so you know you have bad intentions and that's why you don't want to talk about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Seriously? You think there's a chance any guy (other than those few who are in an open relationship) wouldn't be mad?

It'd 1 million percent be the finish as far as I'd be concerned: goodbye, enjoy your life, hasta la vista baby !

katiesmuff · Answer

Pretty darn sure my husband wouldn't see the humor in that at all!

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Secret being the key word. If you are trying to hide something it always looks bad even if it isn't. Honesty, without it it is a doomed relationship.

Arik_jade · Answer

No... I will not... in fact I will build such trust and relationship with her that she will not hide anything and I will not restrict her freedom ever..

stratford · Answer

Yes of course. She would only keep it secret if she were doing something she knew wasn't compatible with our relationship.

In_Trance · Answer

Byee

rebeliouse · Answer

depends what is her plans while away with her male friends is she going to get gangbanged?

Loner111 · Answer

Think about that, how would u feel if he did that to you with his female friends? ...

JacobJordan · Answer

Mad? No. But she wouldn't have a home to return too

NYlatefun · Answer

Lol I’m pretty sure no husband would enjoy that! 🤣🤣

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's the secret part that's the problem. Not gender or how many.

Anonymous · Answer

if men were to be mad at this, society would gaslight him as "insecure"

handsomelad70 · Answer

H**L YES !!! One of those boys would probably try to club her !!!

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

I'd feel divorced with all my assets behind a living trust wall.

grega239 · Answer

Id assume she cheated and dump her on the spot

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Now that would be problematic. The problem is with the secrecy.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course I would ne angry. That's a great way to destroy all trust in the relationship.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Yes they will be jealous because that’s what they want to do with their female friends

Abdulwahh · Answer

Yes i wouldn't approve of it especially if its my wife.

ApplePie409 · Answer

I respect swingers, but despise cheaters.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

If I were a guy, I would be mad also. 😂

HelpfulWoman · Answer

that would be so dodgy

HighValue · Answer

I'd end the relationship.

sheikalana · Answer

This would make me mad if I was a guy.

exitseven · Answer

She would be dead to me.

JonCobretti · Answer

Of course, don't come back

Anonymous · Answer

I’m mad and I’m a girl.

Unit1 · Answer

Mad? No. Break up? Bet.

Kinkyhubby · Answer

Hell yes. And it would be over.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Mad? No. Dump her? Instantly.

Staximus · Answer

That's shady as fuck

LiamS95 · Answer

Yes, most likely.

negrl4a69 · Answer

Yes all because it was a "SECRET" getaway!

Nice222 · Answer

I would be okay with it.

CubaPirate · Answer

Definitely lol

Anonymous · Answer

Hell yes, Id be very pissed off.

austinbooth · Answer

Yes I would

dudeinohio · Answer

Absolutely

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You slay me.

Amur8711 · Answer

Absolutely!

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