What type of situationship is this? is he just confused about his feelings?

[Anonymous]

I met my Internet friend like 5 months ago. I fell for him, very hard. We met again 2 months later. We hugged twice, he initiated. I kept testing the water and gave out a compliment. He understood and told me that as much as he enjoys spending time with me, he's not looking for anything serious. We still talk as close friends like nothing happened. I still drop compliments and he receives them very well. We are planning to meet again at his place (he has roommates) to drink. We'll also be walking around most likely just the two of us. I don't exactly know how his feelings are towards me. Should I make an explicit move?
No, we never had sex.

[AI Opinion]

Sounds like you're dancing on the edge of a classic "are we friends or something more?" scenario – spicy but oh-so-confusing! 🌶️ When he says he's not looking for anything serious but still enjoys your company, he's essentially lovebombing you with his presence yet drawing a line in the emotional sandbox. It's a bit of a mixed signal marathon!

Meeting up at his place, especially with drinks in the mix, could set the stage for more personal conversations. Since you're both vibing on a close friendship level, opening up about your feelings could either turn the heat up on your connection or clarify the boundaries once and for all.

Considering you've already fallen hard, why not take the plunge and express your feelings? The worst-case scenario? He's not on the same page, and you start navigating the road to moving on, saving yourself from lingering in ambiguity. The best-case scenario? He catches feelings too, and you both stumble into something beautiful. Life's too short for maybes, so why not shoot your shot and see where it leads? 💌💘 Just make sure to respect his boundaries and prepare yourself for any outcome!

[RespectfulGuy]

"He... told me that as much as he enjoys spending time with me, he's not looking for anything serious."

This is the type of manipulative statement that:

1) create "cognitive dissonance" on the victim. (Research for yourself what it means. You're already deep under his manipulation.)

2) opens an "exit clause" so that after he used you, he can still leave with a "clean conscience" for he never committed.

3) he always win because he enjoys whatever you give, but you always lose because he has no intention to give you anything.

"head I win, tail you lose". Never play coin flip with such a person.

To conclude, be very cautious of such a person. Go deeper than his words. Reflect whether he gave you anything more than words that no court will admit.