If you think women and men can't be friends, it means you are a hot person. Do you agree?

Question

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No it just means you are a respectful person that values the foundation of a relationship , You wear your partners’ shoes the same way you want your partner wearing yours. You distance yourself from opposite sex friends out of respect for your relationship , to not make your partner feel insecure and jealous, opposite sex friends can add fire into your relationship without realizing you are doing so. When I was younger I had a group of girl friends that were just my friends , when I met a girl that I was interested in , that girl would get jealous and insecure of my girl friends’ so out of respect, I wouldn’t spend time with my girl friends without my partner by my side. Hoping she would do the same for me. If she didn’t do the same for me? It would turn into a double standard and the relationship would pretty much come to an end because I will start hanging out with my girl friends without her by my side. I realized if a girl can’t respect me , I will not respect her , it needs to go both ways or the relationship will not last

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

So I'm pretty hot LOL and I know for a fact men and women girls and boys grandma's and grandpas can be friends because that's who we are as human beings it's not always about sex and trying to manipulate the opposite sex to get into their pants as a matter of fact when that's done or even tried we all know it turns out into failure and you never become friends so you have to make a choice in the beginning either get in their pants and somewhere down the road the relationship ends because it was never meant to be or be their friend and remain their friend because that's who we're meant to be

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Partially. If you aren't attractive you won't have any male friends, because men like surround themselves with attractive people. Even a gay who isn't sexually attracted to girls prefers pretty girls as friend because he can use them as lures or at least this is the concept in his gay mind.
Maybe I'm not observant enough but I've never seen a ugly girl with lot of male companion who isn't a complete slut. Slut have their usual disgusting male clientele a classy girl wouldn't even touch with 2m long pole.
In one hand it's difficult to upkeep friendship with boys because they use you or want something from you, but in other hand it's an indicator for your attractiveness. In this context is your question right.
On the other hand, you can't never learn the balance to keep male friends at right distance when you don't attract them or they can't exploit your attractiveness. As attractive girl you will learn it sooner or later and male friendship won't be some challenge anymore.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

No… bc at some point the looks don’t matter, it’s about HOW you want to be with that person — HOW and why you’re attracted to them.

For example, someone who looks “hot” but is only intellectually stimulating to another person… those two will most likely just be friends.

The sweet spot is when a person can be intellectually, emotionally, physically AND socially stimulating to another person… that’s love, attraction… the whole package.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah men and women can be friends regardless of looks

AviatorTom · Answer

No, it just means that I accept how Mother Nature built males and females, to be biologically compatible for procreation.

HawkPerception · Answer

I disagree with that entirely. Physically unattractive people also know that the MAJORITY of men would have sex with an average physically attractive girl if they are given the chance.

I would say there are SOME respectful guys and girls that would never cross the line when someone is in a relationship and not be a homewrecker, but if you're physically attracted to someone and like their personality or both, there's always a chance they might develop feelings towards each other.

You don't have to be attractive to understand human nature.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

No, it means you have a strange relationship with dating and friendship that either makes you think all your opposite sex friends are in love with you, or you have some kind of intimacy problem that makes you fall in love with every opposite sex person you’re close with. It’s really not that difficult to have opposite sex friends. Take it from a bisexual, you can be friends with any gender

Sunnysunny123 · Answer

I don't agree with this one, from my experience males and females can have a friendship but you both clearly have boundaries, i for example could never be as close to my male friends as i am to my female friends just because they undrestand me on a different (girl) point of view.

Aubrey97 · Answer

No, probably those people just know  they  are incapable of doing it.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't narrow my relationships with other people to rate them...

friend is a friend... it's a different chemistry, a different way of acting around each other... it doesn't depend on how people look... just on how we see each other

Jennz6 · Answer

You don’t understand how a relationship works

19magic · Answer

I would love for that to happen irl though that's not the case, every guy whom I thought was a great friend turned out to be interested in me. It's annoying in all honesty.

exitseven · Answer

i imagine in every friendship there is sometimes a part that could be physical attraction. I think that what a person looks like is less important than how the two people feel about each other.

matchrestore · Answer

I may not be much of a looker, but I am platonic friends with a model. Definitely no feelings between us even if she is pretty much the textbook definition of conventionally attractive.

PointlessNonsenseGuy · Answer

No, because men always want to nail their female friends, regardless of how attractive or unattractive their female friends are.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No i don`t agree... Maybe i used to agree a long, long time ago.. but sadly these days every second of 2 opposite sex are "virtually sexualised" which is sad and painful.

Dinklex3 · Answer

No. I think it means you don’t know what true friendship is.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not at all. If you cannot be friends with the opposite sex, all it means is you view them as nothing but sex objects

SotiCoto · Answer

Can't really judge since I'm obviously not a "hot person", so who even knows who sees things on that side?

In any case, women and men can be friends... though they have a far easier time of it when the man is gay.

katiesmuff · Answer

More or less means your a moron! Many hundreds of thousands of men/ women friendships throughout the world.

Lionman95 · Answer

No it just means that a person is a sexual focused person viewing relationships with other people through the lense of their sex drive.

Account · Answer

How did you reach such an illogical conclusion? I would like you to explain the thought pattern behind this irrationality.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Nope not at all, what does being hot have to do with not being friends 🤔
Men and women can rarely be friends because sooner or later one of them or both will create feelings towards each other a lot more than just being friends!

NathanDavis · Answer

no... it means you're insecure AF... and also uncapable of true friendships

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Men want to be friends with girls they are sexually attracted to. Women want to be friends with women they ar NOT sexually attracted to.  Men want sex, women want resources, same old story.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that just means you are probably socially awkward and probably an idiot.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I don't know if I'm hot or not, but my track record definitely indicates that I have some level of desirability.

Juxtapose · Answer

I am bisexual and hot, but I have friends male and female. You know what you do when someone tempts you to cheat? You say no. It's that easy, I have done it before multiple times.

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. Plenty of hot people have friends of the opposite sex. Bring hot doesn’t make you promiscuous.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

I believe this, and I'm definitely not a hottie. lol. Men and women can be friends, just not if there is any attraction from either party.

Twalli · Answer

No. I know men and women can be friends because I have had attractive friends with whom there was no sexual feelings from either of us towards the other.

handsomelad70 · Answer

I'm at least tepid, but men and women can be friends.

caringguy56 · Answer

What is relation between being hot and and simple friendship? This question is not making sense

In_Trance · Answer

Whether you're hot or not has nothing to do with it

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I think it means you're either young or just immature.

Anonymous · Answer

No we just have to control our hidden desires and sex drive for it

serious · Answer

No, I disagree

sheikalana · Answer

That’s a very immature way if thinking.

LiamS95 · Answer

I thi k men and women can be friends.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No but you have to be hot to the friend.

Anonymous · Answer

I like banging my friends

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Ok, sure. I feel better about myself already.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

No it means u r horny all the time.. Like me

paledreams · Answer

That's me 😀 👀 🪞

jahaims · Answer

Nope

If you think women and men can't be friends, it means you are a hot person. Do you agree?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you think that men and women can be just friends?

If you think women and men can't be friends, it means you are a hot person. Do you agree?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you think that men and women can be just friends?

We're glad to see you liked this post.