I received a spanking from my boyfriend just last night. Why? Because I was acting bitchy and rude towards him. Did I learn my lesson? Yes. Would I do it again? Maybe, when I'll be able to sit down again.
P:S: he is not abusing me. I wanted this kind of relationship. At first he was so innocent but I noticed he was an old fashioned guy so I just had to guide him through it.
When was the last time you were spanked by your significant other? Why?
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My wife doesn't spank me, I spank her. It's sexual, not punishment.
My wife gets spanked when she's acts up. It's love, not hate.
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That's exactly what happens in my relationship. Tbh there are times when he is just being playful administering a spanking to my behind. But when I really cross the line, oh boy.. I can't sit down for days.😭 Even then, he is concerned asking questions like: "did I hurt you, baby girl, shall I stop?" Most of the times my answer is:no. Maybe me being too proud mixed with the thoughts that I really deserve it. 🤣
Diving into the playful dynamics of relationships, it sounds like you've successfully navigated the waters between consent and desire, setting sail into the less charted territories of love and discipline! It's essential to have clear communication and mutual respect in these situations, ensuring both parties are on board and eager to play their part. It looks like you found a way to spice things up while sticking to the rules of engagement, which is the kind of relationship choreography that keeps the dance interesting. Just remember, the key is always consent and communication, ensuring that every act, no matter how cheeky, is part of a loving and respectful relationship. Keep the lines open, and who knows what other old-fashioned treasures you'll guide each other to discover? 😉
I spank every girl I am in a relationship with lol Most of you girls’ love that shit, so I don’t mind doing it if it turns her on , Now I don’t spank her real hard unless she tells me to , but I spank just enough to let her know I am in charge and than have my way with her , I love submissive girls’
I spank my girlfriend casually whenever she walks past me, and during sex, but also as a legitimate form of punishment/discipline. A man actually disciplining a woman like that is pretty taboo these days, so I don't talk about it much. But it is a part of our relationship.
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Yeah I know. Some people can't really understand how important is for a woman to be put in her place whenever is needed.
Yup. In my girlfriend's case her mom is super strict and gave her spankings well into her teens. I'm talking bare butt spankings with belts, shoes, spatulas, any hard object she had nearby--and they would last upwards of 30 mins with no holding back. My girlfriend is naturally shy and submissive, but her mom would have her bent over with a bright red ass and tears streaming down her face over the smallest things.
She finally got freedom from that in our relationship, but ended up abusing that freedom and became a real brat. Eventually I took the initiative and did what needed to be done, and got her back to her sweet, submissive self.
Yep. The thing is at work I'm a boss lady and what I say goes.. In my personal life I need someone that will make me loose my cold/bitchy side. He understands the assignment.
Besides the slaps that every boyfriend does when you walk past, there has never been full on spanking. But now that you mention it, there really should be. 😛
Yep. Sometimes I take off his belt and I try to tie him up just because I know he won't accept it 😂. He is like:" how dare you?" And then I'm in trouble again.
@slatyb Thaanks! At first he was feeling uneasy. Now he loves it. When we are in public and I really have the shot to be naughty, he whispers things like:don't make me pull off my belt" or "keep it up. my palm is itchy"🤣
Sounds wonderful. This does not come naturally to most men. Some of us may hint at this sort of play, but many just assume that their partners would not be receptive.
If you are afraid to ask for what you want, it's a rather shallow relationship. It's impossible to feel loved by someone who doesn't really know you.
Yes. He does that too 🥵🥵 a while ago he was getting ready for work. Soon after helping him with his tie, he is catching my arm saying:'uhmm.. you need a maintance spanking" while I was standing up , he proceeds to bend me over a little bit, raises my skirt and wham. Didn't really hurt but it was enough to want him inside me lol.🤭
GOSH you're a lucky girl! ENJOOY🥹 Funny you mentioned about the tie , because last Friday after returning from work her was so sweet until I tried to help him remove the tie and he just put the tie around my wrist and tied me up and said "You're mine tonight, ALL mine"! I melted 🫠🫠
Girlll he is a keeper! 🥹🥳That's hot! I have another 2 recent memories. Last week- We were done watching a movie and he was ready to leave my place. He even had his shoes on and everything when I started to misbehave. I took his belt off and I tied his hands. I did a really good job because he couldn't escape 🤭. He was like:'woman, you know what will happen now, right? You in big trouble" he had his arms around me, kneeled and put me over his shoulder in no time. 'Let's take this to the bedroom, shall we?"He dropped me on the bed : "for the love of God, untie me and I promise I'll go easy on punishing you " 🤣
The other memory :we were on a hike to a mountain. He wanted us to get lost from the group and we took a different path. Making love in the woods: checked ✅️🥵
It doesn't really matter, it's beside the point. She enjoys being "punished", and I enjoy "punishing" her. It's a silly but fun and sexy game we play.
I don't always fuck her ass when I "discipline" her. That's usually (not always) more of a once or twice a month thing because I know she's not always going to be up for that and I don't want it to stop being fun. It's a balance.
Yep. I get ya. For example:we were in a clothes store and I was bratty enough for him to actually make a threat "I will drag you to the changing room, take off your pants and give you a sound spanking'' 🤣
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