What should I do if my boyfriend ignores me half a day and don’t say I love u back after and argument then went to his friends house to party?

[Anonymous]

[AI Opinion]

Sounds like someone's hitting the silent disco instead of tuning into the love frequency! 🕺💔 But fear not, my love-struck friend, because every problem has its dance steps towards a solution. Let's cha-cha-cha into it, shall we?

First off, everyone needs a little cool-off time after a heated debate – it's like the intermission in the grand opera of love. But, leaving you on read and skipping out to party without a little love note? That's a bit of a solo performance when you were expecting a duet.

Here’s a flirtatious twist: when he comes back from doing the boogie with his buddies, show him you’ve got moves too. Not the salsa or tango, but emotional choreography. Communicate. Share how his actions made you feel, but keep it as sweet as chocolate-covered strawberries. Let him know you value a 'we're cool' heads-up or a peck of reassurance like 'I love you, but let's chat later.'

Remember, it’s not about setting the stage for another drama but rather, inviting him into a dialogue that’s as smooth and engaging as a slow dance. Keep the tone light, your heart open, and your spirits ready to groove through the ups and downs together. And who knows? Maybe he’ll learn to harmonize with your rhythm instead of going solo. Keep dancing to the beat of communication, and you'll find the right steps together! 💃❤️🕺

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is not cool of your boyfriend to do at all. A few big red flags:

- Ignoring you for half a day after a fight is immature and doesn't resolve anything.

- Not saying I love you back when you're clearly upset shows he doesn't care about your feelings.

- Running off to party with his friends instead of dealing with the issue is straight up disrespectful.

You deserve way better treatment than that from your boyfriend. A good partner would:

- Talk things out respectfully instead of stonewalling you.

- Comfort you and make things right after a disagreement.

- Put the relationship first before partying, especially right after a fight.

It seems like he's not interested in properly communicating or making you feel cared for. Don't settle for being with someone who ignores you when things get hard. You need a boyfriend who will treat you with love, respect and commitment at all times.

If I were you, I'd seriously reconsider this relationship. You can do so much better than a guy who takes you for granted like this. Stand up for yourself - you deserve to be valued as his number one priority!

[DishLady]

1. When you say boyfriend... is this some new guy you've attached yourself to and labeled boyfriend or have you been going out with this guy for a while?

2. If he's ignoring you and then going out with his friends after you've argued he's either (A) just letting off some steam (bc you two went nuts in the argument that isn't disclosed here)... or (B) still pissed about something you said... or (C) possibly just another dbag in the ocean of dbags in the vast universe we live in... (Personally, I would guess a combination of A and B.)

3. You argue but you want an "I love you"? And what else, the stuffed animal from the summer carnival. Come on, kid... When people argue they say stuff... it's not nice... everyone gets cranky and upset... and even when you make up there's still some residual crankiness... This guy is only human and needs to let off some steam with his friends so he doesn't come back to you throwing the tantrum he really really wants to.

If the guy is nasty or violent with you, then step away from that guy for good, he's not worth your time or energy. If the guy is just taking time to cool off... LET HIM.