If your significant other were to make some kind of cosmetic change, what would upset you most?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Dying their hair a color you hate

Getting filler on their face

Painting their nails a color you hate

Changing their wardrobe to a style that you hate

Getting a tacky tattoo

Getting a nosejob

Something else (comment below)

A total of 54 votes were cast: 19 girls and 35 guys. See detailed results

[HawkPerception]

I think all of those would be upsetting to me, but anything permanent related to surgery would be the most upsetting.

I get that we're all individuals and we are free to choose whatever we want to be, but I also feel that if you're in a relationship, you should respect that your partner was attracted to your personality and appearance when they got with you and may not be okay with the changes. I think you should always respect your partner enough to at least let them know what your plans are when it comes to anything related to your appearance, especially if it's something permanent that like surgery or a tattoo. They should not be able to tell you not to get it, but consulting them first shows respect and care for what they like.

[MrOracle]

Anything permanent would be bad. Hair can be dyed back and clothes can be changed, but surgery, injections, and tattoos are essentially forever.

I would never make such changes without consulting my girlfriend and taking her feedback seriously. That's not OK when you are in a relationship - everything isn't just about you anymore.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

#1: Fillers

#2: Tattoos (they just start to look bad as skin ages)

#3: Nails, hair dye/style, drag... Not cool.

I'd be fine with a nose job, though. The reason is because sometimes there are legitimate reasons to have cosmetic surgery for the nose. One is septal deviation, when someone's septum is blocking their airway.

I definitely want someone who knows for sure that they are a man and aren't going to randomly change their mind on me...

[DishLady]

I highly doubt my man's doing anything cosmetic beyond clipping his nails, so I'm not seriously worried... His body his choice...

[strangeatcircleK]

I said a tacky tattoo because it could be really tacky in the worst way but clothes could be second. Even the way they style their hair. I think it's a beautiful thing when your S. O. let's their guard down because they trust you. It's another thing to underdress and get too relaxed. Sometimes it's nice to see fun clothes and time spent on hair. Not a lot just more that putting on a hat and walking out of the house

[dragoblack]

I would say cutting her hair to an ugly hairstyle that doesn't go with any fashion style, and botox injections. Fashion is fine, but it irks me when there is no flow & balance to the outfit. Also, i get body dysmorphia, but going to such extremes to match famous people is a horrible & unhealthy way to do it, that one will regret majorly.

[77five]

All of that. Im casually seeing someone who has tattoos (which i think is hot) but literally every new tattoo he gets pisses me off because I think it’ll make him hotter to other people as well. Im insecure. Oh well🤷‍♀️

[BrassRaven]

So i was not happy when my wife cut her hair. It was cut way too short. Sorry say what you will, but I like having a tail to pull.

But I am not worried about what I would be upset about her changing, I would be more concerned for our relationship and marriage if she changed her clothing style. She is a very modest dresser. From what I can tell, always has been. But if she were to change her style to a bit more risqué style... I'd be concerned for our marriage.

[DizzyDesii]

Im not dating a man who wears dresses nor nail polish. Im not dating a man whose into plastic/cosmetic surgery or inking/piercing his body all over

[adventurous-1]

cutting her hair short, I absolutely love long hair on my wife but I understand that shorter hair is easier to care for and gives her more styling choices. But cutting her hair short would definitely disappoint me.

[JustinTheGreat]

out of these options, getting a nose job because it’s the only one out of these that’s a permanent decision. I mean besides a tattoo but at least you can get I covered or even removed if it’s that bad.

[JustinTheGreat]

But at the end of the day, it really depends what they look like afterwards. If they still look good, then idc. But if they get botched then damn

[Nikki1989]

Getting a totally generic haircut like so many men you see these days or even worse, growing a beard, again generic and so predictable.

[petitedollbabee]

Anything permanent, like cosmetic procedures/surgeries, or terrible tattoos. I don’t care about hair dye or fashion.

[provokeesmokee]

Filler, unless for some medical or gender affirming reason.

It would upset me because my SO thinks they're ugly enough to need it. They're not.

[Makeushiver]

Unless it was something klike growing two more heads on an extra foot I could probably deal with it. That multiple head really fuvks me up emotionally

[Flatmanlewis]

A few things. Tattoos. Nose jobs. Sudden nose dive in style and dress.

[coxoabean]

Probably the filler in their face, actually all of it pretty much.

[alice55]

I would be upset with the change that make him look ugly

[Bricealan]

If she were my SO, nothing would upset me (I don't think?)

[Phoenix98]

Guess it would depend on what it was and how extreme the change was.

[Babygirl_S]

A rhinoplasty because it is permanent and some men ruin their perfectly fine noses by making them smaller

[TacosRAwesome]

Probably getting shitty filler and looking like a male blow up doll.

[DrPepper12]

If she started wearing make up that would be VERY upsetting. she's HAF without it

[OddBeMe]

No. But if she did that crazy move from the pic it would.

[nawtee_me]

Why should any of those or others bother anyone? I often hear girls say,”my body my choice.”

[Jason2469]

I hate blonds so much my dick can't get hard. Your a dark brunette borderline black. That's what I want.

[Caroline91]

Both filler and tacky tatoo

[Agape93]

Filler. It's always fucking ugly.

[andreasderjuengere]

Doing her hair with gorilla glue?

[LiamJHayden]

Sex reassignment surgery.

[Misscouincouin]

Shaving zones like arms, chest, legs 🥲

[Charliefretz329]

Cutting long hair short… yuck

[12karen]

The plastic surgeries