Why do men in a relationship like other woman’s pictures?

Question

For men who are in love with their girlfriends or wives, what does it mean to you when you like another girl's pictures on Instagram? Does your girlfriend or wife get upset about it? I’d love to hear different male perspectives on this.

jennyPuss · Accepted Answer

i think its normal to want to still feel alive in that way. oftentimes, when someone else owns your sexuality in the sense that you wouldn't even consider cheating, you start taking each other for granted. sex is no longer exciting. you let yourself go. you don't dress to impress. you don't "play" anymore like you did when you were kids, like finger banging in the movie theater., etc. your thoughts revolve around money and parenting and all sorts of other things that two platonic friends could still easily manage.

basically, almost all marriages eventually turn sexually boring, and it's almost always the woman's fault. we all complain that men stop pursuing, but we stop being the prey. we stop being the object of desire. we dress for comfort. wear makeup for everyone else BUT our husbands. don't work out. eat like pigs. and then blame him for why we aren't in the mood. then... shocking... he's looking at other women.

the rabbit's job is to run from the fox. if the rabbit stops running, he will die. he might die anyway, but when he stops running, it is guaranteed. the woman's job is to bait the man. we all know that. it's why instagram and onlyfans exist.

when the man is looking at other women's pictures, it's the metaphorical equivalent of the fox sniffing the air.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

There have been women in their past who are friends, etc etc etc… They’re not erasing everyone from their lives just because they’re with you. Why are you looking at your guy friends’ pics? Same thing….

There are pretty pretty pics they used during their private time in the bathroom otherwise they’d be bugging you nonstop. You should send those girls thank you cards…..

If they’re deep into IMing some chippy about her hot vids and commenting on how great her T&A are, then THAT’S a different problem and you need to shut it down immediately. It’s disrespectful.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

What kind of women are we talking about? Just the usual unemployed, fake lipped, fake breasted celebutantes on social media? Or women the guy already knows or knew?

If it's the first one, it's not great for him to do that but not that bad. If it's the second one, it could be a friend or co-worker, although there's no telling if it's an ex or even a girl he hooked up with in the past. I could understand you being somewhat concerned about it.

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

If it's a thirst trap, it means the dude is a dog and isn't respecting your relationship. Especially considering everyone can see him liking it. If it's normal pictures, then it shouldn't even be considered a problem. It's normal to like our friends' and acquaintances' pictures.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to sprinkle a bit of insight onto this spicy topic! Men liking other women's pictures while being in a relationship can mean a range of things, from harmless admiration to a red flag waving in the digital breeze. It's the intent that matters. For some guys, it's just a way of appreciating beauty or the content without any underlying intentions. Think of it as enjoying a piece of art on the wall. However, if there's a pattern or it's accompanied by flirty comments, then you might be staring at a lovebombing campaign in disguise. Communication is key. If it upsets his partner, it's definitely worth a heart-to-heart. Understanding each other's boundaries is like finding the secret sauce to a delicious relationship stew. So, keep the dialogue open and the understanding mutual, and you'll navigate the social media seas like pros! 😜

hannah · Answer

Honestly, I think when men in relationships like other women's pictures, it can mean different things. Sometimes it's harmless and just them liking a friend’s photo or supporting someone. But other times, it could feel like they're not fully respecting their partner's feelings, especially if it’s frequent or the pictures are suggestive. I’d say it’s all about how the girlfriend or wife feels about it. If it makes her uncomfortable, it's important for him to be considerate and have a conversation about it. Relationships are about mutual respect and understanding.

bongo · Answer

From my perspective, liking other girls’ pictures on Instagram doesn’t necessarily mean anything deep. Sometimes, it's just a quick double-tap on a friend's post, or maybe you’re just appreciating a cool photo. It’s not always about attraction or trying to disrespect your partner. That being said, I get that it can make some girlfriends or wives feel insecure or upset, especially if they feel like it's crossing a line. If my girlfriend told me it bothers her, I'd take that seriously and adjust my behavior because her feelings matter more to me than some Instagram likes. But honestly, not every guy is doing it to be shady—sometimes we just don’t think it’s a big deal. Best to just talk about it and find a middle ground that respects both sides.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

because they like how she looks in this photo? isn't it normal, that we like what we like? it doesn't mean we are in love with something or someone we like... it means we like it or them... what is the problem? in the other people's insecurities?

BTigers96 · Answer

Typically it's because they either think they're "hot" or just like something they're doing in the picture they posted. Or both.

These days my wife wouldn't really care, but earlier in our marriage she would have flipped out. They key is communication. My wife doesn't really care because she's very secure in our relationship, but if she wasn't it would be a different story.

blunty · Answer

When a guy in a relationship likes other women’s pics, it might just be casual or supportive. But if it bothers his girlfriend or wife, it’s a sign that they need to talk about boundaries. It’s important to respect each other's feelings and find a balance that works for both.

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

We are not dead yet... we still appreciate feminine beauty; even when we are in a relationship with the most beautiful, special woman on the planet.

There is nothing wrong with 'Window shopping' as long as you always come home for dinner.

HighValue · Answer

It isn't nearly as bad as women that post provocative/revealing pictures online for attention when in a relationship.

For me, I don't even have IG or other social media except Facebook for communication with past co-workers, and G@G if that counts.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

In men's minds, it's literally as simple as seeing a picture we find pretty and responding to it.

There's almost never anything deeper to it. So we like the pictures when we're in relationships because it's just something we aren't even thinking about.

Anonymous · Answer

Because since the staggering majority of males are narcissists, they all think they have chance with everyone.

And they also believe they need to spread their “high quality” seeds. Because they’re all “healthy” of course, and of “great genetics” of course. Duhhh 😂

Unit1 · Answer

Pinks be thinking all girls reply to their army of likers like " hey there handsome :) i see you liked my picture. Do you like me? ". PUH-fucking-LEASE

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

If i was married, in no way i'd like other women's photos causs my wife will be enough for me, if i have to press a like for a picture, it will be her pictures only and ofc photos of women who are my cousins!

When it comes to love & sex only my future wife will receive the likes!

In_Trance · Answer

Everybody looks and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. If you don't want to know what your significant other is looking at, then stay the hell off their social media

Mike6658 · Answer

Sometimes it's just as an acknowledgement to the guts/confidence to post them. Other times it's just admitting yeah it's a nice (or hot or whatever) and it's forgotten it's scrolled passed. Just take note of its always a specific person and no one else, then there's more behind it.

itsannalee · Answer

I have boyfriend, i like my men’s pic sometimes. When i like any pic, it means i see the photography, or the caption. So I don’t mind my man like others women pic. I’m not that insecure. It’s different if he subscribes Onlyfans.

Mpodere · Answer

Because even if we are faithful, in love and sexually satisfied, we never stop to play by self. That is only for inspiration.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Means they are not busy enough. Professional men I know don't even have social media.. 😭 Especially Instagram.

Sasquach · Answer

There are people that put a lot of time and effort into their form; it's a beautiful thing. However they're just virtual points that have no bearing in reality; one like isn't sex, a date, or any other form of commitment or intimacy

Yannae · Answer

I liked their post. Nothing more. Nothing less. They're not the kind of friends who sell their bodies online for attention. Their posts are no different from my guy friends who post.

FunGuy1970 · Answer

My wife and I will both like pictures of other people on Facebook (we don't have Instagram), just because you find another person attractive, doesn't mean anything.

nawtee_me · Answer

Just because I am in a relationship doesn’t make me blind to what is around me. Beauty is still beautiful and a nice outfit is still a nice outfit.
If I am

on a diet can I still look in the refrigerator?

VoyeurGuy · Answer

Because the ritual of marriage does not magically turns you blind.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

It just means we like a particular person or picture. It’s. it meant yo reflect on our existing relationship. We can’t be eyes on, balls deep with our partners all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason women like other guys pics while in a relationship. Just because you're in a relationship, or married, doesn't mean you stop liking or noticing beauty in others.

Anonymous · Answer

That we're not dead and still have a healthy interest in the female form.  Eye candy. Entirely different from the one we love.

Anonymous · Answer

you would not want a guy who loses all interest in other women, he'd become insipid

LiamJHayden · Answer

Context matters. Is it friend and innocent or is the guy following InstaTHOTs?

Yamaal · Answer

My boyfriend doesn't like someone else's photo

MrCharlie13 · Answer

It means we like the picture, not the girl. Plain and simple

dougeats · Answer

because everyone needs some "strange" now and then

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's just a like a to nice picture. It doesn't mean nothing in my opinion.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can. Why do you women compliment people (guys)?

Anonymous · Answer

personally i feel like he should stop alladat in a relationship

makarinooo · Answer

Because they are insatiable.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't even have socials...

Guacamole409 · Answer

There are better ways.

Anonymous · Answer

Men who aren't serious do this.

jahaims · Answer

Only weak immature people are doing that

dudegreat91 · Answer

Monogamy is hard

Cheerfull009 · Answer

That is not a problem

beautyqueen01 · Answer

I won’t be mad if that happen

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Fuck

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