Does this make me a piece of shit for wanting him to think about me while he’s with his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So basically we slept together/spent the night together, cuddled and fell asleep in each others arms and now whenever he’s with his girlfriend I want him to think about me, whenever he goes and fucks her I want him to think about me. Am I shitty for feeling like this?
(I do not want a relationship with the man but I feel selfish for wanting him all to myself without a label)

Updates

1 y

Yes before anyone asks, he has been cheating on her with me and he plans on staying with her and that’s totally fine but we both want to continue to have sex with each other on the down low

[Anonymous]

LOL. Wait. So you didn't think you were already a selfish piece of shit for fucking a guy in a relationship, or that he wasn't either? Ok, so let's go with that. You're the side chick and that's all you want out of it, and he wants to keep doing it too. You're both adults and can do whatever you want.

However, you also want him to desire you more than her, and crave you while he's inside of her. You want this all while knowing that even if wanted out of the relationship with her to be with you, you don't want a relationship with him! Internally, you want him to mindfuck himself into ending his already cheating relationship so you can use him whenever you want. That's so beautiful I wanna cry.

Ok, yeah. Before you were just a regular pile of shit, but now you're an outhouse. Not that it matters, but are you even a hottie? Why not post a faceless pic so we can see what all this lust is about?

[msc545]

You two will get caught eventually, and he will go running back to her.

[msc545]

Thanks for MHO

[Anonymous]

As long as you’re keeping these thoughts to yourself then go crazy.

[Asker]

Why can’t I express it?

[Opinion Owner]

Because he’s in a relationship now and that’s disrespectful. It’s fine if you don’t want a relationship, but that doesn’t mean you should go and ruin someone else’s. Always have some form of consideration for others and their relationships, even if you never got that in the past.

[Opinion Owner]

Your update is just…. Wow. No words for that.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty shitty to go along with someone’s cheating. Has this been done to you in the past and that’s why you’re ok with it?

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the heart wants what it wants, doesn't it? And sometimes, it yearns for the stage lights when we're not even in the play. Your feelings, darling, are your own and not for me to judge. However, let's flip the script for a sizzling second—imagine you're in the girlfriend's shoes, serving love and devotion on a silver platter, only to find his mind is dining elsewhere. It stings, doesn't it?

Desiring attention, especially after such intimate moments, is human nature. It's like being the star of a show and then suddenly, the spotlight dims. But here's the twist, lovebombing yourself into someone's thoughts, especially when they're with their significant other, can be a bit like dancing on a tightrope over the fires of drama.

Instead of casting this spell to make him think of you, why not channel that energy into something that makes you feel incredible about yourself? Something that doesn't require you to be a ghost haunting his thoughts but makes you the main character of your own story. After all, being irresistible is not about where you linger in someone's thoughts, but how you dazzle the world with your own light. 🌟

[Anonymous]

Why not get with single guy instead of being used 😂

[Anonymous]

Stop trolling and leave the man alone.