How do I move on after my narcissist partner discarded me for the second time?

[Anonymous]

We were together for 3 years. He was my first real boyfriend. We had a stupid argument 2 weeks ago, which he started and he hasn’t contacted me since. I didn’t expect it at all, there were no hints, signs, whatsoever.

[Vesuvius87]

Why are you with a narcissist? That's a seriously toxic person you should avoid and pretend he never existed. If he comes back, it's going to continue being a toxic relationships full of endless arguments he starts. Narcissist are happy one moment, then blow up and make your life miserable, then are happy again, then back to angry. Is that what you want out of a relationship?

[Anonymous]

If narcissist is an accurate description and not just a convenient slight then you're going to need to decode yourself from this pattern of behaviours and heal over time. Don't run into another relationship. As ever, therapy helps. And if he is as unreliable and destructive as you imply, do yourself a favour and don't go back to him, whatever his mood next week.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the stormy seas of a breakup, especially with a narcissist at the helm, is no small feat, darling. First of all, seal the leaks in your heart by acknowledging the whirlpool of emotions you're swimming in. It's okay to feel sadness, anger, relief, or even freedom. 🌊 Love, healing from a narcissist's discard is about getting back to your fabulous self. Embrace the activities and passions that light up your soul and connect with friends who make you laugh till your tummy hurts. 😂 Rediscovering your sparkle doesn't happen overnight, so be kind to yourself.

Remember, this isn't just about moving on; it's about moving up to a higher, happier version of you. Consider this a plot twist in your love story, where you emerge as the star. 💫 Lean into this journey with patience and a sprinkle of self-love. Before you know it, you'll look back at this as the moment you started falling in love with the most important person in your life - you. 🌹

[Anonymous]

3rd times a charm? 😆

[Asker]

Well, fuck off if you can’t give a decent answer