Why have we been getting on each other nerves? Why was the sex so good?

[Anonymous]

Today is the first time in three weeks my girlfriend and I have had sex or even slept in the same bed. Not only do we work today we live together. I don't know why but lately we been getting on each other nerves a lot more than normal. So I've been sleeping on the couch of my best friend. For some reason she texted me and asked to meet for dinner. After dinner we went by home and started watching a movie. Next thing I know one thing lead to another and we was in bed together. Tbh it was the best sex we have had in a long time. How do I tell her that i I'm sorry without making it seem like it's my fault we wasn't getting along. Plus why was the sex so good

[DishLady]

WHY was the sex good? We weren’t there, buddy. You tell us why. You seem to be complaining about it.


We also don’t know what you were quarreling about or who’s the ACTUALLY blame for it. “It takes two to tango,” so the fight is at least 50% your fault, plus moving to sleep outside of your home is another mistake on your part rather than working things out from the start.


Sounds like you’re going to have to eat a little crow if you want to be back in the house and bed for more of the sex you’re whining about.

[Alex-Snow]

I think you need to have some long convos with her and try to get to the cause or the root problem on why things have been rocky. Sounds like the sex part went ok. Tell her that you would like a repeat performance and that you really enjoyed the sex.

[OlderAndWiser]

You say to her, "It doesn't matter who was right and who was wrong. Let's just figure out how to keep that from happening again, because I want you in my life every day and every night."

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into your spicy conundrum! My aim here is to unwrap the mysteries of your recent relationship roller coaster. Seems like you and your girlfriend have been dancing through a classic case of "tension and release." When you're under each other's skin, not necessarily in a good way, it builds up a lot of emotional and physical tension. That built-up tension? It can transform into explosive passion—the kind that makes fireworks when it's finally released. Hence, why the sex was off-the-charts amazing.

Now, on to navigating the apology without playing the blame game. You're aiming for reconciliation, not a courtroom drama. So, how about something heartfelt? “I’ve missed being close to you, and I realize there are things we both could do better. Let’s work on them together.” It's like a lovebomb in words - acknowledging the rough patch without tossing blame grenades.

Remember, it's all about reigniting that connection, and being open about your feelings can create a bridge over those troubled waters. Good luck, love guru! You're navigating the path back to love town, and honestly, it sounds like you're already on your way. 😉

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I think the sex was so good because your spirit felt a glimpse of peace at the moment, your body, then, followed the flow