I really like this guy and want to be in a relationship, we finally had sex for the first time and now things seem different and we Haven't hung out since... does he want a relatioship?
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If you want a relationship, you MUST get the relationship BEFORE you have sex. That's when you have leverage to get a reluctant guy to trade away his "free agent penis" for a steady relationship. If he's had sex with you already, your leverage with him is mostly gone.
Also, and this may not apply in your case, but if you have sex with a guy too quickly, he will assume that you have sex with OTHER guys just as quickly, and outside of a relationship, and he won't respect you anymore. He'll still happily bang you for a while, but any desire to make you his girlfriend will be long gone. Just because he wants sex, and will happily have it with you, doesn't mean he won't hold it against you if you let him.
While I can't say for sure that you've completely ruined your chances with this guy, the chances that's true are pretty high, and would explain why he isn't hanging out with you anymore. It sucks you had to learn your lesson this way, but hopefully you DO *LEARN* the lesson and learn it well.0