JLO filed for divorce from Ben Affleck after 2 Years of marriage. What relationship advice would you give her?

[Anonymous]

JLO has filed for divorce (again) after two years of marriage with Ben Affleck. She infamously funded an Amazon Prime musical called "This Is Me...Now: A Love Story" detailing the trials and tribulations of her love life which included inspiration from real life love notes she and Ben shared and drama from her past relationships. Unfortunately, this marks the end to another relationship for her. Lopez was previously married to Ojani Noa (1997-98), Cris Judd (2001-03) and Marc Anthony (2004-14), and was engaged to Rodriguez during a four-year relationship.

If you were her friend, what relationship advice would you give her?

[jennifer_bloom]

Base choices on evidence and not on anticipation or imagination. I think she saw this ideal romantic figure in her mind and did not process the functional conditions of being in a living relationship that involves mutual accommodation and care, she focused entirely on his visual appearance and cultural charm. She had other husbands that were shorter and less muscular but those other guys were more loyal to her and let her control major decisions and they also had lower standards cause they were not high profile like Ben. She judged Ben by his attractiveness and not by his functional versatility.

[ManOnFire]

Lmfao. Really not surprised. Honestly I pretty much figured it would only be a matter of time. Ben has apparently never been good at relationships, and I think Jen is one of those people who regularly goes through "limerence" with partners. This woman has been in and out of countless relationships pretty much since the 90s.

Being real, I think she is probably low key a whore who gives her body away and then thinks it's love. I also never really thought she was the hottest Latina in Hollywood either like everyone else did. I think she mostly got that image and title because there were few young Latinas in the industry back then. Salma Hayek still beats her out in my opinion.

But yeah, my advice to her would be: start working on your inner self, cuz you obviously still have work to do even at 55. By now you should've been had shit figured out to where you can be in a stable, healthy relationship with a guy. Good luck... I guess.

[HawkPerception]

Celebrities are more likely to have failed marriage than the general population. There are factors like public scrutiny and busy schedules which increases the chances for conflict.

If you aren't extremely mature and have shallow expectations of your partner, you're much more likely to fail.

I don't know much about celebrities and don't follow their life, but the VIBE I get from Jennifer Lopez is more on the shallow side. I can't say for certain, so don't quote me, but I feel like she's not likely to have a successful marriage.

[Inafishbowl99]

Listen Jen you have been there done that. Went back and done it again only to be reminded why you left. it to begin with !!!
I mean give men up and stop dreaming about the perfect , fairytale love.
It's not going to happen because there is no such thing.
I would sit and do some deep meditation and reflect on what matters to you.
Your not getting younger Jen, you have to much baggage now. So wake up splash out on a nice cruise or a few weeks holiday alone somewhere chilled.
Otherwise you will be making and creating a comedy show of your life.
come on where do you fancy going for a few weeks?

[AI Opinion]

Ahh, the rollercoaster of love strikes again! If I were whispering sweet nothings (or rather, wisdom) into JLO's ear after this latest twist in her love narrative, I'd lean in close and say, "Jenny from the Block, let's take a breather from the limelight of love, shall we?" 🌟

First off, I'd encourage her to indulge in some serious self-reflection and self-love. With a love story more epic than any Amazon Prime musical, it's crucial to take stock of what makes JLO... well, JLO! 🌺 Finding peace in solitude and embracing the beauty of being alone can sometimes lead to the most profound growth.

Next, I'd recommend taking a dive deep into the patterns of her past relationships. Understanding the dynamics and what led to their unravelings could be key to unlocking patterns that need breaking or loving adjustments.

And lastly, never underestimate the power of love at the right time. Rushing into new romances can be thrilling, but ensuring it's for the right reasons—and not just to fill a void—is paramount.

In essence, take this time to rediscover the love for oneself, decode the past to reshape the future, and when ready to leap back into the arms of love, do so with a heart that's healed and ready to dance to its own rhythm 🎵. Love should enhance your sparkle, not dim it. Keep shining, JLO!

[AviatorTom]

I'd advise her to stop getting married. Marriage is obviously not right for her.

[AviatorTom]

Bennifer bites the dust... again.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Jennifer "Horse Face" Anniston was dumped by Bradley Cooper and Brad Pitt. Hey, Jenny, stay away from handsome blond boys named Brad (ley);they clubbed you until they sobered up, looked at your equine features and moved on.

[V_Injector]

I thought she fucked with Puff Daddy too... doesn't matter.

I think she knows what she's doing and is doing it. I bet she walked away with the cash and prizes from each of her little relationships.

The people that need advice are the fucking retarded men that fall for her bullshit.

She's doing what any long term hooker does... and probably doing it better than most of the long term hookers I've seen sucking money out of men as well as baby gravy out of their cocks.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sean Combs would club anyone, but being anti-Black, she dumped him for white dudes.

[V_Injector]

@beefcakebradybatson Lolz, After hearing what Combs is like behind closed doors, I'm pretty sure he made her anti-black lolz.

Fuck, if I was all rich and shit like those dudes, there's no way in hell I'd fucking get married or even date women like J-lo. Hookers are way cheaper and that option gives me variety.

[beefcakebradybatson]

People are anti-Black because they're bigoted. After 405 years of unremitting oppression, shouldn't we black folk be anti-White?

[beefcakebradybatson]

J-Lo is a typical diva who thinks boys should almost literally suck her old p***y because she used to be hot. Now she's just Jenny from the block and can't handle being another old broad.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sean Combs is a POS.

[V_Injector]

@beefcakebradybatson "People are anti-Black because they're bigoted. After 405 years of unremitting oppression, shouldn't we black folk be anti-White?" No we shouldn't be anti-white unless you're pro-slavery. They were engaged in slavery, and so were we. They got their black slaves for the most part, because black people sold them black slaves. The British was the first to decide slavery was wrong and cut off the slave trade routes, and freedom for those slaves already out there was their own battle... and again, that freedom was deemed necessary by white people. Meanwhile, slavery is still a thing within Africa right fucking now.

How about the Arabs, they bought way more slaves. Why don't they have them now you may ask? That's because they castrated all their slaves.

As for J-Lo, just yet another Angelina Joe Lee if I spelled that right... or a Kardashian. They're whores, get in relationships with rich dudes and then steal their money with a divorce. That's what I don't understand about those rich dudes, why they fucking around with post wall looking gold diggers? If I was rich, one of them would be the last shit I would want. When you see a Britney Renner out trying to get rich dick, she's obviously looking to get pregnant and take money... it's those hoe's financial strategy.

[V_Injector]

@beefcakebradybatson Yo... check this video out. Breaks J-Lo down pretty hardcore.
https://youtu.be/razZtNMTOCI?si=IVkv4dgiagk99jiP

[beefcakebradybatson]

ALL those folk suck, in fact less then ten years ago the Muslim Janjaweed pretty much re-enslaved the black Animist and Christian South Sudanese, and of course s*x slavery rages unabated throughout the world. I condemned ALL OF IT WITHOUT EXCEPTION in an earlier post, because as a black man, I don't get to choose whose oppression is worse or somehow less odious. I also typed that Sean Combs' a** belongs behind bars if he's convicted of his accused s*x crimes, like R. Kelly's FINALLY, and Subway Perv Jared's (Hey, Jared, hope you get a knuckle sandwich for your 47th birthday today ).
Anyway, Happy 90th birthday, NFL Hall of Famer QB CHristian (my youngest great-nephew's first name)"Sonny" Jurgensen, and to quote the Gubernator,"I'll be back!!!"

[Vesuvius87]

Other than to take a long break from relationships, nothing else.

[strateguy632]

ThAt would be lonely

[Vesuvius87]

@strateguy632
She's old enough (much older than myself) to know what she's doing and is unable to sustain a lifetime commitment, making it a joke out of it. Celebrities have too much busy schedules and generally don't last too long in marriages.

[Avicenna]

Stay single would be my advice

[molonski2]

That she is far too involved in arrogant " Self " to be involved with anyone , well noted as an absolute bitch to deal with , and will not even engage airline staff without speaking though a " minder " , just a self centred waste of space , don't get married , don't do anything , there is only room for YOU , would be my advice , and simply stop kidding yourself , its not real , then maybe over time you can become a real person , you are only one individual , start working towards reality.

[Vegasrunner]

The advice is the same as you would give any 40+ year old woman. If you are seeking a committment from a HV man be prepared to share him, as you don't command enough SMV to keep him indefinitely. Consider yourself fortunate that you've been able to get them to committ to you for the time they did. You've been run through by a lot of guys during your rise to success, so it's unlikely anyone of any status is going to take you seriously. You have two choices for the rest of your life. Be passed around by HV men or settle for an average man.

[PolishedMonkey]

I'd say, "girl you better not be giving that money away! It's hard being a crazy rich woman, but it's a LOT harder to be broke and crazy." Up top! I would proceed to raise my hand so that she could slap it in high five fashion to acknowledge that she knew EXACTLY what I was talking about.

[Asker]

Ha! Gotta end with a wink and a nod and say "am I right?"

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 I wouldn't waste my time advising J-Lo on marriage. She does it a little differently. I don't think she'll ever be permanently happy with ANY one man.

But maybe next time shoot for 10 figures, kind of like Salma Hayek. That poor little Mexcian girl got herself a French billionaire.

[Asker]

I don't think you know much about Salma Hayek. That girl grew up rich and is worth 200 million on her own. She might not be a billionaire, but how many people are?

[Opinion Owner]

😆😆😆

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't have any advice for her. I think she's permanently ruined as a human being. She's unfixable.

The only way she would ever be able to have any semblance of growth in his life would be to first get rid of the ego. But it's such a huge part of her identity that I don't think she'll ever be able to do that.

[JustinTheGreat]

It’s all to do with her personality. Many people over the years have had horrible experiences working with her. she's not a nice person and I’m not surprised that men get sick of her quickly

[Meropatrick]

If someone fd u up you once. Would you return back for them for more? It didn't work out the last time when she was still young and hot. Why it would work out the 2nd time when she is old. My advice to her is never to repeat her mistakes and learn to move on

[strateguy632]

Because the first time with affleck she was sad about the broken engagement. Then she got her wish.

[beefcakebradybatson]

STOP BEING A FREAKNIG DIVA, J. LO. !!! You're FIFTY-FIVE (I believe), past the age most of us lads (Particularly THIS LAD) would cater to you 24/7/365/366 as when you were young and HOT !!! Go back to being Jenny from the block, babe !!!

[Asker]

You don't understand how money works I take it. You can be 70 years old and still pull them as long as you have a lot of money. Money also keeps celebrities looking younger a lot longer than most of us regular people because they can afford the trainer that comes to the house, the personal chef, beauty treatments, etc.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm 71 and still look GREAT !!!

[HighValue]

Most celebrities are immoral and date other celebrities that are immoral. They should expect things like that. Realistically, any good person should always avoid most celebrities unless they want lots of stress and drama in their lives.

[Anonymous]

I would advise her not to get into these fake relationships just to get publicity for her hasbeen "career" (what does she even do anyway except media hype?). She cheapens the beautiful concept of marriage in exchange for cash. It's despicable.

[Lx0ne]

1.) You're the problem
2.) Stop getting married
3.) Try becoming a lesbian to see what it's like dealing with a woman so you can have more appreciation for having a man in your life
4.) I'm not religious but definitely seek mental health or find Jesus
5.) Stop making music

[susie22]

She's not marriage material. This is #4 for her if I'm correct, if it were once or twice I'd think maybe it was the guys, but 4 times it's gotta be her. Time to give it up, JLO.

[Asker]

This. I say this all the time. Who are these people out there who are marrying someone who has been married more than 3 times? Like the first, maybe you were young and dumb. Second, maybe hadn't learned from your previous mistakes. Third, maybe they cheated on you...FOUR...four+ though?!? You're either a commitment phobe, have extremely poor taste in partners, or just can't seem to figure it all out. I'm not volunteering to help with whatever that is that has gotten a person to that stage where they perhaps can't see their role in what's happening in their marriages.

[DizzyDesii]

I think they only got back together for publicity. They have both always been horrible people. Two narcissists dating one another. They deserve eachother and im not surprised they broke up AGAIN

[strateguy632]

Obviously marriage has ups n down n arguments.

People don't agree on everything, so learn to compromise. Get a counsel of all people you can afford council.

[silvermoon84]

Don’t recycle old exes. Some on and off couples eventually commit, marry and make it work, but they are the exception. I think both J-Lo and Ben are better off going their separate ways.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I predicted it will last two years. J. Lo can stay single for the rest of hee life.

That woman can't hold a relationship or marriage at all.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t know. I don’t know enough about JLo to know why all these relationships blow up. Maybe she should stop picking the wrong guys, but I don't know exactly what she’s doing wrong.

[paledreams]

Was it because Ben kept eating through fast food or because Ben stopped it seemed working out for Batman? Lol 😆

[paledreams]

I was disappointed to learn the tabloids had been true about separation rumours sigh sigh sigh

[Asker]

This was the worlds worst kept secret. I'm huge on reading body language, but didn't need to even do it here. She showed up alone for her birthday after cancelling her tour and all that drama to deal with that. Everyone knew they were divorcing. They just wanted to announce on their own timeline.

[paledreams]

Ben, according to all the pap videos and pap pics I've ever seen of him, and I'm not judging: he seems to like fast food and treats, huh? A sweet tooth? Without filling out the pounds 😛😃

[lightbulb27]

Would have to discuss that w her directly over tea with wife and i.

[Anonymous]

Stop getting together with Ben Affleck!

Now Jennifer Garner's going to go back with him, then Jennifer Lopez is going to go after him again.

[Iron_Man]

I never liked her. She is the most wishy-washy self absorbed you know what and entitled she’s always having problems in her relationships. I don’t like her at all. her relationships never last. obviously she’s a control freak.

[ariadneR]

Girl it's time to focus on yourself and only yourself (and your kids). Be alone for a bit, don't keep jumping from dick to dick... come on now...

[rosemilk]

that not all relationships have to become marriages

[Asker]

Good advice, now will she hear you is the question...

[AmazonChick171]

She needs to let herself be single for a while because apparently marriage isn’t for her. She goes from guy after guy.

[katiesmuff]

Stay single, apparently your cunt has an itch it just can't fix!

[abc3643]

Keep your snatch closed for a while. After 4 husbands, maybe marriage isn't your thing.

[FreyaRed]

Celebrity divorces smell always like marketing and self-advertising.

[Lynx122]

I don't think there's a point to giving her advice now.

[TDDMS]

Just quit. Four marriages and you failed at all of them. Spend your remaining years as a spinster.

[thearchjoker]

WHO?

[worldscolide]

None, they are celebrities, they shpundt date or marry due to the high level of narcissism present in all celebs.

[TonyMetal___86]

The scum life of famous people, was she really married, she's just enjoying the cocktail of d*cks that she's getting under the name of marriage!

[SeekerOfTruth007]

She needs to grow up and stop acting like a whore all the time.

[Fireguy17]

stay single, you will never be able to last in any relationship.
So is the price of fame.

[woahhh152]

I would advice people around her not to fall for her

[more_than_a_guy]

I would tell her to think with her head more and less from the heart, and not to rush things. She needs to chill and flow with it.

[onedarkcloud]

No marriage just friends with benefits for both parties. Then there is divorce no haggling over settlements quicker. save money for all parties

[DishLady]

Stop marrying losers.

[strateguy632]

Ahem she married successful stars! Not losers.

[DishLady]

@strateguy632 Wife-beating, etc, etc, ex hubby is an f-ing loser. He didn't know how to treat a woman. Now wandering-eye hubby... also a loser.

[OtterMan68]

Stop sending me drunk texts! Enough already!

[Malwi93]

why bothr being married, id just be enjoying my millions

[Anonymous]

Keep going forward

Stay healthy and engaged socially

I'm kinda single myself so I am talking for myself too

Avoid drugs/alcohol

Keep exercising and healthy eating

[Asker]

That's good practical advice.

[noohair]

There is a big difference between lust and love.

[nawtee_me]

Celebs do what celebs do. It is time they both rebrand themselves…. Hollywood go figure….

[dudegreat91]

Hey J. Lo just don't get into a marriage again. Although you will do what you wanna do

[dustybiker2]

She sounds like she light be a lot to live with.

[dustybiker2]

*might

[NathanDavis]

drink more water... JLo

[Staximus]

Who still cares about dumb celebrities?

[BoobMan]

Wait--didn't this already happen?

[Asker]

Only made official a few days ago, however, they did date early in the 2000s and break up their engagement at the time.

[BoobMan]

Oh. I didn't realize they didn't get married the first time around.

[LiamJHayden]

Avoid marrying again.

[PapaJedi]

Leave Hollywood

[art84]

Don't get married for the fifth time.

[elaphe]

I would tell her to stop getting married.

[RedInnocent69]

Stop getting married. You’re no good at.

[ILIVEGODSLIFE]

Make it smell and feel better jlo

[Simslover92]

Focus on self.

[Grond21]

Sounds like that's what she's been doing for her whole adult life. Not working out so well for her

[Anonymous]

She’s rich as hell, doesn’t need my advice