JLO filed for divorce from Ben Affleck after 2 Years of marriage. What relationship advice would you give her?

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JLO has filed for divorce (again) after two years of marriage with Ben Affleck. She infamously funded an Amazon Prime musical called "This Is Me...Now: A Love Story" detailing the trials and tribulations of her love life which included inspiration from real life love notes she and Ben shared and drama from her past relationships. Unfortunately, this marks the end to another relationship for her. Lopez was previously married to Ojani Noa (1997-98), Cris Judd (2001-03) and Marc Anthony (2004-14), and was engaged to Rodriguez during a four-year relationship.

If you were her friend, what relationship advice would you give her?

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Lmfao. Really not surprised. Honestly I pretty much figured it would only be a matter of time. Ben has apparently never been good at relationships, and I think Jen is one of those people who regularly goes through "limerence" with partners. This woman has been in and out of countless relationships pretty much since the 90s.

Being real, I think she is probably low key a whore who gives her body away and then thinks it's love. I also never really thought she was the hottest Latina in Hollywood either like everyone else did. I think she mostly got that image and title because there were few young Latinas in the industry back then. Salma Hayek still beats her out in my opinion.

But yeah, my advice to her would be: start working on your inner self, cuz you obviously still have work to do even at 55. By now you should've been had shit figured out to where you can be in a stable, healthy relationship with a guy. Good luck... I guess.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Celebrities are more likely to have failed marriage than the general population. There are factors like public scrutiny and busy schedules which increases the chances for conflict.

If you aren't extremely mature and have shallow expectations of your partner, you're much more likely to fail.

I don't know much about celebrities and don't follow their life, but the VIBE I get from Jennifer Lopez is more on the shallow side. I can't say for certain, so don't quote me, but I feel like she's not likely to have a successful marriage.

Inafishbowl99 · Accepted Answer

Listen Jen you have been there done that. Went back and done it again only to be reminded why you left. it to begin with !!!
I mean give men up and stop dreaming about the perfect , fairytale love.
It's not going to happen because there is no such thing.
I would sit and do some deep meditation and reflect on what matters to you.
Your not getting younger Jen, you have to much baggage now. So wake up splash out on a nice cruise or a few weeks holiday alone somewhere chilled.
Otherwise you will be making and creating a comedy show of your life.
come on where do you fancy going for a few weeks?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Base choices on evidence and not on anticipation or imagination. I think she saw this ideal romantic figure in her mind and did not process the functional conditions of being in a living relationship that involves mutual accommodation and care, she focused entirely on his visual appearance and cultural charm. She had other husbands that were shorter and less muscular but those other guys were more loyal to her and let her control major decisions and they also had lower standards cause they were not high profile like Ben. She judged Ben by his attractiveness and not by his functional versatility.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ahh, the rollercoaster of love strikes again! If I were whispering sweet nothings (or rather, wisdom) into JLO's ear after this latest twist in her love narrative, I'd lean in close and say, "Jenny from the Block, let's take a breather from the limelight of love, shall we?" 🌟

First off, I'd encourage her to indulge in some serious self-reflection and self-love. With a love story more epic than any Amazon Prime musical, it's crucial to take stock of what makes JLO... well, JLO! 🌺 Finding peace in solitude and embracing the beauty of being alone can sometimes lead to the most profound growth.

Next, I'd recommend taking a dive deep into the patterns of her past relationships. Understanding the dynamics and what led to their unravelings could be key to unlocking patterns that need breaking or loving adjustments.

And lastly, never underestimate the power of love at the right time. Rushing into new romances can be thrilling, but ensuring it's for the right reasons—and not just to fill a void—is paramount.

In essence, take this time to rediscover the love for oneself, decode the past to reshape the future, and when ready to leap back into the arms of love, do so with a heart that's healed and ready to dance to its own rhythm 🎵. Love should enhance your sparkle, not dim it. Keep shining, JLO!

AviatorTom · Answer

I'd advise her to stop getting married. Marriage is obviously not right for her.

V_Injector · Answer

I thought she fucked with Puff Daddy too... doesn't matter.

I think she knows what she's doing and is doing it. I bet she walked away with the cash and prizes from each of her little relationships.

The people that need advice are the fucking retarded men that fall for her bullshit.

She's doing what any long term hooker does... and probably doing it better than most of the long term hookers I've seen sucking money out of men as well as baby gravy out of their cocks.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Other than to take a long break from relationships, nothing else.

Avicenna · Answer

Stay single would be my advice

molonski2 · Answer

That she is far too involved in arrogant " Self " to be involved with anyone , well noted as an absolute bitch to deal with , and will not even engage airline staff without speaking though a " minder " , just a self centred waste of space , don't get married , don't do anything , there is only room for YOU , would be my advice , and simply stop kidding yourself , its not real , then maybe over time you can become a real person , you are only one individual , start working towards reality.

Vegasrunner · Answer

The advice is the same as you would give any 40+ year old woman. If you are seeking a committment from a HV man be prepared to share him, as you don't command enough SMV to keep him indefinitely. Consider yourself fortunate that you've been able to get them to committ to you for the time they did. You've been run through by a lot of guys during your rise to success, so it's unlikely anyone of any status is going to take you seriously. You have two choices for the rest of your life. Be passed around by HV men or settle for an average man.

PolishedMonkey · Answer

I'd say, "girl you better not be giving that money away! It's hard being a crazy rich woman, but it's a LOT harder to be broke and crazy." Up top! I would proceed to raise my hand so that she could slap it in high five fashion to acknowledge that she knew EXACTLY what I was talking about.

Anonymous · Answer

😆😆😆 I wouldn't waste my time advising J-Lo on marriage. She does it a little differently. I don't think she'll ever be permanently happy with ANY one man.

But maybe next time shoot for 10 figures, kind of like Salma Hayek. That poor little Mexcian girl got herself a French billionaire.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't have any advice for her. I think she's permanently ruined as a human being. She's unfixable.

The only way she would ever be able to have any semblance of growth in his life would be to first get rid of the ego. But it's such a huge part of her identity that I don't think she'll ever be able to do that.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

It’s all to do with her personality. Many people over the years have had horrible experiences working with her. she's not a nice person and I’m not surprised that men get sick of her quickly

Meropatrick · Answer

If someone fd u up you once. Would you return back for them for more? It didn't work out the last time when she was still young and hot. Why it would work out the 2nd time when she is old. My advice to her is never to repeat her mistakes and learn to move on

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

STOP BEING A FREAKNIG DIVA, J. LO. !!! You're FIFTY-FIVE (I believe), past the age most of us lads (Particularly THIS LAD) would cater to you 24/7/365/366 as when you were young and HOT !!! Go back to being Jenny from the block, babe !!!

HighValue · Answer

Most celebrities are immoral and date other celebrities that are immoral. They should expect things like that. Realistically, any good person should always avoid most celebrities unless they want lots of stress and drama in their lives.

susie22 · Answer

She's not marriage material. This is #4 for her if I'm correct, if it were once or twice I'd think maybe it was the guys, but 4 times it's gotta be her. Time to give it up, JLO.

Anonymous · Answer

I would advise her not to get into these fake relationships just to get publicity for her hasbeen "career" (what does she even do anyway except media hype?). She cheapens the beautiful concept of marriage in exchange for cash. It's despicable.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I think they only got back together for publicity. They have both always been horrible people. Two narcissists dating one another. They deserve eachother and im not surprised they broke up AGAIN

Lx0ne · Answer

1.) You're the problem
2.) Stop getting married
3.) Try becoming a lesbian to see what it's like dealing with a woman so you can have more appreciation for having a man in your life
4.) I'm not religious but definitely seek mental health or find Jesus
5.) Stop making music

strateguy632 · Answer

Obviously marriage has ups n down n arguments.  People don't agree on everything, so learn to compromise. Get a counsel of all people you can afford council.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Don’t recycle old exes. Some on and off couples eventually commit, marry and make it work, but they are the exception. I think both J-Lo and Ben are better off going their separate ways.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I predicted it will last two years. J. Lo can stay single for the rest of hee life. That woman can't hold a relationship or marriage at all.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I don’t know. I don’t know enough about JLo to know why all these relationships blow up. Maybe she should stop picking the wrong guys, but I don't know exactly what she’s doing wrong.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Would have to discuss that w her directly over tea with wife and i.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop getting together with Ben Affleck! Now Jennifer Garner's going to go back with him, then Jennifer Lopez is going to go after him again.

Iron_Man · Answer

I never liked her. She is the most wishy-washy self absorbed you know what and entitled she’s always having problems in her relationships. I don’t like her at all. her relationships never last. obviously she’s a control freak.

ariadneR · Answer

Girl it's time to focus on yourself and only yourself (and your kids). Be alone for a bit, don't keep jumping from dick to dick... come on now...

AmazonChick171 · Answer

She needs to let herself be single for a while because apparently marriage isn’t for her. She goes from guy after guy.

paledreams · Answer

Was it because Ben kept eating through fast food or because Ben stopped it seemed working out for Batman? Lol 😆

rosemilk · Answer

that not all relationships have to become marriages

katiesmuff · Answer

Stay single, apparently your cunt has an itch it just can't fix!

abc3643 · Answer

Keep your snatch closed for a while. After 4 husbands, maybe marriage isn't your thing.

FreyaRed · Answer

Celebrity divorces smell always like marketing and self-advertising.

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

She needs to grow up and stop acting like a whore all the time.

Lynx122 · Answer

I don't think there's a point to giving her advice now.

TDDMS · Answer

Just quit. Four marriages and you failed at all of them. Spend your remaining years as a spinster.

thearchjoker · Answer

WHO?

worldscolide · Answer

None, they are celebrities, they shpundt date or marry due to the high level of narcissism present in all celebs.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

The scum life of famous people, was she really married, she's just enjoying the cocktail of d*cks that she's getting under the name of marriage!

Fireguy17 · Answer

stay single, you will never be able to last in any relationship. So is the price of fame.

woahhh152 · Answer

I would advice people around her not to fall for her

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I would tell her to think with her head more and less from the heart, and not to rush things. She needs to chill and flow with it.

onedarkcloud · Answer

No marriage just friends with benefits for both parties. Then there is divorce no haggling over settlements quicker. save money for all parties

DishLady · Answer

Stop marrying losers.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Stop sending me drunk texts! Enough already!

Malwi93 · Answer

why bothr being married, id just be enjoying my millions

Anonymous · Answer

Keep going forward Stay healthy and engaged socially I'm kinda single myself so I am talking for myself too  Avoid drugs/alcohol Keep exercising and healthy eating

noohair · Answer

There is a big difference between lust and love.

nawtee_me · Answer

Celebs do what celebs do. It is time they both rebrand themselves…. Hollywood go figure….

dudegreat91 · Answer

Hey J. Lo just don't get into a marriage again. Although you will do what you wanna do

dustybiker2 · Answer

She sounds like she light be a lot to live with.

NathanDavis · Answer

drink more water... JLo

Staximus · Answer

Who still cares about dumb celebrities?

BoobMan · Answer

Wait--didn't this already happen?

LiamJHayden · Answer

Avoid marrying again.

PapaJedi · Answer

Leave Hollywood

art84 · Answer

Don't get married for the fifth time.

elaphe · Answer

I would tell her to stop getting married.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Stop getting married. You’re no good at.

ILIVEGODSLIFE · Answer

Make it smell and feel better jlo

Simslover92 · Answer

Focus on self.

Anonymous · Answer

She’s rich as hell, doesn’t need my advice

JLO filed for divorce from Ben Affleck after 2 Years of marriage. What relationship advice would you give her?

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