One of friend is upset bcoz he doesn't have a girlfriend. So he started sleeping with his maid. What do you think is it morally correct or wrong? Why?

[Anonymous]

It's correct

Not correct

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A total of 15 votes were cast: 5 girls and 10 guys. See detailed results

[AviatorTom]

If it's okay with the maid, I'm not going to judge what two consenting adults do.

[Asker]

I didn't say anything to him.

[ArrowheadSW]

That sounds like the "Seinfeld" episode where Jerry was paying his maid, but it gravitated to where they were only having sex and she wasn't cleaning his apartment. LOL

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Did he force the maid into submission?

That's terribly wrong.

If the maid consented, then their relationship is simply a desperate kind.

[Asker]

No, he didn't force her. He is having consensual sex.

[itsannalee]

The moral is, not everything people do is our business. If they both want it and enjoy it just mind your business.

[Asker]

I didn't say anything to him. I know it's none of my business. I just want to know what people think about it?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the slippery slope of love and longing, aren't we? Mixing professional lines with personal desires can sure create a cocktail of complications. Morally, it's a grey zone—packed with implications about power dynamics, consent, and mutual respect. It may seem like a quick fix to loneliness, but it's like applying a band-aid on a broken heart; it may cover the surface, but it doesn't heal the underlying issue. Encourage your friend to reflect on the reasons behind his loneliness and to seek connections that are emotionally fulfilling and ethically clear. Love that's built on genuine compatibility and mutual respect, rather than convenience, is always more rewarding. Keep that heart open and that moral compass handy! 😉

[ProbablyClueless]

As long as every one is freely consenting; sure, why not?

[Asker]

Yes she knows what she is doing. My friend said She is happy to have sex with him. She is married and have 2 kids. But her husband works in another city.

[ProbablyClueless]

Okay, well if she's married, then what she's doing is wrong.

Why didn't you include that detail in the main question?

[Walksbehindtherows]

According to Christianity it is a sin and I am a Christian

[Asker]

She is a married woman with 2 kids. She is a below average looking woman.

[Taniisokay]

His maid is a lady still. Wrong or right, that's their business.

[bubblegunnn]

He upset cuz he doesn't have girlfriend to love?

Or

he upset cuz he doesn't have girlfriend to have sex?

He surely upset towards his lust. Cuz if he upset he doesn't have girlfriend, he could ask the maid to be his girlfriend tho

[Asker]

She is married and have 2 kids.

[bubblegunnn]

She even married and have 2 fing kids n u guys still fxxx? 🤯

[Nikki1989]

Another one for the “things that never happened” file.

[Anonymous]

Obviously the maid didn't have a problem with it. So what's the problem?

[DrPepper12]

Is his name Arnold Schwartzeniger? 😂 Yeah. It's weird bro

[1073sucks]

I’m sorry that sounds like some cheesy porn scenarios lol can’t believe that actually happens irl

[Asker]

Yes it's true. My friend told me about it. I didn't say anything to him. I don't know if it's right or wrong. He is sexually frustrated 🥴.

[faith_it]

Maids have standards too ya know

[Vegasrunner]

Why would it be wrong to sleep w/ the maid?

[Tashaaaaa]

It is fine if it is all for fun

[Twalli]

Power disparity, bad idea

[HelpfulWoman]

its an abuse of power as an employer...

[Asker]

He told me, he didn't force her. It just happened when his family went on a month long vacation. This maid is close to his family. She is working for his family since 10 years. She knows that he is sexually frustrated. I told him to use protection. That's it!

[Ironco]

Come on man, stop with the trolling

[Ladsin2]

How old is she?

[Asker]

My friend is 35, she is 40 years old married woman and have 2 kids.

[Ladsin2]

She's more than grown.

[Asker]

Yes she is.