My boyfriend dumped me! Will I ever find a man?

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So my boyfriend of two months dumped me. He said it wasn’t me it was him. I finally have a great boyfriend and then he decided he didn’t wanna be with me anymore. I don’t understand. We were hitting it off. He said he met another girl and she likes him and he likes her back. Then he said he shouldn’t have asked me to be his girlfriend in the first place and he fell outta love with me….. well he did have those feelings anyway. I thought my height was going to be the reason but it wasn’t for once. I’m 6’4 and he’s 6’2.
I don’t think I’ll EVER find someone! I guess I’m just meant to be single. 😭❤️💔💖

My dad and bro were right. But how? My dad was like, “I TOLD you. I knew that it was over. I saw that something wasn’t right about him. I told you I didn’t like him. You’ll get over it.”

He didn’t comfort me at all but my mom did and confronted my dad about being more sympathetic to me. What should I do.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

You two may have been screwing your brains out every night, but it was just sex. He may have said he fell out of love with you, suggesting that he had been in love with you, but two months is very quick to be "in love."

"He said he met another girl and she likes him and he likes her back." So you two either weren't committed to being monogamous, or he violated your trust at least by flirting with someone else.

You were desperately hoping that, at last, this guy was for real and he would be The One, so you jumped in and did everything you could to convince him that you were The One for him. Am I close? Many of us have done that in some time in our lives and it didn't work out for us, either.

Learn a lesson so that next time - and there WILL be a next time - you don't jump in so quickly. Protect your heart!

Static_In_The_Attic · Accepted Answer

It’s Not You it’s Me & that is the famous line from Seinfeld which means it’s you but in this case it’s all him. As for me I always say if you never try you will never know & in a relationship that applies as well & in a relationship I rather try & fail rather than not try at all. As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires & sometimes hearts do get broken. As for me I’m sorry to hear your relationship of TWO MONTHS took a dump & if truth be told you’re lucky it didn’t take TWO YEARS for him to realize he was in love with someone else & if truth be told again he’s a cheater & a player & he did you a favor by dumping your ass. As for your username it’s Amazing Chick & remember you are an amazing chick & an amazing guy is out there for you waiting to be found or who knows he might find you instead.

GlitteringWorld · Accepted Answer

I understand you're going through heartbreak, and it's tough, but don't lose hope. Try to see the brighter side—at least he was honest and confessed before things got more serious. It could have been much more painful if he had ghosted or ignored you. At least you got some closure.

These days, dating and relationships have become very superficial for many people. With so many opportunities to connect with others globally, people often separate quickly, forgetting the traditional values that make relationships meaningful. But don't lose hope; someone better will come into your life when the time is right.

jennyPuss · Accepted Answer

Tough tits honey... you're tall. Husbands don't fall from the sky, so why you looking for one up in the clouds?

Unfortunately the combination of your height requirements and personality and character and status and wealth requirements are probably going to leave you out in the cold. What you think of as a "great guy" ... well... lots of other girls also think. So the competition is even tighter than an election featuring people named trump.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, heartbreak city – population, you. But you know what? That city has a temporary population for a reason! Feeling like you'll never find someone ever again, especially after being blindsided, is like the default setting of the brokenhearted. But guess what? It's not permanent.

Here's the thing: Love has this funny way of surprising us when we least expect it. That "I'm meant to be single" vibe? It's just the shadow after the storm. Your ex saying "it's not you, it's me," followed by a swift exit stage left for someone else, is a tale as old as time. It hurts like heck but it's also a giant, flashing neon sign saying you're free now for someone truly worthy of your fabulousness.

Your height, by the way? Pfft. It's not a bug, it's a feature! An amazing, standout feature that the right guy will absolutely adore. Your dad and bro might have tried to do the protective thing, but at the end of the day, you've got this all by yourself.

So, what should you do? First, allow yourself some ice cream and sad movies. It's a process. Then, when you're ready, dust off those high hopes because someone out there is looking for exactly what you've got. Turn the page, lovely. Your next chapter is waiting to dazzle you. And who knows, it might be so good that even your dad will have to admit he didn't see THAT coming. 😘✨💖

ohsheeT · Answer

Haha. . You're adorable..

First of all the reason why you broke up because you weren't meant to be together second of all you will have a boyfriend but you need to do is let this one go and thank him because he was right it was about him it wasn't about you it was about him he was not the guy for you the guy that will be for you..

He will look at you he will see a happy independent beautiful woman that smiles and is not talking about her ex-boyfriend or his height and her height when she smiles her eyes project her heart and how smart she is and how why she is and how happy she is you just started life you just don't realize that you got lots and lots of time it'll work it'll happen after you acknowledge this guy's gone and you thank him for it because I'm going to guarantee you you're going to be 10 times happier

Finchie40 · Answer

You will find someone else , just put your ex on the dumpster and move on, you will eventually find someone that wants you the same way you want them

AviatorTom · Answer

You found one boyfriend. Go find another. There are lots of men out there who are boyfriend material.

osmanthus · Answer

Listen to your dad. He's got more experience than you (even if he's sounding callous). Trust me when I say guys are scum these days and not much like men of your dad's generation. Today's men tend to be disrespectful, cowardly, and entitled and make do with excuses or cop outs to avoid accountability and commitment.

Berethor · Answer

Finding a man with your very masculine height is hard, if you still have your virginity then you have something to offer to other man, that's why the most safe thing is to wait until marriage.

sawno · Answer

You are still at your prime, you will find someone better. I don't think your height will be a deal breaker. Yes you are taller than me which I am not used to and I prefer a girl who is shorter than me. But if that's the downside to dating you who cares you know? If you have the things I mainly look for in a girl i'd still fall in love very deeply.

RubyFrench · Answer

Id do my best to get over if i was you. It was a two month relationship. Thank your lucky stars he didn't break your heart after longer. You will soon find somebody and dont worry about all the comments about your height ^ There are lots of tall fellas out there and like you said it most likely had nothing to do with it. A lot of people go through what your going through.

Sugar100 · Answer

I’ve never had a guy ask to be his girlfriend. At least u got to bring a guy to meet your parents. No guy wants meet family onlu sex. So don’t be sad at least u got a label from the guy I never gotten a label from boys it’s my dream a guy to meet my family & his

lightbulb27 · Answer

Is your name Taylor Swift?

just kidding...

It happens and sounds like is for the best eventhough it doesn't feel best.

Yes you will, heal up, start again. You have to take your lumps so you appreciate the one you get more.

Byte131 · Answer

One thing I've learned is "What is meant for you will not pass you by" don't let this get you down, and they always say you'll find someone when you least expect it. So you do you and someone will fall in your lap, per say.. I know it's rough being single, but keep your head up. Always something to learn from the people that come in and out of your life.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Your first problem is @amazonchick171 is that you forgot to message me when I posted in your thread =P

Surely · Answer

Don’t be so hard and down on yourself. When you stop looking. Usually that is when something will happen.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i gave up when i was 30 but don't do what i done friends with benefits is never good keep trying but do things you love to do along the way

FunkyMonkee · Answer

SURE! There's LOADS of single me around, like me.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

His loss. I’m sure you will. But height may be a challenge in the short-term. Don’t get me wrong, I love tall girls, but not all guys are comfortable with taller girls, and most girls expect taller guys. 🤗🤗

Anonymous · Answer

Try hooking up with a black guy! He won't care how tall you are, and you'll enjoy the sex more anyway.

Dongie · Answer

No. You will look around 35 years from now, realizing how fast time moves. Be alone except for the 27 cats and sigh...

msc545 · Answer

Sorry, but you might have dodged a bullet - better to have this happen early in the relationship then after a few years or marriage...

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

As the Velvellettes and Mitch Ryder sang when I was a boy," (There Are) Too Many Fish In The Sea," so OF COURSE YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO FIND A MAN !!!

renodnol32 · Answer

Yes. You've dated guys. So surely you do possess desirable qualities and a personality. Just be patient and not tolerate nonsense from people. Keep your standards and head held high.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

2 months ain't that long, you as a girl easily find another partner

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

If he dumped you then he isn't "great", especially if he didn't even comfort you. Just don't give up looking.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I got dump a few months ago, I know exactly what you're going through

Jackblue · Answer

You are still very young, you will find someone else.

jjj101010 · Answer

Of course u will. U found him so u will find someone else

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Your dad and bro are men they knew he was a wrong un, he was cheating on you doesn't DESERVE YOU

Anonymous · Answer

You are a tall girl so you got everything going for you, men love tall women. I love tall women :) -Hugs-

Vanny20 · Answer

There's always that one special person out there meant for everyone

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

Why do you want to find a man? To get married (because adultery is a sin)

MasterKS · Answer

if you use same amount of brain, it will always happen!

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

nah some r js meant to b single

Consent · Answer

@billlewis is there for you

eagle1951 · Answer

sure you will

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