I realy like this woman and she's displayed some interest in me we are friends but we're both married. What would the best way of seducing her be without ruining our friendship should she not want to go further were both pretty adventurous and have seen eachother naked/played games a good number of times I've had my hands just under the elastic on her panties outside of games, I've massarged her very frequently and we frequently tell each other we love the other person. I've no interest in ruining our friendship but I wondered if there was a way to see if there was anything there without talking as I think she'd just deny it straight out, even though I definelty belive there's something their.
Doesn't take much effort, you just have to be more masculine and attractive than her husband and she just has to be available. If she dresses sexy away from him, and makes eye contact, she's looking to cheat. She'll dress plain when she goes out to cheat though. As a way to throw her husband off.
Then, all you have to decide is if you're a degenerate lowlife that wants to participate in ruining a family. Remember, she's not looking for just sex, she's looking for an upgrade. She'll have sex to see if you'll stick around, and if you do, she'll try to get you to commit. If you don't, she'll go back to the drawing board.011 Reply
Asker1 ySounds like your talking from experience where I'm probably coming from desperation and frustration. She does dress sexualy both with him and without him we hang around and have only realy gotten as far as cuddling minus the finger tips down her panties, he wasn't their I was kissing her neck and she moved her head to give me more space would that count as willingness or am I reading to much into it.
I'm not sure if I'd be able to cheat or allow her to either but it would be nice to know if she's interested in me I don't get any interest affection or more from my side where as she's like a Jack rabbit with her guy.- 1 y
Technically you guys already cheated. That's divorce worthy. It also sounds like she's into stringing you along. She's testing you right now too.
The irony here is that what you should do (stop trying to fuck her) is also your best shot at fucking her. Eagerness is gross to women. And she already gets enough dick, so she needs something else.
The other side of it is to be 100% straightforward. "This is what I want. I'm not going to waste my time, but I'm also not going to pressure you." And if you fuck her, do the right thing and tell her husband right away. He deserves to know. Some say it's wrong to fuck her. I say if she's already trying, you might as well do it and get the divorce date moved forward a bit.
Asker1 yWhat makes you think she is trying, just so that I'm aware of it 🤔
Asker1 yAs in what actions from what I've said makes you think she's trying?
Asker1 yWhat do you mean by going back to the drawing board? You mean you think she'll be looking for someone else?
Asker1 ySo the nudity is when we're all their my partner and hers usually as part of a game. The kissing is one way me to her as is the touching and it's not been anything over sexual as I said I've not touched her brests or vagina the furthest I've been is the first inch below her elastic. She let's me and moves for easier access when kissing / touching and she will initiate hugs that last longer than they probably should. Do you still think she's trying to? Or does this change the perspective?
Asker1 yCan I ask why you think that, I'm only interested to see if I can see what you do from your perspective?
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1 yDon’t fuck with someone married, ever I don’t care if she’s attracted or not. Number one you’re going to ruin more then friendship.
People have gotten KILLED messing with someone else’s spouse before, people have gotten sued before, people have had kids out of wedlock, people have gotten a STD, and the list goes on. If you think she’s being brazen with you then it’s not her first time cheating. You don’t know who or what she could have been in bed with…. Anyone really.
Most people the first time they physically cheat they are EXTREMELY careful. When they’re brazen they’ve probably done it many times.
Dont fuck with someone married EXCLAMATION POINT !!!
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1 ySimple try wooing her with money and hope she is a greedy glutton and slut :) ☺
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Just like you :)
1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. You have to get her husbands permission first
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Even through you should have tell you are way more naughty
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1 yAsk your wife to have a girl-talk with her, letting her know thst you are interested in her. Then stand back and see where that goes.
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Asker1 yThat sounds a bit dangerous, I mean the four of us are good friends, but out side of a group setting that sounds like a bad idea.
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1 yBy seducing your own, not someone else’s.
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1 yAssuming all four of you know about the games you play, that would mean that cheating probably doesn't mean a lot. I would first clear it with my wife, and that just ask her in a casual way like "would you ever wanna fuck?". I think since you're really sexual with her already, i don't think she would make a big deal out of it even if she doesn't want to.
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Asker1 yWe do as we play them all to gether but we've never swapped. I don't think she'd make a deal out of it and I do think she'd keep it between us (her and me) but I'm not sure what she'd make of it or if she'd be up for it. Maybe I'd we had reached the point in the games where we were swapping she'd be more open for it but I wouldn't like to push in the game setting 🤔 and I'm not sure how she would take it outside of that setting, we've kinda talked about wether swapping in games would happen and she seemed to think not based on where we're currently at.
Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yFind out whatever her husband is not giving her or not giving her enough of and then give it to her much better.
Women are not loyal to men, women are loyal to her feelings. Know what drives a woman's feelings and every door unlocks. It's just a matter of time and effort.
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Asker1 yQuestion is what is it he's not giving to her?
2.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Step One. Pay off your life insurance and make sure to name a beneficiary for when her husband kills you.
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Anonymous(30-35)1 yyou just have to be better than her husband is some way or multiple ways
like being taller, wealthier, fitter, better looking etc.
the secret is her feelings > her loyalty
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Asker1 yWell I think I've been very supportive, and I think looks, fitness and hight are subjective and dependent on the individual. So I'm not sure it's nesaceraly something I can excell in.
Opinion Owner1 yfor looks that depends on how much of a difference you have
if it's like Henry Cavill vs Chris Hemsworth? yes it's subjective but Channing Tatum vs Jonah Hill? now that's more objective
fitness and height are objective and can be measured though
being more sexually attractive definitely helps
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m 1 yThe best way is to offer her what she misses, which is probably attention lol
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Works for you too, she will seduce you by giving you the attention you need
Asker1 yLike the thinking and I'm not sure it's attention I think it's companionship, her other half often works long hours or frequently over night. Generally speaking she only messages when he's not their.
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You describe her need of attention, in spirit, she lacks connection, you provide connection. Again, this process might work on you too, from her
Asker1 yMaybe any ideas how to get her craving that attention 🤔 not message her for a while though I don't think that will work it's usualy her ignoring mine lol. Though I have tried to pull back on the conversations already. I don't know what do you think?
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When I read your description again, you're absolutely not friends, both your behaviors clearly demonstrate that you are aroused by each other, seduced by each other. The problem here is acceptance, denial and morality. Yours and hers. That part is tricky indeed, it solely depends on how well you are competent in deconstructing her resistance to admit what really happens.
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Again, valid for you too, you are being seduced as well as being seductive, you are facing a turning point in life as much as her
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u 1 yHere's a better idea. Don't.
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1 yhave no morals.
have no ethics.
Hope the married woman has no morals and play on her lack of morals and her dishonesty
10 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I hope you get caught in the act and the husband has the worst reaction imaginable. I hate cheaters.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Don't mess up what you have. I am talking about you friendship and your marriage. If you want extra sex, find it else ware.
00 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. How about don't be a shit bag and keep your dick in your pants there, Casanova
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1 yIf I even knew the answer I wouldn't tell you.
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1 yJust go out with her and talk to her about it.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)1 yDick pics? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Unless you're too small of course.
00 Reply317 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Do the washing up.
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Asker1 yAlready do that if I'm over lol.
7.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. You are looking for trouble.
10 ReplyMaybe use some punctuation.
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1 yJust don't. Work on your own marriage.
00 Reply Have more money than her husband.
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Asker1 yThat's a given and she knows that 🤣😂.
1 yMessage me about this
00 Reply8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Ask her husband. He'll know
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1 yYou shouldn't.
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1 yWow, this is terrible!!!
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1 yYou don’t.
00 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. BRO... SHE'S MARRIED. FIND ANOTHER BITCH.
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Anonymous(18-24)1 yDon't do this, it is a sin.
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1 yDon't.
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1 ydon't do it dirtbag
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