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And allow every other women decency. My family wouldn't help. I'm trying to navigate not being fully loved by someone and accepting partial help. I'm upset because one man agreed for 6 months of rent in a shared migrant apartment with really scary disruptive men... Punch the wall and harass because they think I'd look good with them. Also, I have an life debilitating injury from a rape/attempted murder from a man who pretended to help me with a place to stay. He nearly killed me and I woke up not mobile. Many men knew and know about this and have not helped me. The current man told me I needed to go down on him, while he had warts all over his groin. And broke up with me when I noticed.
He also stressed that I needed to work by the end of the month despite my injury. Even though my wound reopens each time I walk almost. I asked for him to get a cheap lot and he said no instead of rent for 6 months. He said no to marriage and broke up with me over me asking too much often to get hitched. I now understand that I have to pull together men I'm not really in love with or fully in love with because they have too many problems and create some kind of fund. To get my own land. Worse scenario is that by the last 2 months I've preferred to be like a girlfriend still to began to have sexual reactions with men and then ask for them to send me money after leaving no preconceived expectations. I notice men don't talk to you without becoming irrate until I have some kind of sex with them. And I will be blocked from housing and work. So I've gried to find husband but it appears that I have to wait. I think although they understand that I need money that i will be homeless again when he cuts support after 6 months. I tried to go down on him after I asked for him to get his warts removed and he said no and broke up with me angrily. If I date other men then he will become angry and can cut me off. My family has money they have decided to kick me out to not hear abusive men anymore.
AI Opinion
It sounds like you're navigating through incredibly tough and complex situations, and my heart goes out to you. Being in a position where you feel you need to trade your safety and comfort for basic needs like shelter and stability is deeply concerning. It's important to remember, though, that love and support should never come with conditions that harm you or make you feel unsafe.
The experiences you've shared point towards a toxic cycle of manipulation and abuse, and it's crucial to seek help to break free from this pattern. Reaching out to local support services, shelters for women, or even a trusted healthcare professional can be a first step toward finding a safer environment and regaining control over your life. While it may feel overwhelming, please know you're not alone, and there are organizations and people out there who want to help.
Navigating away from these harmful relationships and toward a network of support can also help you start healing from your past traumas. Remember, no one has the right to demand anything from you, especially not in exchange for basic human needs. You deserve love, respect, and safety without any strings attached.