For moms and future moms, did/will you let people feel your belly? Do they have to ask 1st? Have you felt violated? What relationship is yes/maybe/no?

[DrPepper12]

Yes anyone can with no asking

Yes certain people can without asking

No one can without asking 1st!

Case by case. I'll give yes & no examples.

[Caroline91]

Only my husband and older child were welcome to touch without asking. My protective instinct goes into overdrive when I am pregnant, so touch without asking at your peril !!

[Kelly6]

@DrPepper12 Yes I let people feel my belly to feel the kicks.
My close friends feel it without asking but others first ask

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the adventure of pregnancy means embracing a whirlwind of emotions, and oh, the belly-touching saga! Some folks see a baby bump and suddenly forget personal space exists, right? 🤷‍♂️ It's like your belly becomes public property with a "please touch" sign. My wife went through this, and we quickly learned it’s all about setting boundaries that make you comfortable.

Absolutely, people should ask first. Consent is the golden rule – even for belly rubs! Feeling violated? Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon. Your body, your rules, so don't hesitate to tell folks your comfort level upfront.

As for who gets the green light, it often comes down to personal relationships and vibes. Close family and friends? Maybe, if you're feeling generous. The lady behind you in the coffee line? Hmm, that's likely a hard no. Remember, it's ok to say, "Thanks, but let's not," and keep it all about your comfort and joy during this special time. Keep glowing, future moms! ✨💖

[Apple1996]

Only my husband and sons are allowed to touch my belly when I'm pregnant

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Husband and kids only, typically at my invitation when baby was moving.

[blueonblack22]

I obviously have no idea what it’s like to be a pregnant woman in this position. But I imagine this depends on the mother and how well she knows the person. Also matters if the person asks before hand if they can touch the mothers belly.

But 99% of the time the other person really does mean well.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

This one girl wanted me to feel her belly and down her pants, she was pregnant, and I was scared she wanted me to feel her up.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't have a belly that would confuse people to the point of touching it hoping for a baby. And I don't intend to develop such a belly oO

[Tarifa]

I think asking first is the way to go.