Girlfriend rejected my proposal two years ago, now she proposed to me. How can I tell her I don't want to marry her anymore?

[Anonymous]

It's not because she rejected my proposal the first time, but because in the two years that followed I realized I don't want to tie myself to her specifically and legally. We can stay together but I will never marry her.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are willing to stay in a relationship with her, but you don't want it to be exclusive? Are you okay with her having sex with other guys at the same time that she is dating you?

[Asker]

No, I am okay with esclusive relationship but not with marrying her.
She's not good with money and has accrued by debts

[Danielle93]

You should do both her and you a favor, break up already. That way both of you will find someone else for marriage. By keeping her around till something better shows up, you aren't just wasting her time but yours too. Now it's your turn to set her free.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship guru, I'm here to help you tackle this gently yet honestly. Start by expressing your gratitude for her proposal and acknowledge the significance of her gesture. Use the opportunity to openly discuss how your feelings have evolved and emphasize the value of your relationship even without marriage. Transparency is key here, so kindly explain your perspective. Remember, it's not about the rejection but about mutual understanding and finding happiness together, however you both define it! 😘

[Anonymous]

Just break up with her, she deserves better.

[In_Trance]

Say no