I fell in love with a man much older than me and he doesn't believe me. How do I prove to him that I love him?

[Anonymous]

He is extremely rich. He is 60 years old. But I have no interest in his money. I just fell in love with his personality. But he doesn't believe me. This situation breaks my heart.

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1 y

He said he would marry me if I signed a prenup

[Finchie40]

Sadly you are going to have to prove to him that you aren’t just after his money , you are best to focus on making your own money and not rely on him to take care of you , if you truly love him you won’t ask him for a dime , He is probably used to girls’ using him for his wallet , so he is going to have a hard time believing a beautiful young girl is really after his heart instead of his wallet. So you are best to get a job and pay your own bills and be independent, and just treat him the way you want to be treated , make him your priority , ask him out on dates and don’t expect him to pay the bill , you pay for him since you asked him on the date , Most rich guys’ just assume girls’ are just users and are only after one thing , his money. Money has nothing to do with someone’s’ love for someone , if that’s their intentions, than that relationship will not last. Most men want a partner not a user. So you are best to treat him as a partner and not rely on him to pay for everything.

[Anonymous]

Offer to marry him and sign whatever pre-nup he offers

[Asker]

In love marriage, no contract is signed.

[Summeroflove]

Asker in a love marriage you have trust. You’ll sign the contract because you’re not planning on divorcing him. The same as you have car insurance not planning on getting into a crash.

Maybe he sees right through your BS and that’s why he’s moving on.

[hahahmm]

Funny how anonymous male answered your question and then you try to argue with him. But he's 100% right. Now it sounds like your love is for his money. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[Nikki1989]

The same way as anyone else, but remember big age differences in relationships can sometimes lead to misunderstandings and skepticism.

[Anonymous]

You’re in your thirties and can’t figure this out? Smh

[Sabretooth]

this is a real mess.

[AI Opinion]

What a classic tale of misunderstood love! As a relationship coach, my aim is to help steer you through turbulent waters. Age differences and skepticism can cause confusion, but love has no age limit, right? 😊

Show your genuine affection through consistent actions, like thoughtful attention to his interests and shared experiences. Engage in meaningful conversations that reflect your admiration for who he is, not his bank account. Be patient; trust takes time, especially with such an age gap. Your sincerity will shine through eventually, turning skepticism into belief. 🌟

[HawkPerception]

Since you don't care about his money, tell him you'll sign a contract that doesn't allow you to get his money after he's gone. That's pretty convincing.

This is why it sucks to date when you're rich. At least if a girl is willing to stay with us when we're in the trenches, we'll know she's a keeper.

[Summeroflove]

How doesn’t he believe you? Look…. Point blank I tell everyone this. If you’re the one putting all the effort into someone chasing them… Move on grieve it now so that you don’t waste your time on it.

If he is interested in you then you made your move and he knows where to find you a lot of times people need to stop hanging onto people who probably aren’t even that into them or for whatever reason rejected their advances.

[Alwayreckles93]

Good Job you made the best choice. You know mature smart wise older guys are capable of making their own choices and are the head of the house whole. Unlike stupid millennials guys who are momma's boys and the Karen boy moms make life a living hell. Long time ago I used to date men my own age it wasn't until he betrayed me not only that his mom made my life a living hell I suffered and I did cry a lot for him he never. Now he is age 30 unmarried living with his mommy so close to his mommy last thing I've heard his mom chase all the woman away from him. The woman who gets to marry my ex that means his mommy is included in the package. Eww gross. Older men know what they want and they don't call mommy for permission or opinions. Yet millennial guys wonder why we want choose older men. You are choosing wisely.

[RingOfFire]

Is it that he doesn't believe it, or he isn't interested in having a relationship?

He may just be trying not to hurt your feelings.

I will say though it is difficult for a wealthy man to trust a woman who professes love for him. You can never be sure whether it is you or your money they are after. So it changes your outlook on the whole topic.

[hahahmm]

Yes but I would think the other part is if she was actually his ideal woman he might not care. But she's not.

[SuchSightsToShowYou]

I mean, how do you know this guy? Do you work with him? Is he like a family friend or something?

You can show that you're not just interested in his money by showing that you appreciate other qualities that he has. But it's easier to do that if you spend time with him in person. Assuming you have a reason to do that, since I guess you won't be dating him anytime soon.

[OfDeath]

The only way is to take his wrinkly nut sack into your mouth and show him that you love it and even if he was 80 years old and being treated for lung cancer with an oxygen mask, you would still do it with as much enthusiasm. That’s what true love is. If you wouldn’t do that, you don’t really love him.

[Garud]

ask him to make a will that all his money will go to a orphanage or somewhere else and you will not get a penny from it

[Asker]

Bullshit

[Garud]

then the old man is right that you are only interested in the personality of money and money only

[Asker]

No no

[nawtee_me]

Sign a prenup saying if anything happens to him you get none of his money. That will show him you are interested in him and not money.

[Asker]

Bullshit

[hippio]

No darling it's not. If you love him then you shouldn't be concerned about what happens to his money. Tho non of my business if i may ask is he married?

[hahahmm]

@asker so if you know everything why did you ask? I know you're full of it... any woman really into a man will sign a prenup. And if the guy is really into her the terms of the prenup will be fair/generous too. But trust has to be earned. You're like someone who wants to win an Olympic gold medal but you're too lazy to get off the couch and even get in a local competition to get to that level. That old guy has standards and you're not impressing him.

[jshm2]

You don't. You're a gold digger and are trying to work your way in.

[MikeTheBartender]

Stop trying to prove anything, enjoy the time together. He's not trying to dump you right?

[MikeTheBartender]

He said he'd marry you if you signed a prenump. So he does love you. ❤️

[Anonymous]

He just happens to be rich and your love just happens to be genuine.😆

Like the stripper with the heart of gold.😆

[blackeagle007]

Some things don’t add up with this. What if he wasn’t rich? Employed at McDonald’s 🤔

[Crazzyyworld]

U cannot love scumbag u only steal it from them

[Crazzyyworld]

You should come out as a thief. At least he will pay for your service. It’s a good deal

[Anonymous]

Does he has kids of your age? Or is he divorced? Or still married? All this things can be a factor that he doesn’t believe you

[Anonymous]

What's the problem? Is he taken? Not interested in you? What?

[Opinion Owner]

You should be all set then, no?

[SolitarySolace]

You don't. You just want his money. Don't lie

[Texaskid1]

Make him many tasty sandwiches.

[Summeroflove]

Only offering something that any low IQ person can do. Isn’t offering much. If all someone has to offer is a menial task I can do myself. They ain’t worth it lol

[Anonymous]

Offer a prenup.

[Pterodon]

Sign a prenup

[KrakenAttackin]

😂😂😂😂😂😂