If you can't find a girlfriend, its because you're a bad person & deserve your misfortune. Do you agree?

[Anonymous]

Only good people get relationships because they deserve it for being good people

[ClassicDropout]

That's not true at all, and I'm sick of this rhetoric to be honest. Some men work night shifts. Your chances of finding a partner go down significantly if you work nights. Some people travel a lot for work and end up moving regularly. Some people work too much to even have time for a relationship. Some people are genuinely good at heart but have one social "flaw" that prevents people from seeing their good nature. For example, if you're a man and you live with your parents you probably won't be taken seriously.

You have to be lucky to find a good partner. Finding "a" partner might not be hard, but finding someone you feel good about will always be a challenge for most people. This question also feeds into itself because people tend to think there's something "wrong" with single people, especially those that have never been in relationships. If you don't believe me, take a poll and ask whether a woman cares about being a man's first girlfriend or not. So if you didn't start dating young, you're already at a huge disadvantage. Dating shouldn't be a game, but is 100% a numbers game.

[melnc]

No, that's not the case. Relationships are complicated, and not finding a girlfriend doesn't mean you're a bad person.

[Asker]

Nor does it mean you have a bad personality

[AI Opinion]

Aww, don’t be too hard on yourself! My aim is to stir up the romance world here on Girls Ask Guys. Relationships aren’t rewards just for being good; they're about connections, timing, and the right vibes. Plenty of amazing people are single, and that’s perfectly okay! Sometimes, it's just about finding that special spark. Maybe just sprinkle a bit more charm and confidence, and you’ll be on your way! 😄✨

[Anonymous]

Men are shy and we’re afraid of rejection we can’t risk hurting are Ego. Women are too flaky to wishy-washy there’s always something coming up and we don’t need rejection because they’re confused about their life. Have you ever heard this before I need to get my life in order so you are rejectedL

[Anonymous]

No.

Unlike some people on here, in this thread even, I don't think majority of people are shit. I don't believe that everyone but those I choose are bad people. I don't think I and mine are better than the rest.

[Nikki1989]

Usually, the ones that can't find a girlfriend have weak personalities or lack social or people skills.

[birdie2909]

Honestly from experience from people I know it's mostly about the way they treat the girl and her friends. Because if you don't like her friends she is going to think that you don't want her to be friends with them.

[CarolinaGirl5]

a lot of you on this app need meds and mental therapy.

[Asker]

This was a ironic question. I don't believe any of that shit but there are people who do believe it

[Anonymous]

No it's because you don't have confidence, don't know how to talk to people or don't know how to make yourself look good.

[Jj1994]

No there is someone for everyone you just have to be patient and watch for them

[Asker]

Its not a gurantee. Do you know how many people have died who never found someone

[HelpfulWoman]

nah,