Girls, do you forgive wandering eyes?

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TonyMetal___86 Follow
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What do you mean by wandering eyes? Does he have to be blind, i can be married and look to everyone, looking at women is a part of looking at everything...
It's not about who he looks at, it's about his intentions, if i look at many girls but in my mind there's only the girl that i love than that's what matters!
Plus we are talking here about decent looks and not the looks of drooling over women and saying some weird sh*t!

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godfatherfan Follow
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There is nothing to forgive. We are human. Men and women don't stop being attracted to others just because they are in a relationship. However, if the guy (or woman) is doing it flagrantly in front of his SO all the time, that is a problem. You need to respect your SO.

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thegreenyogi Follow
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Eyes are made for looking. It's human and nothing personal. And it's not only men that do it. Women do too. So I forgive and laugh it off. Taking oneself too seriously is a mistake in my view.

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- thegreenyogi
  
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  Thank you!!
  
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- bananathunder
  
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  right? Why have eyes if you can't look at beauty :P
  
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- thegreenyogi
  
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  @bananathunder I couldn't agree more!! And thank you for the compliment!!🤭
  
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- bananathunder
  
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  Welcome! ;)
  
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CindyRuns Follow
Guru Age: 38 , mho 49%

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Nothing to forgive.

My husband and I had this deal... Window shopping is OK. Just stay out of the store.

I don't mind seeing hot guys any less than he likes seeing hot women

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- paledreams
  
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  Wow what imagery lol 😆
  
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- genericname85
  
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  based!
  
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mandyfire98 Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 27

1 y

People look. Relationship or not.

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- Danny_dan92
  
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  Exactly. Acting on it, is a different story.
  
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Laciejordan Follow
Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 60%

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I don't make a big deal about it but I'll let him know I saw it! 😉

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- paledreams
  
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  Oh dear surely that doesn't mean the first sign of trouble in paradise? 🏝️
  
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- paledreams
  
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  No matter how big or small 😕😊
  
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PeachyPie93 Follow
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If I'm not there I don't give af.. But when I am there that mf best be at least pretending I am the most beautiful girl in the room or I will ditch him.

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Cutea Follow
Xper 4 Age: 27 , mho 50%

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Check elsewhere, I'm already leaving. I know I already have someone looking at me if you check others

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- KrakenAttackin
  
  1 y
  So you already have the next guy lined up.
  
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- Cutea
  
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  @KrakenAttackin I already know people who are interested but to whom I never gave a chance
  
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- KrakenAttackin
  
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  So you have one foot out of the door. This is why men won't commit.
  
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- Cutea
  
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  @KrakenAttackin his lost. Why would I accept a guy looking elsewhere? If he thinks I am not enough for him, I don't want him that's it. I stay loyal to someone I love, I know who might be interested but in general I leave people unread as I am not even interested to responds to these guy friends. The only times I will respond will be when I want a reaction from my boyfriend. But if you mess up why would I stay? Both partner should respect each other. If I see you always busy or being too friendly with other girls, do you really think I will sit, watch you and wait? It is not having one foot out of the door it is just know that people want you, but in case you mess up it is too bad. When I say I know who might be interested this does not mean I will date these people next.
  
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debbiedenise Follow
Yoda Age: 44 , mho 48%

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Guys are visual. I don't care where he gets his appetite up as long as he comes home/is only with me. Guys are going to look. That is ok. Just don't act on it.

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__Nikki__ Follow
Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 32%

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It depends on scar wandering eyes means exactly... If it's literally just looking at others and noticing them, of course, there's nothing to forgive.

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- __Nikki__
  
  1 y
  What* (not scar!)
  
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kinkynicci Follow
Xper 7 Age: 46 , mho 36%

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I could care less if my man looks at other women. Chances are we would trade comments on her looks even.

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EmmaMary Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 37%

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I'm in full and total agreement with @CindyRuns we've had this same golden rule for the past twelve years.

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emeraldsaphire Follow
Yoda Age: 31 , mho 63%

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lol who cares if they look at someone. I look at people too.

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- bananathunder
  
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  lol right?
  
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nastyb Follow
Explorer Age: 27

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would you forgive me if I checked out a guy way hotter than you while I was on a date with you?

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danielle872024 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 39

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Yes happens all the time. the eyes admire what finds appealing.

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Danny_dan92 Follow
Master Age: 34

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Everyone looks. The conversation is different when your partner acts on their glances

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_Andromeda_ Follow
Xper 3 Age: 35 , mho 46%

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Chances are I'm looking too! But you get no more than 5 seconds and she better not catch you. 🤣

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- Founding_Daddy
  
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  LOOKING AT WHAT@?@?
  
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- _Andromeda_
  
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  Whatever he's looking at! Most likely tits an ass. Women make it hard to ignore these days
  
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- Founding_Daddy
  
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  wait
  you look at ass and tits too?
  
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paledreams Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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I doubt many women would or do lol ♀️ ain't that right ladies? 😄

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Apple1996 Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 29

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Nah I wouldn't

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- Ladsin2
  
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  Doesn't even make sense. You thirst trap guys on GaG. Think he wouldn't take a gander at someone woman flashing her lingerie? Silly.
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 my husband shows off my thirst traps
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 he doesn't look at other women out of respect for me. And he also just doesn't care to since other women serve him no purpose
  
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- Ladsin2
  
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  Lol K
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 the only time I'd be okay with it if he was trying to bring in a girlfriend for us but that's different than having a creeper wandering eye lol
  
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- Ladsin2
  
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  Your man trying to prevent a wandering eye.
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 I don't like men creeping on me when I'm out. Online thrist traps are different because it's more controlled
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 he acutally does have sight issues 😆 lol
  
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- Ladsin2
  
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  There you go.
  
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- Apple1996
  
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  @Ladsin2 it's low key such a good quality. He can't see how ugly I am 😂
  
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Iron_Man Follow
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They do as long as you don’t take advantage of it and act on it

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serious_miss419 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 37

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They wonder off and never come back. Nothing to forgive 😂🤷‍♀️

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Anastasia06 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 19

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Sure but my eye also wonders. Also it wonders at train wreck.

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Unit1 Follow
Master Age: 31

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y'all eye on cute boys too.

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- Asker
  
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  I don't.
  
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Agape93 Follow
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Yeah, that's not an issue for me.

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elizamichale1 Follow
Master Age: 31

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Yea no harm in that

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CarolinaGirl5 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30

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I have a wandering eye too🤣

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- Founding_Daddy
  
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  @CarolinaGirl5 what do you look at? o. O
  
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- CarolinaGirl5
  
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  @founding_daddy it's rare that I do but if he's a man of a foreign background I am very intrigued so I will look but if he's just an American then eh no
  
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- Founding_Daddy
  
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  How do you know if he's American?
  
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Jj1994 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 32

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Especially when it’s the same girl

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Ladsin2 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 33

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Might as well, every man is going to look.

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Abbycado Follow
Master Age: 21 , mho 41%

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Who’s?

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BlckGrl Follow
Yoda Age: 24

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Nope.

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Plugs Follow
Yoda Age: 25

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Never

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Crazzyyworld Follow
Xper 7 Age: 45

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Men r dumb

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- TonyMetal___86
  
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  Women are dumber, so it's dumb and dumber 😏
  
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