Have you ever cheated on a boyfriend or girlfriend because you just couldn’t help yourself?

[samet7777]

[Screenwriter]

This is a joke. There is no such thing as, "JUST COULDN'T HELP YOURSELF."

It takes directed effort to cheat on a partner.

You need to find someone to cheat with. You both need to decide to cheat. You need to meet that person somewhere at a time convenient to both of you. You need to take off your clothes, then have sex with that person.

There are MANY STEPS TO CHEATING. And there are many sections in the steps where YOU CAN STOP. So, just can't help yourself. Yes you can.

If someone wants to cheat, they ignore all the stops. Why? Because they don't care about their partner or their relationship. Why? That's what has to be found out.

Maybe the cheater wants out. Maybe the cheater has a sex addiction. There are a hundred reasons. ... Maybe the relationship has run its course. It's up to the original partners to decide if anything is salvageable.

[emeraldsaphire]

What do you mean "couldn't help your self" They could stop them selves, unless they were raped or had some kinda mental breakdown or whatever.

I'm a lot more forgiving to cheaters them most I think, but you gotta take some ownership. Cheating is a choice, often one that is taken time and time again. Sure there are lots of factors and things that can effect you. I don't think we have true free will, but you make it sound like they wouldn't be responsible at all.

[Finchie40]

No, not because I couldn’t help myself , I cheated because I chose to cheat on her because she treated me like shit and this other girl didn’t , I knew it was still wrong and selfish of me to do , but I knew I was ending it with my girlfriend immediately or I wouldn’t of screwed that girl

[FunkyMonkee]

Never!! I'm VERY loyal!!
My ex-fiance wanted me to, twice but I never did.

[AI Opinion]

As the relationship guru here, let's dive into the spicy tea! 😏 Cheating often hints at deeper issues, like unmet needs or lovebombing gone wrong. It's usually more about escaping something than irresistible attraction. That said, keeping the trust alive is key! Falling head over heels should be for your partner, not the thrill of the "new." If you're thinking of straying, it might be time to communicate or reassess the relationship before it’s ghosted into oblivion. Keep it real, lovebirds! 💘

[Potteplante]

No, I could've helped myself, said no and broken up with my then boyfriend like a responsible indivual. At 15 I just wasn't that responsible (nor always so kind to myself or those I cared about/truly cared about me)

[AndreeaScker]

Yeah, many times. I kind of think with my clit, but I get so much pleasure I don't care

[Oldschool1981]

My wife has a side guy. She just really likes men. I knew this from day one, so I'm okay if she brings guys home

[DtMe89]

No, but I do know someone who has, well, lots of people actually

Black people, like Steve McNair, and white people, like Donald J. Trump

[KrakenAttackin]

No, never. I actively avoided situations where temptation would be present.

[Abbycado]

Nope

[Loki97]

Is it cheating if your woman knows?