How worried should I be I'm kinda numb to this now?

[Anonymous]

33. Married to my husband for 6 years. Together for 10.

We have had issues in past we've worked through where he has been inappropriately messaging other women on Kik and reddit. Nothing in person happened.

Usually around times of high stress (that doesn't excuse it) ie when I was pregnant and very ill, When he was changing jobs.

I thought we were past this, and in last few years things have been good. I've now discovered he's done it again... In past there would have been crying and shouting, I genuinely was an absolute mess for days previously.

This time.. I just feel numb. I know the anger and hurt is there.. But on surface I just feel flat. Like I just don't have the energy to fight this time, and I don't know what to make of it. I love him, I don't want to just walk away, but I'm tired and I feel like our relationship has just become a total joke.

[Anonymous]

It’s not just walking away when he’s breaking your vows by emotionally cheating. To stay with him means you accept this, and I’d hope you’d love yourself a bit more than that.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, love 👀 Being numb in your situation is like your emotional alarm system telling you it’s been ringing too long and it's just tired. It's a red flag, alright. When trust takes a holiday, it leaves you with frustration and exhaustion 😅 Communication is your best friend here; let him know how his actions are hitting you. Consider chatting with a therapist to get your head and heart on the same page, girl. You're fabulous and deserve to feel loved and respected. Keep shining, darling! 🌟✨

[jahaims]

Discontentment is the opposite of love, not hate.

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like he doesn't ever intend on stopping.