Who admits when they're wrong more? Men or women?

[ManOnFire]

Who do you think more often or is more likely to admit when they're wrong, particularly with the opposite sex? Men or women.

Men

Women

[ohsheeT]

I really don't know on this one

I can tell you this though probably about six seven years ago I was having a conversation with one of my friends and I was telling her that she was wrong the way that she perceived what happened and she was telling me I was wrong
And it must have taken us 45 minutes or so but I kept playing it back over and over in my head
And then it came to me and she was right I was the one that was wrong
But I sat there for a few minutes looking at her and I said you know what you're right I'm wrong and then I told her in detail everything that happened and she goes that's right that's exactly what happened I said I know and I said I'm sorry I really am

Because in that 45 minutes I can't plan it over and over and over and I kept telling her she was wrong

And there was a moment when it all came to me I even asked myself do I really want to tell her I was wrong and I had to say yes

But I told her and she started crying and it was just one of those moments where I felt like a brand new person because I was able to say look I was wrong you were right and ever since then if something ever comes up like that I'm not afraid to say that I'm wrong that's for sure it's just part of life things happen but I'm not afraid to admit that I'm wrong ever

[ManOnFire]

Wow. I wonder if she ever did or would've admitted to you that she was wrong in any other situation.

[ohsheeT]

I.. don't know. But that was another reason that I had to tell her that I was wrong because I was just basically showing her that it's okay to be wrong and say that your wrong. .. did I mean I thought I was right so our whole conversation and then finally what it all came together for me I realized it's totally wrong

[Anonymous]

men are more likely to admit they're wrong once they swallow the red-pill

most men are raised to believe women are angelic beings who can do no wrong and are victims of the patriarchy that's "stopping" them from having a career, deleting their own babies and holding them accountable for their wrongdoing

often men will side with a false rape accuser, the cheater, be the beta orbiter who tells a woman her spouse is "controlling" for not letting her act single just so he might sneak in and get some pussy

women on the other hand (especially feminist women) hardly admit when they're wrong about anything let alone being wrong about men, even when surrounded by nice guys and simps, they still think of men as evil upholders of the patriarchy and will do anything to protect the sisterhood via the no-snitching rule

[ManOnFire]

This is FIRE🔥

[Opinion Owner]

apologizing doesn't necessarily make someone wrong

plenty of women out here apologizing for "misgendering" trans people. they even apologize for cheating but when they get caught. there's no regret for the feelings they got while committing infidelity though

[ManOnFire]

That is also very true.

[Opinion Owner]

also the moment your debate opponent begins slandering you, calling you all sorts of names, you know you're right and won the debate. usually it's women who begin insulting you much earlier than men do (sometimes men never do this at all outside of feminist men)

[ManOnFire]

I was telling a friend of mine this the other day. When women resort to slandering you or using low blows it's because they really can't prove you wrong and they know it, so they think they can win by distracting you with personal attacks.

[Opinion Owner]

sometimes I wish more men understood this instead of trying to justify that they're not what they're being accused of and just be straight forward with it

there's no need for men to tell accusatory women their whole life story of how easily they get laid or they have a wife and daughter so they can't possibly be an sexist, incel, misogynist etc. because those women would just keep denying you and accusing you of lying

if they accuse you of being a "woman-hater" or any similar label, throw it back at them and tell them to prove their claims. usually when they try to prove it, they end up revealing a lot of hate inside themselves

[ManOnFire]

"throw it back at them and tell them to prove their claims."
- This^ This is exactly what I do too. And when I ask them to prove what I said wrong, they can't.

[Opinion Owner]

if they haven't already blocked you and ran away you could further press them on why they accused of being a "hater" and the more you press them, the more her hatred would be exposed

let a woman talk long enough and she'll expose everything about herself - that's the key

funnily enough you could do the same thing to feminist men too and expose their virtue signaling

[ManOnFire]

"let a woman talk long enough and she'll expose everything about herself"
Yep this is true. A woman's silence also tells you a lot as well. Women's actions reveal a great deal about them, even when they think they don't.

[Opinion Owner]

the funny part is when they think they can gaslight us as if we don't know the playbook already

sometimes it's all about standing your ground. even if she denies the evidence e. g. of her cheating on you, just walk away and watch her suddenly confess to cheating and show regret

[Apple1996]

I've never had a genuine apology from a man so gonna have to go with women. I think in general women are more self aware and know when they are doing something wrong. Men will think they're right all day long then when it comes around to them being wrong there isn't a apology or one that isn't genuine. I can't even count the amount of times I've pulled something up on Google proving a man wrong and they get pissy about literal facts

[ManOnFire]

Has a woman ever apologized to you? Or to your dad?

[Apple1996]

Many times yes! And me and my sister have said sorry to my dad before so I know that for a fact. Probably have said sorry even when we shouldn't have lol

[MissTrix]

Women say sorry more often!

[AviatorTom]

Women are never wrong, even when they are wrong.

I learned that lesson a long time ago.

[blueonblack22]

A better question would be: who admits their wrong more often out of general principle vs what’s in it for them?

A woman will apologize (sometimes over apologize) when she’s afraid of losing something that’s valuable for her. So if she still finds a man attractive, he has money, she needs him for social “optics”, etc. then she will apologize because there is still something in it for her.

But if a man can offer none of those things then he’s literally expendable to her. She won’t waste her time admitting she was wrong and/or apologizing. She doesn’t give 2 sh*ts how he feels in that scenario.

[ManOnFire]

That is an excellent observation.

[blueonblack22]

And it’s really the whole crux of “modern” women. They demand to be special JUST for existing.

Men inherently know they are NOT special just for existing. It’s not that we want to be treated special and/or have a pity party. We just want to be respected out of general principle.

For example a man politely says hello to a woman that finds him unattractive. It takes her mental effort to exercise her initial “oh he’s so creepy looking” impulse.

Not to say she can’t have that feeling. Fair or not that’s unfortunately natural for her. But she can make a decision on HOW she reacts to that. And it takes mental effort for her to do the right thing (remain calm yourself and react respectfully).

Women are fully capable of making the right choice in those scenarios (and some decent still do) but fewer and fewer of them want to exercise their self nowadays. Their “truth” is “expressing themselves” by unfairly being rude to men who did nothing wrong and men are supposed to just act like it’s no big deal.

[blueonblack22]

*exercise self control

[ManOnFire]

Bro, for the love of God please write a Take.

[Anonymous]

My dad apologizes whenever he realizes that he was wrong, I've never gotten an apology from my mom in my entire 29 years of life, and she knows how to cut gods damned deep. She's said things to me that if she was a man I'd have punched her in the face for it with a closed fist. I basically avoid her as much as possible. She wasn't a bad mother, but she definitely wasn't a good one either.

[Staximus]

I don't know when the last time was that I heard "I was wrong" come out of a woman's mouth

[DaBiggestBird]

I think is like asking if it’s worse to get murdered by an angry moose or a starving bear.

[FenixG45]

Depends. Both can!