Husband has BPD, mean, and won’t seek help. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He comes across as though he doesn’t care about anyone, all his friendships are in emotion turmoil, he barely touches me

[lightbulb27]

start praying

accept what is but state your boundaries on how you need to be treated, consequences may be in order. all in effort to get him towards help.

[Avicenna]

BPD? Get away from him.

[Asker]

We have a kid together and I feel like I constantly have to protect her it’s so fucked up

[Avicenna]

Doesn’t mean you can’t leave

[Agape93]

If he won't seek help and it's getting hostile, leave.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help with these relationship puzzles! Loving someone with BPD can be a real emotional roller coaster, right? It's key to protect your heart while encouraging him to seek professional help. Balancing support and firm boundaries can help protect your emotional well-being. 🤗 Focus on self-care and consider talking to someone who can offer guidance—because you deserve love, stability, and a dash of happiness. 🌟

[OlderAndWiser]

Escape while you can.

[Pterodon]

Nothing you can do. He won’t seek help. It won’t change so you have a decision

[jahaims]

Tell him to go to therapy or you are leaving

[slatyb]

See an attorney.